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how can i make myself seem irresistible to really hot guys? I mean I know this is what most girls in high school want, but there is anything that i could do or could helP? I really want a boyfriend or something close to a relationship because i've never had one and i'm a junior in high school, but how would i go about getting into a relationship? I think that if it was easier for me to get guys to notice me then i could start having something with someone. So how do I get hot guys to notice me? I know people say be confident and put yourself out there, but that REALLY doesn't help me because i still dont know what to do i want specific tips. Thank you. (link)
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I get what you mean. I'm a freshman and a dude in highschool so here's what I look for in a girl.
Do's
Nice hair, hair is THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT THING that guys look for if you have amazing hair but not the most amazing body you still have a big chance of a guy liking you. If you have horrible hair and a body that looks like it was sculpted by angels, guys are just gonna use you for, err well you know what I mean.
Nice clothes, dont EVER wear anything baggy, there is almost nothing more unattractive than a girl in baggy clothes, in my opinion anyway. They hide your body and thats the exact opposite of what you want. Wear clothes that show the best parts of your body, say you have really nice legs you wear mini skirts or short shorts. If you have a nice chest, wear a tight shirt. If you have both then I'm shocked you haven't had a boyfriend yet.
Be pleasant, if a guy comes and talks to you be nice and act like a lady. Don't do those things people shouldn't do in public, like farting burping scratching yourself biting your nails etc etc. Just those offensive things.
DON'Ts
Don't do the opposite of what I told you to do.
Never ever sit with your legs open, be a lady and cross them it's unclassy if you dont.
Don't make negative comments to a dude ever, unless you say 'I hate your hair' in a joking way then say 'No just kidding it's amazing, I love the way you did so and so with it' or something like that
The number one most important thing to NEVER EVER DO is wear too much makeup. A little powder or some eye liner is fine. However if you wear alot of eye shadow you look like a clown. If you wear lipstick thats bright red, you look like a clown. If you wear makeup that makes you look tan instead of just making your skin look smoother and softer then thats bad.
Good luck finding guys
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At my high school, we have a comedy club. We perforn every month or so. I'm writing something on why you shouldn't tell your kids the usual childhood myths.
Like how the tooth fairy teaches kids to sell their body for money… and how she's to blame for prostitution.
But I can't think of anything like that for:
Santa Claus
The Easter bunny
And what other childhood myths are there? But if you can think of anything to help get me started I would really appreciate it. =D (link)
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For santa, that says breaking into the homes of people is ok and you can do it, it also premotes obesity. Not good
The easter bunny tells kids trespassing and breaking into houses is a good thing.
As they get older greed sets in and then they're like 'Ok I'm gonna break into this dudes house and steal his stuff instead of giving it, it's like backwards christmas so that makes it ok'
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alright, i think my friend likes the boy i like and she isnt giving up, but she said she can tell he likes me by the way he looks at me. she said he has that look in his eyes like im the only girl in the world he cares about. if she likes him but she thinks he likes me why wont she give up? i really like him, but he wont talk to me, why is that? is he to nervous to or what? shes the type of girl who will go up to anyone and make conversation. i would be devestated if he liked her but, hey, what can ya do. here are a few things, he looks at me alot and when i look at him we keep contact for 3-5 seconds then he looks away. he never says what he is planning to around me. idk what happens around my friend and him. but to make a long story short, do you think he likes me or her and why do you think my friend wont quit if she has a feeling he likes me?
thanks! (link)
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Well there's a reason why he looks away after 3-5 seconds and I certainly know it, it's not because he's intimidated it's because he finds it awkward or he thinks he looked at you first and is making you feel awkward, hell I feel the same way every time I look at a girl I like. If he wont talk to you, then talk to him just go up to him and say 'Hi' if he knows your name then start talking to him or give him a compliment however if he doesn't then introduce yourself 'Hi, I'm (insert your first name here)'. Alot of times a guy just ignores the girls who aren't his type. Infact I do it all the time with the really obnoxious girls who only talk to me so they say that everyones thier friend. If you wanna go out with him, ask him out. It's 2009, not the 1950s women can do anything men can and more (such as playing on male teams, we can't go on girl teams lol). Just ask him out, if he asks you if it's just a joke tell him that you're totally serious and just tell him the whole truth about however long you like him and why, etc. I find it really helps
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alright, theres this cute guy in the drumline that every girl wants. i feel like i have a closer relationship with him because we both are in the band, but we dont talk. every guy says he is completly out of my league but is it possible to make him be in my league or me be in his league?
1) im in the band, so is he
2) he has brown hair, as do i
3) heres the differences, he only associates with the drumline, i only associate with the band, except my best friend whose in the drumline
4) he's so skinny but he's strong and masculine, im short and not that skinny
5) he is kinda a loner, like everyday at band he talks to the drumline, but at after school practices he walks around alone and at water break he has his water alone, im a people person, i mean, i love having me time but at band i love being around my friends
so! who can i be more like him and have him be attracted to me?! (link)
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Well he sounds alot like me, well in the sense he's 'kinda a loner'. I'm certainly not willingly a people person but I'm that person that everyone aparently gets along with. Don't try to be like him that's pretty much the worst thing you can do. Guys like him and I usually dont like it when people copy us. So just be yourself and talk to him like a person not just another guy you crush on. Everyone likes being a person more than just a figure. Anyway good luck
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