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Q: I have an ipod mini, but it wont turn on. I had it for a while now, and it hasnt been able to turn on since last night. Its not on hold, and i dont know what to do. Please help
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You hold the play button down to turn it on. Or if that doesn't work try charging it.
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Q: Okay Im friends with this girl, but not that close. I found out from sombody that she cuts herself and gets abused by her dad. I dont know if i believe this but for a fact she scratches her arm and makes it bleed and seems very proud ( with her nails ). Also her dad is strict with her, with school work and all... but a lot of parents are? Is this a bad sign? Any suggestions? thanks
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Well I know you wanna help her, but you're not that close to her. Until you know for sure that she's getting abused and cutting, stay out of it. If you told her about it and it wasn't true, don't you think she'd be offended? If you do find out that it's true, help her out if she wants it, or encourage her to get help from a professional. That's the best you can do. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do.
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Q: My lip is bleeding really bad from being chapped. Is there a way I can stop it? It's a reddish black and I'm about to go to school so it's going to look weird. Any tips?
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The best thing for chapped lips is Blistex chapstick. Or just plain old vaseline.
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Q: There aer these two girls in my year, lets call then Kate and Tara. Anyway, they have always been pretty slutty and worn loads of make-up and stuff, so I've never really liked them. But now for the school talent show they are doing pole dancing. Pole dancing! Parents and even grandparents are coming to the show! It really annoys me how they think everyone WANTS to see them writhe about on stage in next-to-nothing, and I am soo angry about it. Do they have absolutely no dignity?
Anyway, I guess my question is this; do I say somethin to them about it (remember, these girls are have lots of 'friends' and won't say no to a fight) or do I just simmer in silence?
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And they'e allowing that in school??? That's bullshit. I completely agree. I mean, does the principle know about this?? If he/she doesn't then tell them. If they have permission, then I guess that there is nothing you really can do. I highly doubt that they would allow it though. Well, good luck and hopefully it's not too embarressing.♥
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Q: ok there is this guy he is my friend and he won't stop touching me or saying all this sexual stuff. He's really making me mad i don't know how to tell him because he's my friend, plz help.
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Well, if he is your friend, he'd most likely understand.It's sexual harassment, friend or not. If it continues report it because you should never feel uncomfortable especially if he's you friend. Good Luck!! ♥
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Q: I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway.
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I know that deep down you want help. Your just way too afraid to ask. What you need is to let all your emotions out because if you keep all of this in you won't have good mental health. Maybe you can tell one of your close friends all of your troubles and maybe she/he can help you talk to an adult. It's always good to have a friend by your side. Don't ever think that those out there who are meant to help you are wasting their time on you. That's what they'e there for. Please talk to someone because if you don't sooner or later you will regret it. Things aren't as bad as they seem!!!
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Q: what should i say during an akward or scilent moment
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Well if if the people you are with have a sense of humor then say something really funny or random. Try to start a conversation. I'm not really sure what else to say or do. Just be yourself!!
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Q: Ok, me and my friend Jessica got in a fight that was ridiculous and I had no idea what it was about. She was always wicked mean and shes like oh yeah you think your allll that and I was like No... and so we ended up ending our like 3-4 year friendship. I miss her, she was a TRUE friend, before..that is. What should I do?
Signed,
A Engineer with no travelers.
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Well....obviously she wasn't your TRUE friend if she faught with you for no reason and she was really mean. I wouldn't be her friend again, but then again that's just me. You may feel empty without her but try and make new friends. GOOD friends that don't fight with you just for the hell of it. Lots of Luck!!!
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Q: Hey, this is mainly a question for girls. Alright, I have shaving gel, shaving cream, everything and everything to make shaving easier..and my legs smoother. EVERYtime I shave, which is usually during my shower, the day after..I have razor burn. It is..disgusting. Little red dots, and hairs..are already all over my pale legs. Is there ANYTHING I can do to prevent this? After I use a shaver three times, I have to get a new blade..is this normal? Becase..otherwise, the third time I use it, my legs get cut everywhere, and bleed. It suckssss. Help me, please. :/ Thankss.
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Well, you could be allergic to the shaving
cream(s) that you use. You could also have sensitive skin on your legs. Try switching the type of razor and cream(s) you use. See if that helps at all. Or you could try one of those electric shavers.It's harder to cut yourself that way and there's no cream needed. Plus it'd probably be easier on your skin then a razor blade. Good Luck!!
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Q: I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!?
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I agree. It pisses me off. This is a place for advice not critcizem. Hence the name ADVICEnators. The people who think it's funny to taunt a person in need should be kicked off the site. Thats my opinion and I'm not changing it. Thanks for speaking up about this. It's about time!! Peace and Blessings...
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Q: Lately I have been noticing that down around ,y vaginal area I have been kinda itchy... and like I went to the store and bought some kinda cream stuff but the last time I out it on it was like my skin was pelling! Can some1 plz give me an Idea on what I have?
Thanks.. I rate 5's!
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Sounds like a yeast infection or some other type of vaginal infection. Go to the doctors. If your skin was peeling then maybe you had an allergic reaction to the type of cream you bought. Good luck!!
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Q: Ok well i wanna pierce my belly button but my parents won't let me. So, i'm gonna do it myself. What are some good tips for piercing your belly button and wut type of needle do ya need...thnx a bunch
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Well, first off, if you don't even know what you're doing, then maybe you shouldn't be piercing it yourself. There are risks of infection and ugly scars. You should wait until your actually ready and then go to a professional.
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Q: There's this guy that i really like at school. I found out a couple of months ago that he was in "love" with one of my friends. However after a week she insisted that nothing was going. NOw ive fallen for him, but he tells me he is still in love with my friend and just wants to be mates with me. However she is just flirtig with him for fun and wants nothing more. Now he is still flirting with me and i really dont know whats goin on. Help
Claire, age 15
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Guys love to flirt even if he just wants to be friends. It sucks to be in your position though. I've been there and I know what your going through. If you wanna flirt and have fun go right ahead...I mean your friend says nothing's going on. Good Luck!!
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Q: I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16
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It's natural. Don't worry hormones WILL take over. If you enjoy it then you shouldn't have to stop unless your medically concerned. Have fun!!!
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Q: There is this kid at my school who has been following me around eveywhere since 4th grade, hes really sweet and all... but he thinks i love him. What is up with him, should i tell an adult or just let him go do his thing and yell at him if he gets out of hand? *im in 8th grade by the way*
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Well things could get out of hand. If it gets to a certain point where you feel uncomfortable and you literally can't take it anymore, then tell an adult. He kinda sounds like a stalker. Be careful and good luck!!
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Q: Well what happened is my and my friends are great together there is only 3 of us and we are really close, but for a while now my friend has been going on about this girl she met at a club and they have become really good friends and she and her have become best friends i mean that me and my other friend have been her friend longer we have known each other since we was little and it seems like this other girl sarah it toltally taking her away from us help us please elly and lisa will rate
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I know it sucks. I've been there. It may seem like this girl is ruining you guys' relationship, but I'm sure if you all are best friends nothing like that will happen. Get to know the other girl. Maybe she's cool! But you should tell your friend how you feel!! Good Luck!!
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Q: Okay i need help with....see i like my best guy friend a lot...but i cant have him..and tonite he asked out one of my friends...and yea i kno i should feel happy for them and im trying to...but i was wondering do you know any quotes about this?? thanks in advacne
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I have a quote perfect for this situtation:
Loving him is something I'll never forget, missing him is something I won't regret, losing him will be hard to accept, But seeing him with her is the most painful yet....
Hope tihs helps!!
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Q: Hello, I'm new. sorta! I used to have a old column but my new column username is "Cheer!Advice" and I was wondering if anyone knew of cheer icons, or graphics I could put on my site? I tried to google but I didn't get much. Thank you!
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Heyy!! Try www.carrielynnesworld.com. They have everything you can think of for advice columns and websites. Hope this helps!!
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Q: Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?
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It's definately possible. Some couples that are married today are "highschool sweethearts". I think it's very sweet and romantic.
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Q: OK, when I was younger I had this really good friend. Then one time we got in a fight and went to the principles. My mom doesn't like my ex- friend. Let's call her Lucie. Well, I have a really good friend now and let's call her Peggy. Well Peggy has brought me and Lucie toghter and we have become really really good friends. Well, tomrrow night, Peggy invited me and Lucie to spend the night. My mom said yes. Then today, she asked who called and I said Lucie. And she was like are you friends with her. And I was like yea and we may be going to the mall on Sat. And my mom was like all uneasy. She doesn't like my new friend! What should I do?!
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Well, she saw you go through all that pain with Lucie before. She just doen't want to see you get hurt again. Try explaining that you and Lucie have settled your differences and are really good friends now. Lucie has to earn your mom's trust back. Don't worry :)!!!
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Hey guys! I've been off the site for a while but I'm back! So you can feel free to ask me anything you want. I give the best advice I can to any question asked. I try to answer each question truthfully, honestly, and straight up. My advice can be good or bad, it all depends on how YOU take it. Feedback and ratings from questions answered help me out on how well I'm helping you guys out.♥
xOxOxCassandraxOxOx
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Dracut,Mass Occupation: Student Age: 14 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 30, 2004 Answers: 142 Last Update: October 2, 2005 Visitors: 11029
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