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dated ex's childhood friend
i dated this guy for a year, it was lovely.. But we had to break up because he was leaving the country for uni. We barely spoke and we sort of ended a little rough because i was angry he had to leave and all that, it was just really hard. We were each others first love.
After 2 months i began talking to 1 of his childhood friends, lets say his name's John.. I was still single, sad, lonely and very low.. Sort of just fell out of everything. But this guy, John.. I felt good talking to him. I started liking him too! He made me feel all good and it was something i needed. And so after 4 months from my break up, we started dating.. I didnt tell my ex about it and when he asked, i denied it.. I guess i didnt want him to know because i felt guilty or maybe i was still hung up on him. I wasnt completely over him though.. He found out anyway and knew i was lying..
He made me feel bad for dating John as he was his friend and that..
Its been over a year since my ex and i had broken up. I still feel bad and guilty.. But we broke up so i shouldn't feel bad, its none of his business.. Thats what my friends say but i don't know.. Is it my fault? Its been so long and i think im still punishing myself for messing up my friendship with my ex, as we no longer talk..
Thanks for your advice in advance..
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It is not your fault for falling for your ex boyfriends childhood friend. If you two had been broken up for some time then therefore it is final. Whether this guy was a childhood friend of his or not it is not his choice to decide for you who and who you shouldn't date. Like you said it is none of his business dating someone is a personal choice between you and that person. Not you, that person and your ex.
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