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stupid guy
ok there is this guy he is my friend and he won't stop touching me or saying all this sexual stuff. He's really making me mad i don't know how to tell him because he's my friend, plz help.
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dude hes just really horny. give him what he wants.
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If hes your friend, you should be able to pull him over to the side and say, " I don't appreciate you touching me, chill it with that shit!"....Maybe not as harshly, but you know what I mean. Our friends should be people we're comfortable around, and if we're not comfortable around them, then, what are they for. Or if you can't do it yourself, have another friend do it for you, but its best if you do it yourself, then it will show you're serious about the situation.
MAd Love,
Victoria
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tell him that you dont like what hes doing. friend or not he has no right to disrespevt you like that. just let him know it bothers you. chances are hes joking and will stop and he doesnt who cares no needs a friend who doesnt respect your wishes.good luck and hope i helped
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Most of these pieces of advice are sound, but should be used in a certain order.
First, try talking to him. Don't do it in front of friends, but don't go off somewhere all alone either. Somewhere were people can see you, but not hear you if you keep your voice down is best. A public place, like a restaurant or school is good. Don't depend on him for a ride home from where ever it is either. Let him know that your uncomfortable with his inappropriate touching and sexual comments. Get him to agree to stop. If he doesn't agree, he's not your friend, and you should avoid spending time around him.
Then, the next time he does something inappropriate, make eye contact and shake your head, or quietly and quickly remind him. The word "no", even when spoken quietly, is a powerful word. You don't want to embarrass him yet. If it seems like he's really trying, keep it at this level for a while, and see if he does get better.
If he doesn't respond properly to a quiet reminder, go ahead and just say it out loud for everyone in the conversation to hear: "don't touch me", "you agreed that you wouldn't make comments like that", "that was rude". If this doesn't work, try to avoid hanging out around him, because he's showing you a marked lack of respect and is not your friend.
If he follows your around, or if your in situations where you can't avoid him and he doesn't improve enough, you need to bring an authority figure into it.
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deffinitly do NOT let him. bcuz then he and other guys will think you are 2 easy/availible! say dont. b like "ya ok, haha no not cool stop" and laff it off...if he keeps doing it. tell him that its annoying you.
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You need to come out and Tell him that u don't like him like that and to please stop and if he doesnt i would suggest not being friends with him. But its ur choice if you have more questions E-mail me at TexashotT04@aol.com! Hope this Helps XoX Meg
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Just because he's your friend does not give him the right to make you feel uncomfortable. If he was/is a real friend, he'll be open to you letting him know how you feel.
It's best to be upfront and honest - tell him specifically the behaviours you don't like, what you expect from a male friend, and that you would like to continue being his friend if he stops treating you this way.
A real friend does not treat us ways we do not want to be treated, especially if we tell them to stop. Friendship is about respect and communication.
Stand up for yourself!
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Well, if he is your friend, he'd most likely understand.It's sexual harassment, friend or not. If it continues report it because you should never feel uncomfortable especially if he's you friend. Good Luck!! ♥
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just flat out tell him to stop or you will resort to an authority figuer or an adult. this is not right girl, don't let him do this to you, i used to have guys that did that to me too while i was walking through the hall and that and didn't do anything, its not a good idea to let it go. but anyways, if hes a true friend he won't be offended and will stop immediatly, if he is rude/offened and gets mean about hes not worth haveing as a friend.
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Well, if he really is your friend, you shouldn't be so afraid to tell him what you think. Just be honest with him and tell him he's bothering you when he touches you.
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just go to him and in a nice way and you could say you are my friend and i want it to stay that way but when you touch me and say sexual stuff it scares me and just be calm and nice about it and he may understand that and stop
hope i could help
- kellie
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next time he does something tell him to stop it. just say that it makes you uncomfortable. he might like you and want a relationship but if you dont feel the same way then tell hime to back off.
~ANGE
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You need to just be like "Stop It" or you just need to talk to an adult.
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Charmed-Cherry21
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You need to come straight out and tell him. You need to get the point across. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable. If he's your friend, he'll understand. He might not have any idea as to how uncomfortable you are. Hope my advice helps!
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Just tell him straight out and he should respect your feelings. If he doesn't, then you don't want him as a friend anyways.
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Make your body secrete a powerful acid from your pores.
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juss come out ans say it wen he trys to touch you or say something sexual juss say stop it and if he doesnt get the hint then keep saying and be like "no! im serious it makes me uncomfortable" and dont hang around him alone if he doesnt stop!hope i helped please rate! xOx risSii
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