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How to keep him?
Hi♥
Well, my bf is amazing.I really love him, and he loves me to. We been threw a lot together, and we couldn't be together, i let him go because i couldn't take the idea of him liking me and having feelings for someone else.I understand that now because i went threw it to. Well, i let him go and my best friend scolded me for it because she said he was the"one", and now I'm really thinking that because he came back to me and told me his true feelings for me. That he loves me.We are really close, we talk everyday and all night..i want it to stay this way♥ How can i keep him? I'm scared that we won't last, my other friend is negative and she says she's been here before and it won't last. I don't believe that but she keeps telling me "well when he breaks your heart don't come F***ing cry to me about it." It makes me feel awful that she doesn't believe in us ;'(. How do i keep positive about this? I have problems staying positive about things i worry way to much. Thanks for reading! Please help?
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I think that your relationship absolutely can make it. I wouldn't listen to your so-called friend. She isn't much of a friend if she isn't going to be there for you if you go through a breakup. If you love him, keep dating him and keep telling him how you feel.
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I am in the same boat with you girly.
I was in a year relationship just last year. We were so in love, we had sex, we talked about getting married, what house we would have and all of that. But when our 1 year came around, he broke up with me because we were fighting too much and couldn't fix it.
I am now in an even better relationship. I found him just 2 months after the fiasco with my ex and it's better than ever.
Here's advice I can give you that I was told many many times by my family:
"If it's meant to be, it will happen. If not, you always find someone better after."
And it's been true. A lot of people said to me that we started dating too soon and we won't last but we're determined as HELL to make them eat their words.
If you believe that the two of you will last, then that's all you need. Screw everyone else.
Everybody makes mistakes. If your willing to take that chance then take it. Heartbreak can't kill you. It'll hurt bad, but it won't kill you.
And if your friend is saying stuff like that, then she isn't your friend. True friends are there for each other.
If you need somebody to talk to or have other questions, inbox me :]
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