Question Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 8:59 am
During the sex (wether normal or oral sex) I find my penis going soft and ... bendable, this is unpleasant for both me and my girlfriend because we can't go on...
Is this a physical or a psychological problem and what can I do about it? I really am uncomfortable with the fact that it might grow weak before we have sex.
Is it because I'm not horny enough or I don't find my girlfriend attractive? I'm 18, please help me... thanks!
Additional info, added Saturday February 20 2010, 10:40 am: We also have sex quite frequently.. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? cloudy_conscience answered Sunday February 21 2010, 7:45 pm: Maybe you are stressing about it too much, or maybe you & your girlfriend need to try some new things that may turn you on more. Maybe focus more on foreplay, or different postions? Really only you know if its because you aren't attracted to your girlfriend, but if you are still attracted to her, I would sit down and talk to her about it. Then you guys can try some different things and figure out what works for the both of you.
Do not stress about it, the more you worry about it the more pressure you put on yourself & that will not help the problem. Hope I Helped :) [ cloudy_conscience's advice column | Ask cloudy_conscience A Question ]
One_Whisper answered Saturday February 20 2010, 10:32 pm: As I am not a doctor and cannot say what you do and don't have but I will say you might want to take a look at the link below...
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