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10 years developing
I have been good friends with this boy for 10 years. He is so great to me, I can count on him with anything. I could tell him I am having a bad day and he will call me and play a song on his guitar for me because he knows I love when he plays. I go to him with my problems because he is the one who is ALWAYS there to help me and when I tell him I feel bad for dumping my horrible life on his plate he tells me to not worry about it, that he wants to help me especially if he knows that the problem is bothering me. I have never really thought of him being anything more to me than just my best friend until my girl best friend brought it up to me. Everybody says we already act like a couple because of the way we treat each other, we "smile" at each other and give "googly eyes" I don't see any of it and neither does he but why does everyone else? I don't know if any of you guys know the 'silly bandz' the rubber bands that are shaped into animals and such, he took two of mine and he wears them everyday when this girl that likes him made him a bracelet and he said he isn't fond of things staying on his wrist. His best friend is the one who brought it up to him and my other best friend is the one who brought it up to me. So both of our friends started talking and they spread it around the whole school that we really need to go out. I just thought he was always being friendly playing songs for me and helping me. One last thing, he also attended a dance for me, he wasn't going to go but I had convinced him after two hours to come and he did for me. What's your view? Please and Thank You.
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Friends who have been friends for a long time usually turn out to be the best couples, However there is the "what if" catch..If you two were to break up are you two strong enough to continue to stay best friends? Yes, You two are close now you care for each other but despite how close you are sometimes dating your best friends can also be a risk taker. If you two feel you are strong enough to have a steady relationship then I would say go for it because on the plus side you never know what you are missing until you take the bull by it's horns.
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I think you to sound like you would make a good couple because of how close you are. you have to think about if you are ready for a relationship like that though. Your bestfriend now your boy friend. would you be able to handle holding his hands or kissing or anything like that. if you two were to break up would your friend ships stay strong?
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