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I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. Everything is going OK but I'm really just not happy with him being my boyfriend. We don't have anything in common and so it makes it hard to talk to each other since there isn't anything we're really both interested in. I'd rather just be his friend, I guess, because he's a good person but just nothing that makes us really compatible.
Last night we were on the phone and I knew I had to tell him my feelings about our relationship. I told him that I had been thinking of breaking up for awhile because I think we're better suited for different people and he totally blew up. He cried at first and I tried to calm him down but then he started talking about being depressed and that he can't stand to lose me. I was freaking out because I've never dealt with this before and he has never said anything about being sad like this before to me.
We talked some more and what it came down to is him saying to me that if I leave him that he will kill himself. His dad owns a gun and he knows where it is and how to use it. Last night he said he would go get it and blow his brains out while we were on the phone talking about breaking up. It really scared me because he was sounding serious about it.
I don't want him to kill himself and I especially don't want to be blamed for his death if he does commit suicide for some reason. I can't be in this relationship and I don't know how to get out now. I told him last night that I was sorry and that we would stay together but that isn't what I want at all. I'm so afraid of saying the wrong thing now and starting up this kind of conversation with him again.
Please, help me, I'm trapped. What do I do now so that he doesn't hurt himself and so that I can move on?
If you are not happy in the relationship then you have every right to leave it. However, As for your boyfriend you need to confront a parent about it let them know what he said to you. You should not have to feel pressured into staying with someone you are not happy with yet alone "pretend" to be happy when you are unhappy. If your boyfriend loved you he would at least have the respect to let you go instead of making threats to get you stay in a relationship against your will. IF your boyfriend chooses to harm himself no it is not your fault, It will never be your fault. All you can do is let an adult know about what he is planning/doing and let them take it from there. You are not responsible for his stupidity you have a life to live. If you aren't happy you need to move on
During the sex (wether normal or oral sex) I find my penis going soft and ... bendable, this is unpleasant for both me and my girlfriend because we can't go on...
Is this a physical or a psychological problem and what can I do about it? I really am uncomfortable with the fact that it might grow weak before we have sex.
Is it because I'm not horny enough or I don't find my girlfriend attractive? I'm 18, please help me... thanks!
As I am not a doctor and cannot say what you do and don't have but I will say you might want to take a look at the link below...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erectile_dysfunction
If this is what you think you might be experiencing then I would consult a doctor.
I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 18..we've been together for 2 and a half years and I just don't want to be with him anymore.
He is driving me crazy..he's extremely controlling and obsessive, where he calls and texts me 24/7 and if I don't answer a text while I'm at school or something then he'll text over and over and start calling. I haven't hung out with friends for real just about the whole time we've been together,because he gets so jealous about it and accuses me of doing stuff with other guys, but whenever he has ever had the inkling to hang out with friends then he will and he'll ignore me.
So idk I'm just tired of arguing with him constantly..every day is a struggle. I find myself like looking out my window and getting paranoid when he calls cause I feel like he's gonna just show up..cause he's done it before.
I've been trying to cut back onthe amount of time we spend together, because we used to be together ALL the time. So now I've been using school and stuff as an excuse to not spend so much time together,but it's not making anything any better..he's just getting more obsessive and it's gotten to where i can hardly stand to be around him..I just want out. But I feel bad about it because we've been together so long and he talks about wanting to marry me soon and all that..plus he's got a bad side and I'm kinda afraid he might try to do something crazy..
anyway..I just need some advice please!
Obsession and actually loving a person are two completely different things. If he can't trust you enough to give you the respect you deserve then obviously this guy isn't going to respect you at all. Whether that means talking to him, taking time apart or possibly being friends. Nobody wants to be with someone that is going to watch them like a hawk 24.7 a relationship is about trust and without any trust there is no relationship. You need to dump him. Don't let him do the sweet talking because men who are controlling have a tendency to tell woman what they want to hear when it comes to leaving them. If you two weren't able to work things out in a 2 and a half year period then I'm pretty sure things aren't going to work out now, 2 months or even a year from now. When you dump him be blunt about it tell him how it is, After all he had the balls to disrespect you and invade your privacy and he has it coming. When you do dump him cut contact, Ignore his calls, texts, and emails because the longer you are in contact the longer you prolong your pain and the harder it will be move on.
I want to get a piercing. I am thinking clit piercing..how can i get this being under 18 without a parents permission? [RI]
Most places will require an ID for proof of age and if you are under age it will also require a parent to sign. There are places out there that probably don't require ID or signing but the chances of that they probably don't have sterilized needles and this is where you need to be careful. Many people who chance piercings without going to a professional end up with complications such as puncture vain, Infections and unsterilized needles can lead to STD and god knows what else.
My girlfriend and I both believe she has the symptoms of depression. Her sleeping schedule can never remain stable and she typically sleeps an average of 14 hours a day, more or less. She's home a lot since she's currently unemployed and has had no luck with jobs she's applied for. She doesn't really have any friends locally since she moved here a year ago. She basically just has me and my family. I've been trying my best to help her, but being the only one working, my time during the day is limited too.
What makes matters worse is, i'm making barely enough to make ends meet and neither of us have health insurance. I've looked up local clinics and plan on calling in the next couple of days to see if we can get any free services.
I guess what i'm posting to ask about is advice from other people who have gone through or have been very close to someone who is depressed. Should we turn immediately to prescription drugs? Personally, I've always been one who turns to medication as a last resort. I can't speak for her though, but if I can offer any input or ideas, i'd like to. I've considered things such as maybe taking short walks together in the morning before I go to work and in the afternoon when I get home, trying to help her out more in seeking work, and basically anything to keep her brain busy and prevent her from just mulling around all day. Like I said, these are all things i've considered and nothing i've executed yet since i'd like input.
Anything you can offer would be helpful. I'm just seeking out first hand knowledge or someone knowledgeable on the matter. Thanks in advance!
Like Holly had said below a healthy diet will help balance her depression. Also, You could try to get her into counseling there should be clinics in your area. I'm not sure what state you are in but some good places that could help are South Shore and Bradley. If she doesn't have insurance then I suggest trying to apply for it in the meantime you could try to find a clinic that has a payment plan. Sleeping 14 hours a day is not only very unhealthy but it will only make her depression a lot worse, Try to get her out of the house. Even volunteering will help a little, Babysitting etc. I can't tell you to turn to prescription drugs but I can say I think she needs to talk to someone and I don't think medication would be such a bad idea.
EDIT: If she recently has been unemployed she can also try to file for unemployment
Alright so.. I'm just gonna jump right into it I guess.
throughout highschool I was in a relationship with someone that caused me a lot of pain and stress. we dated for four years and then ended on really bad terms. at the time, I thought I loved him, but in retrospect I definately did not. But I stayed with him because inside I was terrified that if I ended things, no one else would ever want me.
But eventually we did break up and to my suprise, people did want me. Lots of people in fact. I've dated around since (we broke up last April so I guess for around 10 or 11 months now) and for the most part being single has treated me really good
so good in fact that I really, really haven't been seeking a relationship at all. I'm normally very straightforward with my partners, in fact most of them know from the day I meet them that I'm not interested in being somebodies girlfriend. Just the idea of it makes me feel.. honestly physically sick. I look back on my relationship and see how twisted and poisonus it was, and how much he manipulated and controlled me over the course of those four years. I was very cut off from my friends and loved ones and it made it so hard to get out. I didn't feel valuable and I was sad all the time.
This, on top of some abuses in my childhood that I won't delve too much into, has made me really wary about every putting myself in a similar situation. I've been treated so poorly by men throughout my life & I've really reached a point of feeling like I can't trust people.
Anyways, so that brings me to my current situation. Around two months ago I started texting this guy.. we have a lot of mutual friends, and his number was in my cellphone so I just kinda randomly decided to start chatting him up. I knew who he was and had always thought he was pretty attractive and whatnot but never really gave him any thought because he was out of my league, as far as I was concerned.
But we instantly hit it off and just had so much to talk about. I really liked him right from the second I 'met' him, if you could call it that. Anyways I won't detail the whole courtship because no one wants to read that, but basically we ended up meeting, and chilling, and hooking up. It all happened very quickly and came so easily. It really felt natural and at the time soo good.
Since then, we've been seeing eachother every couple days for about a month and a half. when I see him, I normally spend the night, then most of the following day with him. we have a lot of sex (often three times per visit) and he is by far the best lover I've ever had. Plus we connect really well intellectually and we make eachother laugh constantly and everything just.. flows. There is an obvious emotional attachment that has been building up, enough that we both comment about it. Anyways, lately he has been dropping hints like crazy that he wants to be my boyfriend, and I feel like.. I should want to. Because I do want him. I can picture a future with him and I like it. I enjoy every minute of my time with him and when he goes away I feel so depressed, despite knowing I'll see him again soon. I talk to him every day, every opportunity I get, and we're constantly seeking out eachothers company and trying to align our schedules.
But I feel angry, sick, and absolutely terrified every time he says anything about a relationship. I warned him from the day we met that I didn't want one and now here he is, pressing me to be with him, and I like everything about him and I don't have an excuse but.. I just wanna run in the opposite direction as fast as I possibly can. If it were anybody else, if he hadn't already developed into a close friend and if I thought I wouldn't be destroyed if I lost him, I would have already bolted.
But all I want is for things to stay the same. And I feel him pressing and I don't know if he's gonna wait for me. And I'm not sure if I should even make him wait because he has been so great in every way, and more than I deserve, and he's soo much more attractive than me (lol I know it's shallow that it's a factor, but honestly, I couldn't have imagined that a guy like him would ever look at me. He's just so beautiful and I'm completely addicted to every inch of him and it makes it soo much harder to differentiate affection from lust..), and who knows if I'll ever find anyone so compatible to me agian? I mean I really have been blessed to meet him, and I think that sincerely. He's perfect and I just wish I could make myself fit together with him but.. I don't know how.
When I think about a relationship I still get that sickening, dreadful weight in my stomach. And when he suggests it I just feel like somethings horribly wrong and he wants to manipulate and control me in just that same way. Even though from everything I've learned about him, he would never do that and doesn't even seem to have the capacity really. It wouldn't be in his nature. He's a better person than I am in every apparent way and yet.. I can't bring myself to trust him for even a second. It's so scary because.. if someone this perfect can't change my thinking, can anyone? Am I really gonna be alone forever?
I don't want to lose him but I also don't want to be with him. And I feel like at some point he is gonna offer an ultimatum. I don't know if I should just say.. fuck it, if he isn't willing to wait then he isn't worth it, or if I should reconsider? Because I mean seriously from his perspective, I wouldn't want to wait for someone with no promise of it ever changing either, who literally feels physically sick at the aspect of a relationship with me. It isn't fair to ask. He should have everything he wants but.. part of me feels like he expects too much or I'm too little or something along those lines. I just can't imagine the relationship being anything more than stress and pain and constant anxiety over losing him.
I'm so scared that something inside me is broken for good and that I'm never going to be able to offer someone more than casual sex.
I don't want to be that girl but.. I'm so sick of being alone and I can't force myself to be close to someone, and what else is there then? Physical intimacy is the only kind I can stand.. and it's better than none at all.
I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I should cut him loose and just forget all of this and continue as I was. If I should beg him to wait. Or if I should just jump.. Because I know he's a good person, who cares deeply about me and has no apparent intention of doing anything to hurt me. Because he's quickly becoming my best friend, and I don't want to use the word 'love' so early but.. I couldn't have imagined or fantasized a better partner if I tried. He really is among the best people I've ever met, and by far the best person that I've ever been sexually attracted to. I love his mind and his way of thinking and his strength and his sincerity and.. I just wish I were better somehow, and this came easier. But ever since it started getting serious it's been nothing but stress and late-night crying and watching shitty love movies, as far as I'm concerned. :P If a relationship is good, then why does the mere idea make me feel so very very bad? It's like someone puts a plastic bag over my head, and I just feel suffocated and blind and scared beyond explanation..
So uhh yea, what should I do? :P
Four years is a long time, People heal in their own ways, They cope by trying to move on... but sometimes it takes a little longer to get over some things then we predict. You spend four years in a unhealthy relationship and you stayed in the relationship because after so long of putting up with a bunch of crap you become immune to it and you begin to believe you can't do any better. One month, 6 months or even almost a year sometimes it takes a while to heal from something that happened for so long.
You've tried the single route it worked well for you and now new people want to have a relationship with you but let me ask you one question...Are you ready? This guy that you have text wants to date you but is pressuring you to try and be in a relationship with him...Hm I've always said this but if he the guy respects you enough then he should wait until you are ready to be in a relationship because that is the respectful thing to do. What you should do is try and talk to him and explain to him that you just want to be friends and that you will take it from there. If he likes you enough and wants to date you enough then he will respect your choices. Many people who don't give themselves time to heal and jump into relationships end up feeling overwhelmed, stressed, confused, doubtful however don't get me wrong but it all depends on the person because some of us get over it quicker than others. You crying and watching shitty movies is perfectly fine because it is your way of coping.
i had a dream last night and i only remember a little bit of it, it bothered me. ca anyone tell me what it means? 17/f
i was dropped off at my house by my bus with my brother and sister. we were walking up to my doorstep when in our driveway, we passed a green car that didnt look very nice, and in the passenger seat there was a lady with a little gray dog, she had on a fur hat and stuck her nose up at us as we passed. i got a weird feeling, like i was scared and i speed walked to my doorstep where my sister was slowly opening our door. my brother was also infront of me and i was telling my siser to hurry up and open the door, i looked behind me and the lady and a man were running towards us.. finally my sister opened the door, and i made sure her and my rother were inside before i shut and locked the door qucikly. my brother and sister went upstairs and i crouched down by the door and the lady was looking through the little window on my door rubbing the glass, and trying to see inside, so i laid flat on m stomach and crawled into the kitchen where i got up and saw my sister, i told her i was scared and i was going to call the police and she was like, okay. so i tried calling th epolice but i would dial 988 or 998 0r 991, and then finally i dialed 911. the ohone rang and finally the line collected, i told them my full name and whee i lived and what ewas going on, and that there was a woman and man lookinginto m house and screaming at me through the door.. when i finished telling my story, i started crying and a man on the other line said, WHAT? and i hung up, then i dialed 911 again and a lady picked up and asked me what ws wrong and i told her my story...
then i think i woke up, because i dont remember anything else. does anybody have some ideas? thanks so much!
I can try as close as I can to help you out
To see an old woman in your dream, indicates your concerns about aging and growing old. Alternatively, the old woman may be an archet
To see a dog in your dream, symbolizes intuition, loyalty, generosity, protection, and fidelity. The dream suggests that your strong values and good intentions will enable you to go forward in the world and bring you success. Alternatively, it indicates a skill that you have ignored or forgotten. If the dog is vicious and/or growling, then it signifies some inner conflict within yourself. It may indicate betrayal and untrustworthiness.�If the dog is dead or dying, then it indicates a loss of a good friend. Alternatively, it represents a deterioration of your instincts. Also consider common notions associated with the word dog, such as loyalty ("man's best friend") and to be "treated like a dog".
To dream that you are scared, indicates that you are experiencing self-doubt and feelings of incompetence in your waking life. You may be feeling a lack of control. Perhaps you are having second thoughts about a decision you have made. Anger often masquerades as fear, so also consider issues about which you are angry about in your waking life
To dream that you are being chased, signifies that you are avoiding a situation that you do not think is conquerable. It is often a metaphor for some form of insecurity. In particular, to dream that you are chased by an animal, represents your own unexpressed and unacknowledged anger which is being projected onto that animal. Alternatively, you may be running away from a primal urge or fear.
911
The appearance of this number in your dream suggests that you need to not be afraid� to ask for help. There is an important lesson to be learned from in your dream.
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I have been good friends with this boy for 10 years. He is so great to me, I can count on him with anything. I could tell him I am having a bad day and he will call me and play a song on his guitar for me because he knows I love when he plays. I go to him with my problems because he is the one who is ALWAYS there to help me and when I tell him I feel bad for dumping my horrible life on his plate he tells me to not worry about it, that he wants to help me especially if he knows that the problem is bothering me. I have never really thought of him being anything more to me than just my best friend until my girl best friend brought it up to me. Everybody says we already act like a couple because of the way we treat each other, we "smile" at each other and give "googly eyes" I don't see any of it and neither does he but why does everyone else? I don't know if any of you guys know the 'silly bandz' the rubber bands that are shaped into animals and such, he took two of mine and he wears them everyday when this girl that likes him made him a bracelet and he said he isn't fond of things staying on his wrist. His best friend is the one who brought it up to him and my other best friend is the one who brought it up to me. So both of our friends started talking and they spread it around the whole school that we really need to go out. I just thought he was always being friendly playing songs for me and helping me. One last thing, he also attended a dance for me, he wasn't going to go but I had convinced him after two hours to come and he did for me. What's your view? Please and Thank You.
Friends who have been friends for a long time usually turn out to be the best couples, However there is the "what if" catch..If you two were to break up are you two strong enough to continue to stay best friends? Yes, You two are close now you care for each other but despite how close you are sometimes dating your best friends can also be a risk taker. If you two feel you are strong enough to have a steady relationship then I would say go for it because on the plus side you never know what you are missing until you take the bull by it's horns.
I'm fourteen. My boyfriend is sixteen. We've been dating for about three and a half months.
He has mono...
Mono can last like five months or longer... Am I really supposed to not kiss my boyfriend for five months???? :( please help.
Mono is contagious, Not only have I once experienced it but I was as sick as a dog for a good week to the point where I just didn't have the strength to even get out of bed and it was BAD. I highly suggest you to ride it out for awhile until he is clear of it. Keep in mind since he has already got mono he is perfectly capable of getting it again.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half. but i havent seen him for the past month even thought we go to the same school he just ditches plans. we fought and nearly broke up but for the last week i just stay home all day and cry i have no idea why and i usually go out everyday with him or friends or shopping. i just really need to see him. anything i can do to cheer me up? he wont hangout with me
Like the last person asked who was trying to break up with who?
All men are different, Some guys don't like confrontation so they choose to do things at their convenience even if that means being inconsiderate by blowing somebody off. I'm taking a wild guess here but from the sound of it maybe he is trying to drop hints that he no longer wants a relationship. Sure, He could be mad about something or maybe want to solve things on his own like the person said below but the chances are probably slim. Also, even if that was the case you'd think he would at least have the communication skills to let you know that he needs some time to himself for awhile to straighten things out instead of leaving you clueless and on the side lines. A relationship that doesn't have communication skills is almost guaranteed to not work out. It could also be that he may have somebody on the side and with that being said I'm just taking a wild guess. You'd like to think that your boyfriend would be excited to see his own girlfriend yet alone try to spend time with you because you are his partner...If the guy continues to blow you off then he isn't worth your tears. A girl doesn't need a guy that is going to put her through a heartbreak. Try talking to him but like I said if he continues to be an ass then it might be best to move on
So I take hip hop dance lessons and we have an assignment to make up a hip hop combo and I just need to know some good songs to hip hop dance to. I love dancing to the song "Gucci Swag" by Chrishan so any songs like that would be great! I like faster songs and I dont like songs that are sound a little like pop but still rap you know what I mean? Kinda like Flo Rida can be sometimes. Thanks!
Here is a list that should help you out...
Baby Bash Ft.T-pain- Cyclone
Ray-j Ft.Fat Joe- Keep Sweatin
Kelly Rowland Ft.Eve-Like This
Ciara-Like A Boy
Mary J.Blige-Be Without You
Mims- Like This
Youngbloodz- Imma Shine
Brooke Valentine- Girlfight
Aliyah Ft.Timberland- We Need A Resolution
Kelly Rowland- Comeback
Ludacris-Runaway Love
Flo Rida Ft.T-pain - Low
Lil Mama- Lip Gloss
Brit & Alex- Let It Go
Cherish Ft.Yung Joc -Killa
Sophia FreshFt.Jay Lyriq-Lives In Da Club
Danity Kane Ft.Lil Wayne -Phase
Bobby Valentino -Tell Me (slow song)
P.Diddy Ft.Keyshia -Last Night
Timbaland& Flo Rida -Elevator
Age Ain't Nothin but A Number-Pretty Ricky&Chris Brown
Justin Timberlake -Summer Love
J-Kwon-Tipsy
Timbaland-Bounce
Swizz Beatz - Money in The Bank
Pitbull - shake
Soulja Boy -Dunk
Joe Buddens-Pump İt Up
Booty Bangs by Jessi Malay
Moloko -Time Is Now (Bambino remix)
Taio Cruz-Come on girl
Fergie-Here I come
Ne-yo -Make it work
Joe ft Papoose - Where You At
18/m
Im in college. Me and my girlfriend were long-distance. we saw each other over summer but waited six months until we visited again last week. during that six month waiting period I gradually went from being in love with her to to not really enjoying talking to her for too long. I thought that when we saw each other again in December that things would be better but they were not. Im not sure If I was just over-worrying or if I genuinely didn't enjoy my time with her because there were times when we had a lot of fun, we were laughing and joking and getting along. but other times, I couldn't enjoy myself because I was too worried about how much I would miss her when we parted.
Because things didn't get much better, I decided that maybe it would be best if we went our separate ways. I had already decided that if things weren't better when we were together again that I would break up with her. We were best friends is the thing and we're still on good terms with each other so its not like I can't talk to her, but I just think I need a buffer. She has completely respected my personal space since I told her I needed it, so its she's not the problem. I'm just having a hard time dealing with not talking to her. Im not sure if I really miss her or if I really miss not having someone there but Its one of those two. I don't feel like I could get back together with her because I think things would still be all crappy. I just don't know what to do. Is it a bad Idea just to call her to talk for a few minutes? We are still friends. She would like it if I called Im sure.
If someone maybe has a good way of dealing with this loneliness or something because I really don't want this to affect my studies.
Thanks
Long distant relationships are hard. I think what happened here is in time you simply fell out of love. Not seeing each other for a good 6 months is really no different than a temporary breakup. Time goes on and people grow apart. I know right now you feel you are grieving but how much of that is you feeling that you need to fill a void in your life? The truth is right now might not exactly be the best time for you two to talk only because if you two come in contact with each other whether it is in person or by phone you in the end only prolong the pain. You make it harder to move on for not only her but yourself as well. Sure, You two can talk and stay friends but I think for your sake and happiness you should take a break for awhile. The best thing to do right now is spend time with friends and family if you can. Get out do things you enjoy doing keeping your mind busy will also help. If you feel the relationship isn't going to work out then there must be a reason for it.
Well, I've been really close with a boy since 3rd grade, we are know in 10th, still best friends. All of my friends seem to think we would make the cutest couple in the world. Neither of us see it though. We talked about dating and such and we can see us together but it's kind of a weird spot for us. I look at him as my brother but this past weekend we had a dance and a girl was all over him, I felt like I was getting jealous but I shouldn't have been. Now, I literally was the one who got him to go, I texted him alllll night and finally convinced him to go but he spent no time with me, I felt neglected but it was okay, I was just happy he was there. I can trust him with my life and I'll tell him my problems and after say "thanks for listening and pretending to care" and he answers "i care, or else I wouldn't listen" my favorite from before was "I've been your friend since third grade, I'm not leaving any time soon" we text all the time, its great, hes someone i look forward to texting, he listens and cares. so, do you think he likes me?
This is a tricky one and it could go both ways.
People who have known each other for years become close but just how close? Well, Depends on the person. From the sound of it I think your guy friend might like you just as a friend. Seeing you two have known each other for years he could of very well developed a sibling relationship with you. On your part you could of felt jealous because maybe you are the one with the crush. You could try to tell him how you are feeling and maybe discuss the possibility of you dating and see where it goes. If you two are as close as you say then if it doesn't work out you should have no problem staying close friends. Talk to him
i asked a question a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling me for a while. and everyone who answered told me to either give him some time or call him to see whats up, like he might be testing me to see if i would call him. anyways, i didnt really pay attention to the advice but then after a week of absolutely nothing from him, i decided to try it. i called him, and no one answered. and then i called again, and the phone stopped ringing abruptly and went dead. so i'm assuming he ignored my call, which means he ISN'T testing me, and he's actually mad about something.
for those of you who didnt answer my question or didnt see my question before, i will tell you guys now i have not the slightest idea of why he'd be mad at me. i don't remember being a brat or a bitch about anything to being mean at all. and the last time i talked to him was on new years eve when he told me we couldnt hang out that night. i was a little disappointed because he had invited me over when there was a possibility that he'd have other plans, which i thought was rude. isn't it? or was i the one out of line? anyways, we didnt fight about it, i just told him "whatever, i'll talk to you later" he said bye, and i hung up. and now he won't talk to me.
can someone give me any ideas on what to do/say/think/believe/wait for? thanks again, and if anyone answered my question before, thanks so much, but i hope you won't mind answering again ^.^
Taking a wild guess here...
It seems as if your boyfriend does not wish to be in a relationship and doesn't have enough brass balls to tell you face to face. A week is much to long to go without giving someone a call, If your boyfriend has giving you the "test" in the past and left you hanging on to find out for yourself that he is mad with your behavior then that is to show you just how immature he may be. Relationships will not work without communication and here as well as your last post clearly shows you two have lack of communication. It COULD be his phone went dead but the chances are very slim seeing you said "his phone went dead suddenly" it sounds to me that your boyfriend had noticed your call and shut his phone off. This is when you sit back and realize that his actions isn't your punishment. It is him clearly wasting your time with ignorance. In a blunt put way, You deserve better and you have a life to live. Don't let certain people hold you back from that.
i've had my tongue pierced for just over 5 months. by now about how long should i be able to leave the ring out without it closing?
The recommended time for taking a ring out of a tongue is 4-6 weeks but it also depends on how fast your body is able to heal personally I'd wait a good 7-8 months because if you change it too soon you could possibly swell up again. Also, If you take the ring out for a few hours you take the chance of it closing up because the tongue is not cartilage.
I'm 13 - girl. I want a boyfriend but i can'not get one. I know there is nothing wrong with ME, because i am beautiful (not in the shallow way)lol. People tell me to join clubs or something to meet them. I don't want to go out with anyone in the schools because they are pervs!
Another question for guys is, at the age of 13, do boys ONLY care about what you look like? Everyone tells me that and it makes me mad! GRRRRRR! lol.
No there is nothing wrong with you
Not all guys are all about looks, However keep in mind that you are 13 and a lot of boys at the age 13 are not fully mature. The truth is guy could be 13, 29 or even 60 for this matter and still never be fully mature. Do guys care about looks? Depends on the guy they are all different. Some guys like woman to look good and others are all about personality. If someone truly likes you for who you are than looks should not matter.
for the past week i hardley ate- just coffee and celery and a little chicken then today i went crazy and had A LOT of cereal, brownies, apple crunch thing and chicken.
will i gain weight?
will this make a difference?
how do i loose it?
if i go back to starvation will this go away?
It is fine to eat, You just need to watch WHAT you eat. Starving yourself is not the answer nor correct way to loose weight. If you starve yourself your body will actually gain weight by storing fat because it thinks you are not going to eat. The healthy way to loose weight is to eat healthy portions and exercise daily. Eating very little is not only unhealthy but your body doesn't get the right vitamins it needs. Will you gain weight from what you ate today? My guess is probably not but then again everyone gains weight in different ways our bodies work differently. Different people loose weight faster than others, Some gain faster, Some it takes longer to put on weight we are all different. If you want to watch your weight you could try a diet that is healthy.
I'm 16, getting my driver's license at the end of December, and I've been wrestling for a while over whether or not to be an organ donor. When I got my learner's permit I opted not to be one, but a license is more permanent and I don't want to make too hasty of a decision just because the idea seems morbid. So, any thoughts? Should I be an organ donor or not? Thank youu.
Being an organ donor is a personal choice and there is no right or wrong decision. There are people who are organ donors that later on change their minds and do not wish to become one. Some people it takes years for them to make a choice like that. Yes, it is a great thing to save a life and help another person but again it is not something you have to do. If you aren't sure about it just yet then take some time to think about it and if you later down the line want to be an organ donor than you can do so.
i dated this guy for a year, it was lovely.. But we had to break up because he was leaving the country for uni. We barely spoke and we sort of ended a little rough because i was angry he had to leave and all that, it was just really hard. We were each others first love.
After 2 months i began talking to 1 of his childhood friends, lets say his name's John.. I was still single, sad, lonely and very low.. Sort of just fell out of everything. But this guy, John.. I felt good talking to him. I started liking him too! He made me feel all good and it was something i needed. And so after 4 months from my break up, we started dating.. I didnt tell my ex about it and when he asked, i denied it.. I guess i didnt want him to know because i felt guilty or maybe i was still hung up on him. I wasnt completely over him though.. He found out anyway and knew i was lying..
He made me feel bad for dating John as he was his friend and that..
Its been over a year since my ex and i had broken up. I still feel bad and guilty.. But we broke up so i shouldn't feel bad, its none of his business.. Thats what my friends say but i don't know.. Is it my fault? Its been so long and i think im still punishing myself for messing up my friendship with my ex, as we no longer talk..
Thanks for your advice in advance..
It is not your fault for falling for your ex boyfriends childhood friend. If you two had been broken up for some time then therefore it is final. Whether this guy was a childhood friend of his or not it is not his choice to decide for you who and who you shouldn't date. Like you said it is none of his business dating someone is a personal choice between you and that person. Not you, that person and your ex.
anyone no any good sites to watch films on for free? thanks :)
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