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Crush on a classmate... :(
15/f,freshman
There is this boy in my class who I've constantly fought with.He insulted me and stuff...and then 2 weeks ago our teacher made us sit together in class.I was really frustrated in the beginning but after a few days we actually started getting along and now I've fallen for him.I don't even know when it happened.I heard from my best girl friend in class that at the end of the first term,he asked her to help him get with me.She started complimenting him in front of me but I said I'd never like him cause he's mean,and apparently he heard it and got really disappointed,so he tried to get my attention by insulting me,and he told her to stop trying.The problem is now I like him,I'm not sure he likes me back after all and I desperately want him to notice me.Yesterday he was looking at me when he thought I wouldn't see (but I saw him lol),talked randomly to me,smiled,I caught his gaze a few times...we held hands for a bit after a high-five,I jumped on him,he held me but didn't protest,we wore each other's jacket...and I kept wondering why he didn't complain at all...My friends say they think it's because he likes me.Then,today he almost paid no attention at all to me.I've been told that it's just in my head.I feel very lousy,because I want to show him how I feel,but on the other hand I do not want to get rejected or laughed at for my crush...I can't figure out if he likes me or not...all I hear is "don't worry he does" but I have no concrete proof and honestly I'm sick and tired of being rejected...what should I do?I have no courage to confront him about it...yet I'm not sure how long I can wait to see what will happen...
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I don't know if I would have the guts to do this myself, haha, but its just an idea. valentines is this weekend, so what I was thinking, is maybe you could get a really cheesy valentines day card and write: "Will you be my valentine?" (or something) on it. I personally think this is a really great idea because, it lets you do the talking, WITHOUT actually talking. if you feel like he might reject you, its valentines day, you could have given that card to anyone, but if he likes you, its the perfect opportunity. Plus, guys get nervous too, and if he thinks that you maybe don't like him, he might be too scared to make a move. plus you kinda turned him down in a way, so its your turn. so get some guts girl! if it turns out, you'll feel awesome because you took a chance and it paid off, and if it doesnt turn out well, then at least you got the answer you were looking for right?! I don't know you or the guy, so I can't tell you if he likes you, only he can tell you that. so take a chance! life is about risks and you can do it!
If you have any other questions, or need more of a pep talk let me know!
angie91
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His actions clearly show signs of him liking you :) He is probably just as shy about admitting it to you, which is why he asked your friend to help him get with you, instead of just telling you himself. You shouldnt worry about being rejected. Some of the best things in life come from taking a chance. So my advice is if you like him you should directly let him know, that way you aren't waiting around to see what's going to happen. If you don't feel comfortable saying it to his face, maybe write a note, or message him online or something. This will also help your confidence level in these types of situations later on in life. Good Luck!
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