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First time (im a guy)
Ok well me and my beautifull girfriend are probably going to have sex at some point, she has done it before but i havent had a girlfriend before her for 6 years and im still a virgin. what should be normall? we'v done a little bit together before and she was really tense when (omg this is embarrasing to type) i was you know.. doing stuff to her.
im sure it hurt because im inexperienced and dont know where everything is yet. But when we do what can i expect? when she feels good will she tense up when it feels good or when it hurts? or both? what else can i probably expect to maybe hurt for her so i can stop as soon as i notice it. (besides the obvious ow's lol) but dont ruin the ending for me ;D i want to find that out for myself heh heh
btw im 18 and shes 19
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All woman are different, Some tense up and others don't. The only way to find out if it is painful for her is to ask. As the only way to become better is not only by doing so but also to communicate.
Below are some suggestions
A Tip: If you are doing stuff to her, It is less painful if you keep your nails clipped so you don't possibly tear or cut her.
1. Take your socks off. Not a single thing is sexy about a man who is naked except for his socks. (lol) ;)
2. Unless we’ve expressly indicated that we like our headlights to be tweaked, do not pinch our nipples in the heat of the moment. They’re very, very sensitive!
3. Sometimes a light touch is better than a strong one. And a sweet kiss with just your lips is better than a Labrador retriever-style kiss with your tongue.!
4. That look of concentration on your face makes it seem like you’re doing calculations in your head, not making love. Smile a little bit, why don’t you? ;)
5. Nipples should be a pit stop on the way to Vaginaville—get off the express train!
Hope that helps you out :)
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Okay well if you can't type out oral sex or fingering on here, you aren't ready for sex.
I am a woman, obviously and it will honestly be better if you ask her what she wants when you are having sex. Her eyes will probably squeeze tight when she's in pain for one thing. One thing to pay attention to is her clitoris. It is a small nub on her vagina that can cause multiple orgasms. You could either suck or lick there. But be careful because it is VERY sensitive so NO BITING.
Ask her every couple minutes if she is alright while you are having sex. It'll open communication and be more passionate if you are looking in her eyes.
Oh and normal, she'll moan if she likes it.
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