There aer these two girls in my year, lets call then Kate and Tara. Anyway, they have always been pretty slutty and worn loads of make-up and stuff, so I've never really liked them. But now for the school talent show they are doing pole dancing. Pole dancing! Parents and even grandparents are coming to the show! It really annoys me how they think everyone WANTS to see them writhe about on stage in next-to-nothing, and I am soo angry about it. Do they have absolutely no dignity?
Anyway, I guess my question is this; do I say somethin to them about it (remember, these girls are have lots of 'friends' and won't say no to a fight) or do I just simmer in silence?
chaos answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 6:15 pm: There has got to be a teacher that is sponsoring this event. You need to approach them. They don't have to tell you who did spilled the beans. It would be a shame if the whole event was stopped as soon as they got on stage. If you cannot tell the immediate teacher, corner someone else at school that has authority that you trust.
They can see for themselves what is going on. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
jokerzgrl answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 5:18 pm: Tell the parents at a pta meeting.Or just tell your parents who will hopefully spread the word to others. I'm sure they will be outraged, but if these girls have friends like you say they do, get people who will honestly have your back. IF you tell the parents, I'm sure they will go to the administration, and they will have to do something about it. That way, you'll show those gilrs the world doesn't revolve around them, and they can't get away with murder, no matter how cool they think they are. And if for some reason, administration doesn't comply, let them do there little strip tease, and watch them get a low- level response from it, if that, that should snap them back to reality.
MAd Love,
Victoria [ jokerzgrl's advice column | Ask jokerzgrl A Question ]
duzzie19 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 4:39 pm: the best thing you could do is not do anything. it is not your responsibility or your problem. if you involved yourself, you'd get into trouble, too. so stay calm. if you really need to tell some1, than talk to a teacher or someone of authority about what they are going to do...you might think it is gross, but the teachers know it is inappropriate. however, try your best not to go against your friends, if they are friends. [ duzzie19's advice column | Ask duzzie19 A Question ]
THOSEGirls answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 3:52 pm: I would talk to whoever is in charge of the talent show. If these girls offend everyone's parents, the school might have to stop letting you do this kind of thing. You don't want two people to ruin it for everyone. [ THOSEGirls's advice column | Ask THOSEGirls A Question ]
pink xx intentions answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 2:54 pm: well first of all, who honestly care what they do? its not going to embarrass you right? you should just not say anything and let them be either ambarrased or punished for pole dancing at a talent show for school!
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