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Who the hell does he like
There's this guy that i really like at school. I found out a couple of months ago that he was in "love" with one of my friends. However after a week she insisted that nothing was going. NOw ive fallen for him, but he tells me he is still in love with my friend and just wants to be mates with me. However she is just flirtig with him for fun and wants nothing more. Now he is still flirting with me and i really dont know whats goin on. Help
Claire, age 15
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Guys love to flirt even if he just wants to be friends. It sucks to be in your position though. I've been there and I know what your going through. If you wanna flirt and have fun go right ahead...I mean your friend says nothing's going on. Good Luck!!
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If this guy wants to flirt with your friend, there really is nothing you can do about it. Sit yourself down and ask yourself why you really like him - because you really do like him, or because someone else 'has' him? If you really do like him, then stick around, be yourself and try not to interfere - he'll only see you as annoying for it.
For now, you'll just have to hold on and be there for him when he realises that your friend doesn't love him back.
Blessed Be and good luck!
Rach xxx
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I can relate. There was this guy who I liked and we would flirt all the time,it was great untill I founded out that he like my best friend and it got me mad when he was still flirted with me, but in the long run we ended up together and I couldnt be happier. So I think that you should just wait and he'll come to you. Trust me!!!! it will all work out
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!1
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Get rid of both of them. First your very young to be worrying about guys and all that stuff. I know it feels good physically to be with a guy and you can feel very emotional highs, but...it's also very spiritually and mentally draining and if you're not ready for it can be very damaging. With that said your friend is not a friend to do this to you. If she was genuinely interested in this guy then fine it's all fair game. But what she is doing is making you feel bad that he wants her and not you. She's trying to make herself superior to you, probably because deep down inside she feels inferior. Whatever the case may be really doesn't matter. What does matter is your happiness and internal peace. You are not going to feel that with a so called friend doing this to you. In addition the guy is doing you a real disservice. He is playing both sides of the fence. He wants her but if he can't then you're his fallback. Honey you're not anybodys second best. So drop him. You don't need either of them. You'll have plenty of good friends and a boyfriend when the time is right. All you need is you to feel good about you. I'm willing to bet if you stop talking to both of them and stop giving either of them attention all of this will die down very quickly and you can get on to being you. Hope I was helpful. That's my advice.
John
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your crush is just playing hard to get so make him jeolious if u know he likes you and if he does get jeolious you will know he likes you and he is just playing hard to get.
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