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Hi♥
Well, my bf is amazing.I really love him, and he loves me to. We been threw a lot together, and we couldn't be together, i let him go because i couldn't take the idea of him liking me and having feelings for someone else.I understand that now because i went threw it to. Well, i let him go and my best friend scolded me for it because she said he was the"one", and now I'm really thinking that because he came back to me and told me his true feelings for me. That he loves me.We are really close, we talk everyday and all night..i want it to stay this way♥ How can i keep him? I'm scared that we won't last, my other friend is negative and she says she's been here before and it won't last. I don't believe that but she keeps telling me "well when he breaks your heart don't come F***ing cry to me about it." It makes me feel awful that she doesn't believe in us ;'(. How do i keep positive about this? I have problems staying positive about things i worry way to much. Thanks for reading! Please help? (link)
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I am in the same boat with you girly.
I was in a year relationship just last year. We were so in love, we had sex, we talked about getting married, what house we would have and all of that. But when our 1 year came around, he broke up with me because we were fighting too much and couldn't fix it.
I am now in an even better relationship. I found him just 2 months after the fiasco with my ex and it's better than ever.
Here's advice I can give you that I was told many many times by my family:
"If it's meant to be, it will happen. If not, you always find someone better after."
And it's been true. A lot of people said to me that we started dating too soon and we won't last but we're determined as HELL to make them eat their words.
If you believe that the two of you will last, then that's all you need. Screw everyone else.
Everybody makes mistakes. If your willing to take that chance then take it. Heartbreak can't kill you. It'll hurt bad, but it won't kill you.
And if your friend is saying stuff like that, then she isn't your friend. True friends are there for each other.
If you need somebody to talk to or have other questions, inbox me :]
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So throughout the past couple months my hair has gotten real greasy on the back crown of my head, I was using herbal essences and switched to a pantene shampoo build up remover, it worked for a little bit and now its back again and I dont know what I should do or use. Should I try using herball essances again and alternate shampoos every other day or go to Suave. I just don't want it to get all over my head and look lke a huge grease ball. Thanks (link)
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You could be using too much conditioner as well.
Try using a shampoo/conditioner combined so you know not to use too much.
Try Tresemee.
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So me and my boyfriend had sex for our second time and the first time was just a week before. The first time didn't go to well cause it wouldn't "stay in." The second time was much better but I am so paranoid about getting pregnant now. Even though he didn't even pre cum, he didn't cum, and the condom was fullly on and didn't break, I just always get nervous. Lately I have always wanted to eat. And it's not from nervousness, I just am hungry. i am active with school and volleyball but I wanted know if you guys think I could be pregnant? My periods suppose to start in a week and a half. How long on average does it take for the penis have to be inside the vagina to cause a pregnancy? (link)
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In addition, the reason why your eating so much is stress.
I do the same thing everytime my boyfriend and I have sex. Not to freak you out, but sometimes pregnant women still do have their period. Symptoms shouldn't show up until a couple of months anyways.
If he has a condom on and he left room at the tip, checked the expiration date then you should be fine.
If your worried about getting pregnant, try contraceptive. Theirs birth control that is in the form of a patch, shot or pills.
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i am 18 years old and i me and my brother brian who is 22 have a perfect relationship. on august 28th we had sex and now i am pregnant. we are really excited and i am going to keep the baby but what i am asking is i do not know how to tell my parents that my brother and i are exspecting our first child (link)
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Umm wow?
Well let's see. I don't even think that I can answer that.
I think the best advice that I can give you is weight the options. Can you support the baby financially? What if your parents take it the wrong way and kick you out, what will happen then if you don't have the money?
I am against abortion. But if you cannot support your baby financially, (because love isn't the only thing) adoption is the next best thing. Their is open adoption which you can still send letters, give presents and even see your baby when you want.
Think about it.
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16/m i do enjoy sex very much. and i've been in a relation ship for about 6 months now and we are having sex at least twice a week and then oral or handjobs or something pretty much every day of the rest of the week. we started going out because we had sex the night before so and sex was just kind of a once a week thing for the first 2 months or so and there wasnt realy a waiting period like in any of my previous relationships. now im constantly wanting to have sex or do something and im not sure if its normal at my age or if i may be getting an addiction?
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Just one question, how many partners have you had sex with?
Okay, I'm 19 and F and I have sex just about as much as you. It's completely normal. People who are addicted to sex usually will cheat on their partners and go have sex with somebody else. I am positive I don't.
Your a GUY. If your NOT addicted to sex, then something is wrong with your brain. Kidding.
I'm not too entirely sure because I'm not sure how many partners you have had but if you have any other questions, please feel free to message me.
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so i have been liking this guy forever now and we talk but we dont talk much. ive heard that he is a bad cheater but i really dont believe that because when he had a girlfriend i tested him and he wouldnt do anything with other girls but we would be talking and he told me that he still liked me and a few months ago we went to the movies and hung out and partied but now we would talk and then he would be talking to this other girl and not text back so idk anymore if he likes me or not. i would ask him to go to activities with me and friends and he says taht he cant go and today i found out that he went a hotel room a few days ago with this girl and her friends that he is talking to now and last night he went to a concert with her and her friends. but earlier i was with a few friends and a friend of mine had my phone because i was gone for a little bit and he texted me and she told him how i felt about him and that i really really liked him and he said wow i didnt know that she liked me that much and all (which i told him alot of time how much i liked him). so idk if he likes me or what!
i really really really like him.
like no other.
but i just dont know!
help me?
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Okay one, boys are incredibly STUPID.
If he is going out, hanging out with another girl, it kind of makes you think about the whole cheating thing. Or maybe he is just playing you. The Mr. Player man that wants all the ladies.
I agree with asking him flat out. Tell him to stop playing with your feelings. If he wants you, he'll say it. Don't bother with a guy who is too busy trying to make multiple girls happy.
Lauren 19/F
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My boyfriend wants to finger me. I don't really care if he does or not but I'm just nervous because I never got fingered before.
I shave down there but i don't shave the whole area I leave the middle. From a girl's point of view do you guys shave the whole thing and if yes, step by step direcions would be helpful.
Also where the thighs sorta begin (near the vagina area) should I shave that too? Please don't tell me "do whatever is comfortable for you
Also I'm still a virgin so is there a chance while he's fingering me, my cherry could pop? If it does what do I do at that moment?. (link)
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Okay girly. If you want to shave it all, be extremely careful!
I shave also and I didn not put shaving cream on a certain area and had gotten a huge bump on the outside of my vagina.
It is important to put on a LOT of cream. And go in the direction of which your hair grows so you don't get bad razor burns and start bleeding.
This is a trick I do, I slip on a thong and look to see where my hair is sticking out. If it is, I shave.
And your cherry could pop doing anything. Not just sexual activity. You could pop it while riding your bike even.
I hope this helps :]
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I have to do a paper on a current sports controversy but I can't think of any and I can't find any on google. So what's a current controversy in sports? (link)
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Women in sports.
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Ok well me and my beautifull girfriend are probably going to have sex at some point, she has done it before but i havent had a girlfriend before her for 6 years and im still a virgin. what should be normall? we'v done a little bit together before and she was really tense when (omg this is embarrasing to type) i was you know.. doing stuff to her.
im sure it hurt because im inexperienced and dont know where everything is yet. But when we do what can i expect? when she feels good will she tense up when it feels good or when it hurts? or both? what else can i probably expect to maybe hurt for her so i can stop as soon as i notice it. (besides the obvious ow's lol) but dont ruin the ending for me ;D i want to find that out for myself heh heh
btw im 18 and shes 19 (link)
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Okay well if you can't type out oral sex or fingering on here, you aren't ready for sex.
I am a woman, obviously and it will honestly be better if you ask her what she wants when you are having sex. Her eyes will probably squeeze tight when she's in pain for one thing. One thing to pay attention to is her clitoris. It is a small nub on her vagina that can cause multiple orgasms. You could either suck or lick there. But be careful because it is VERY sensitive so NO BITING.
Ask her every couple minutes if she is alright while you are having sex. It'll open communication and be more passionate if you are looking in her eyes.
Oh and normal, she'll moan if she likes it.
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Ok, so my bf fingered me in the butt and I went to the bathroom after, and i was bleeding.. What does this mean? How long will it last? (link)
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It happens to everyone. If he is too rough with you, then you will bleed. If you liked it, you should try using lube next time. It will be easier for him to finger you and it will hurt less, if that is even possible. And it won't last long. A day or 2 at the most.
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