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How would I be able to get my hair to look like this?

http://img151.imageshack.us/img151/9633/76301324163120856737620.jpg

Is her hair like in pigtails or something? I'm asian, so I have that typical 'asian hair'. :| My hair is also really/more thin now, because when I cut my hair a while back, I accidentally thinned it out too much... -__- lol. Can anyone tell me how I could be able to get my hair to look like that? I'm not even sure if my hair can do that though... o.o :\ Thanks!

Hello,
Yes your exactly right, her hair is in pig-tails! Anyhair can do pig-tails, no matter how thin or thick! I'm assuming you have longish hair, or at least long enough to tie up, correct?
Basically, all she has done is put in two higharched side "bunches/pig-tails". However, if you are aiming to have the over-all look, then there may be a little problem. She has styled her hair using her side fringe as a key essential. If you don't have a side fringe like hers, you won't be able to do that specific look, however you can still do the pig-ails then eperiment as to what other fetures you mayy wish to add.
Perhaps a quiff? Curls? Just experiment till you find something that suits you!
There are many ways to do pig-tails :
Braids: To spruce up the bunches of hair, a braid can be put in each one. Sometimes, to get extra fancy, a ribbon can be intertwined within the braids. After adding the braids, they are often secured at the bottom with another hair band or a hair bow.
Buns: Hair that has been placed in tails can easily be transformed into hair buns. To do this, each one must be wrapped into a circle and fastened so that it stays tight on the head. Most people use bobby pins or some type of stick to ensure that the buns stay in place.
High and Low: There is not a written rule on how high or low they should be worn on the head. People who have short hair usually wear them high on their heads to make their hair look longer but they can also be worn down low, near the neck. People who have long hair have more positioning options.

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I am a virgin and not by choice. I'm 17 years old, almost 18 and I can not have sex. I am extremely tight down there. When a guy fingers me or I finger myself, I can only fit one finger in. When a guy does it, it kinda hurts since his finger is bigger than mine. I've tried having sex but it won't fit at all. It even hurts him. I can't even get two fingers in. Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?

Hey,
There is nothing wrong with you at all! All women are different shapes and sizes, you will never get one the exact same!
I remember personally, I had the same problem. I had a burning sensation anytime I tried to insert anything inside, even if it was a really small finger. What I decided to do was use something really small, that had been thoroughly cleansed. Try perhaphs a pen, even though it is really small doing it gradually will help "break you in" as they say for lack off a better term. And if you have the option, lube it up. There are household things you can use as lube, just make sure it is safe before-hand.
There are things you can get fro your doctor, "inserts" they are called. It's like small objects that are fit and for the sole purpose of making the vagina wider. A lot of people have the problem with a vagina that is too wide, it's not common for a woman to have a vagina that is to tight, so trying to solve the problem can be a little harder.
A vagina will stretch over time. So weither you wait, or try one of the recommended options I gave you it will get to be the size you wish. Just remember, that anytime you insert something inside you. No matter what the size, it is important to be relaxed. If you are tensed, your muscles tense making your vagina muscles tense causing them to be even more tighter. So once relaxed, prop yourself up with a pillow underneath your bottom to enable it to loosen naturally whilst you do your thing.

I hope this helps, if you have any more questions then Ask Sophie!

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i have a question.
do guys sometimes like
dont pick, or date a girl because
of what the mom looks like, because
there afraid that there gonna
look like that when they get older?

Hey,
Well I'm not a guy, so I'm giving you advice from a females perspective. I've heard of people saying that before, but it's not an actual fact. Some guys do tend to think that way, and it is normally the shallow ones, so they are best avoided anyway.
A guy isn't going to think about things like this at the very beginning, so the reason for him not dating the female is very unlikely to be this reason. When a guy sees a girl, he doesn't automatically think "If her mothers ugly I won't date her because 20-30 years down the line she will look the same". The main reason this is very unlikely is, when have you ever heard of a guy you just met thinking 20-30 years in the future? Never.

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