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hot guy every girl wants
alright, theres this cute guy in the drumline that every girl wants. i feel like i have a closer relationship with him because we both are in the band, but we dont talk. every guy says he is completly out of my league but is it possible to make him be in my league or me be in his league?
1) im in the band, so is he
2) he has brown hair, as do i
3) heres the differences, he only associates with the drumline, i only associate with the band, except my best friend whose in the drumline
4) he's so skinny but he's strong and masculine, im short and not that skinny
5) he is kinda a loner, like everyday at band he talks to the drumline, but at after school practices he walks around alone and at water break he has his water alone, im a people person, i mean, i love having me time but at band i love being around my friends
so! who can i be more like him and have him be attracted to me?!
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Hey there okay nearly every girl as been faced with this sitaution at some stage or another and before you do what your thinking of doing dont.
honestly if your intending to change yourself so he will be attracted to then seriously dont.
just be yourself. I know everyone hates hearing that but whats the point in posing as someone your not just so somebody will like you,there not really liking you then are they? its just like your lying to him and yourself and it doesnt feel right trust me ive been there.
so what id advice you to do is just talk to him as you! try to devolop something you two have in common,you dont have to be an exact clone of him for him to like you know so just get to know him and let him get to know you and make his own mind up without automaticly assuming your out of his league.
you cant change people either remember that also.
opposites often attract aswell as they say, so give yourself a chance im sure he will too :) let him make his own mind up so get to know him and see if he starts to like you as more then a friend if he doesnt well youl just have to accept that,you could get to know him more and find you dont actually really even like him that much! your just running on attraction. if you get where im coming from.
anyway I hope I made some sense and helped in anyway,and please dont change yourself for a guy or try change him its really not worth it, find someone who likes you for you :)
Good luck and much <3
Jess 16/f
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Well he sounds alot like me, well in the sense he's 'kinda a loner'. I'm certainly not willingly a people person but I'm that person that everyone aparently gets along with. Don't try to be like him that's pretty much the worst thing you can do. Guys like him and I usually dont like it when people copy us. So just be yourself and talk to him like a person not just another guy you crush on. Everyone likes being a person more than just a figure. Anyway good luck
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