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Its Not Love Yet, But Will It Ever Be More?


Question Posted Saturday September 12 2009, 11:10 pm

I like this guy named Dillon, and in my first question i asked if he likes me , im pretty sure he does, he asked me out in grade 7 but i wasnt ready to date him yet and now we are in grade 9, We have grown apart a bit, but I really think we can be more, I was talking to him a few weeks before school started and he said maybe is school goes right and all we could date..? I was happy about this but now im kinda worried he either forgot about it or kinda dosent like me much anymore? The big problem is I am really really shy.. Its been 4 days into the school year and I havent even said hi to him yet.. I talk to him lots on the computer but in person its a different story.. I want to know ways I can talk to him, do you think I have a chance with him? What can I do to make him like me, like I dont want to change myself or anything about me but, are there ways to kinda say I like you? Without being right upfront about it? I still smile at him with he looks and me but is there anything else I can do ? Thank you soo much for helping me!!

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JustJessOx answered Sunday September 13 2009, 10:49 am:
Hey there, :)
okay your definately not alone alot of girls get like this and I do sometimes too tis really daunting having to talk to a boy you like.
I dont think its a case of he doesnt like you in face judginhg by what youve said I tihnk its fair to guess that he really does like you but hes afraid you dont like him seeing as your so shy and dont talk much. in fact hes probably asking himself the same questions you are.
okay so when your talking to him honestly the first thing you need to do is relax,think of him like any other friend talk to him about absolutely anything! :) school maybe and how annoying you find one teacher etc or ask him what he thought of a test or something like that to get convirsation going or movies music etc ask him how his summer went its all about establishing convirsation but once you get the hard part over like the first heyy how are you out the rest just flows naturally honestly =)
ways you can let him no I guess is by just being flirty compliment him touch him alot as in like if he says something funny brush his arm if you get me and smile alot which youve been doing but mainly just talk alot,get his number if you dont have it or his myspace if you dont already have that,and once you work up enough courage ask him if he wants to hang out sometime,or better yet he might do it first :)
i think youve nothing to worry about he sounds interested but dont give him the wrong vibes by not talking to him be brave you can do it,
hope I helped && good luck anymore questions feel free to inbox me
much <3
Jess
16.F x

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