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same old boy stuff
alright, i think my friend likes the boy i like and she isnt giving up, but she said she can tell he likes me by the way he looks at me. she said he has that look in his eyes like im the only girl in the world he cares about. if she likes him but she thinks he likes me why wont she give up? i really like him, but he wont talk to me, why is that? is he to nervous to or what? shes the type of girl who will go up to anyone and make conversation. i would be devestated if he liked her but, hey, what can ya do. here are a few things, he looks at me alot and when i look at him we keep contact for 3-5 seconds then he looks away. he never says what he is planning to around me. idk what happens around my friend and him. but to make a long story short, do you think he likes me or her and why do you think my friend wont quit if she has a feeling he likes me?
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you must not be making it clear you have an interest in him too or else she would back off. but she would think you were a bad friend for taking him when you know she likes him. it would be awkward to have her around him while you were going out. and if he did start liking her, you need to tell her it would be awkward for you if she was going out with him.
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Hey there, :)
okay to answer your question on whether he likes you,no one on here can get inside his mind and find out for you as much as wed like to! but going by what youve said id say there is a strong possibility that yes this guy does like and that he is genuinely just shy and doesnt know what to say. so id advice you to talk to him more and get to know him more.
before your so called friend swoops in there and trys to take him away I would put what you described down to as pure jealousy.
I Mean shes supposed to be your friend right?so why would she delibrately keep going after him if she thinks he likes you and you like her?. it seems to me as if she loves having the attention like you said shes the type who makes convo with anyone so now that it looks like a guy is interested in you shes not used to it and she wont let up. you need to talk to her pull her asside and say hey look what are you doing i really like this guy and you say yourself you think he likes me so id really like a shot with him,ask her why shes going after him I believe she doesnt even really like him that much. if shes a true friend then she wont get in the way of that and she will stop and even help you on how to talk to him. if she doesnt then you really need to think about what kind of friend she is and do you want someone like that in your life?
anyway talk to the guy more be yourself relax and talk about anything!
I hope I made some sense and helped in anyway
best of luck &
much <3
Jess
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Well there's a reason why he looks away after 3-5 seconds and I certainly know it, it's not because he's intimidated it's because he finds it awkward or he thinks he looked at you first and is making you feel awkward, hell I feel the same way every time I look at a girl I like. If he wont talk to you, then talk to him just go up to him and say 'Hi' if he knows your name then start talking to him or give him a compliment however if he doesn't then introduce yourself 'Hi, I'm (insert your first name here)'. Alot of times a guy just ignores the girls who aren't his type. Infact I do it all the time with the really obnoxious girls who only talk to me so they say that everyones thier friend. If you wanna go out with him, ask him out. It's 2009, not the 1950s women can do anything men can and more (such as playing on male teams, we can't go on girl teams lol). Just ask him out, if he asks you if it's just a joke tell him that you're totally serious and just tell him the whole truth about however long you like him and why, etc. I find it really helps
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