Well, I've been really close with a boy since 3rd grade, we are know in 10th, still best friends. All of my friends seem to think we would make the cutest couple in the world. Neither of us see it though. We talked about dating and such and we can see us together but it's kind of a weird spot for us. I look at him as my brother but this past weekend we had a dance and a girl was all over him, I felt like I was getting jealous but I shouldn't have been. Now, I literally was the one who got him to go, I texted him alllll night and finally convinced him to go but he spent no time with me, I felt neglected but it was okay, I was just happy he was there. I can trust him with my life and I'll tell him my problems and after say "thanks for listening and pretending to care" and he answers "i care, or else I wouldn't listen" my favorite from before was "I've been your friend since third grade, I'm not leaving any time soon" we text all the time, its great, hes someone i look forward to texting, he listens and cares. so, do you think he likes me?
One_Whisper answered Monday January 11 2010, 10:43 am: This is a tricky one and it could go both ways.
People who have known each other for years become close but just how close? Well, Depends on the person. From the sound of it I think your guy friend might like you just as a friend. Seeing you two have known each other for years he could of very well developed a sibling relationship with you. On your part you could of felt jealous because maybe you are the one with the crush. You could try to tell him how you are feeling and maybe discuss the possibility of you dating and see where it goes. If you two are as close as you say then if it doesn't work out you should have no problem staying close friends. Talk to him [ One_Whisper's advice column | Ask One_Whisper A Question ]
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