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ignoring me? (part 2)
i asked a question a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling me for a while. and everyone who answered told me to either give him some time or call him to see whats up, like he might be testing me to see if i would call him. anyways, i didnt really pay attention to the advice but then after a week of absolutely nothing from him, i decided to try it. i called him, and no one answered. and then i called again, and the phone stopped ringing abruptly and went dead. so i'm assuming he ignored my call, which means he ISN'T testing me, and he's actually mad about something.
for those of you who didnt answer my question or didnt see my question before, i will tell you guys now i have not the slightest idea of why he'd be mad at me. i don't remember being a brat or a bitch about anything to being mean at all. and the last time i talked to him was on new years eve when he told me we couldnt hang out that night. i was a little disappointed because he had invited me over when there was a possibility that he'd have other plans, which i thought was rude. isn't it? or was i the one out of line? anyways, we didnt fight about it, i just told him "whatever, i'll talk to you later" he said bye, and i hung up. and now he won't talk to me.
can someone give me any ideas on what to do/say/think/believe/wait for? thanks again, and if anyone answered my question before, thanks so much, but i hope you won't mind answering again ^.^
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This guy sounds REALLY immature if thats why he's mad! I would ignore him and I know its hard but honestly it doesn't sound like this guy is for you anyway...and I know you don't want to hear it but look at what he's doing now? How can you trust him that he won't do it again? If he's going to be this way don't bother...he's either craving attention or he's just being a jerk. I would say move on and do what you gotta do...who knows when he's going to stop being a total idiot. Good luck!
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It seems as if your boyfriend does not wish to be in a relationship and doesn't have enough brass balls to tell you face to face. A week is much to long to go without giving someone a call, If your boyfriend has giving you the "test" in the past and left you hanging on to find out for yourself that he is mad with your behavior then that is to show you just how immature he may be. Relationships will not work without communication and here as well as your last post clearly shows you two have lack of communication. It COULD be his phone went dead but the chances are very slim seeing you said "his phone went dead suddenly" it sounds to me that your boyfriend had noticed your call and shut his phone off. This is when you sit back and realize that his actions isn't your punishment. It is him clearly wasting your time with ignorance. In a blunt put way, You deserve better and you have a life to live. Don't let certain people hold you back from that.
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Dear Writer,
This story sounds all to familiar to me. Trust me when I tell you, it's nothing you've done, so stop stressing over endless possibilities. It sounds like he may have found someone else. They probably have had something going on for a while, but he wasn't sure exactly who he wanted. There were probably signs that you overlooked, or didn't want to confront. When you stop doing things together on holidays, that's a sure sign. If you've tried to contact him, and got no response, take that as a sign. It may be time for you to move forward. I know you may be hurting now, but time heals all wounds. Just keep busy, hang out w/ friends, and enjoy life. Love will come again, you deserve better anyway! Hope that helps. TTYL :)
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hmmmm.maybe he thinks you guys broke up because you left him for awhole week without any contact.how long have you been together?depending on how long youv been together,if it was a short time then id say he though you guys broke up.
what id do is keep calling because you deserve and explanation.just keep calling him and if he doesnt answer txt him and say "i knew you werent man enough to talk to me,atleast tell me where we stand,dont run away"
soemthing like that,bring in the whole him not being a man because that really hits them hard
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