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What do you do if you have the sweetest BF but like a different guy but still wanna be with him? (link)
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Well you love them both right? Then I think you can choose the right guy by seeing which one of them loves you the same way that you love them. You have to come to a decision and stop leading the both of them on. You just have to listen to your heart and ask yourself "Who do I love most?", "Why do I love this guy and why do I love that guy?", "Which one of them truly loves me no matter what?", and "Who can I count and depend on to never leave me? Will he love me through thick and thin?".
You should ask yourself these questions to at least make your situation a bit easier. But ultimately it should be your decision.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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I just found that my sons English teacher in tenth grade for this semester is only 21 years old (female), My son is 16. I do not feel comfortable with my son having a teacher that young and a person that young being in charge of a class that includes young boys 15-16 years old.
She probably looks no different than a student/kid.
I went and confronted my son about this and told him about my discomfort and how I would prefer to switch him to another teacher. He told me not to do so in almost a desperate type of way. This makes me suspicious. Why would he care so much about having to switch teachers?
Should I pull him out of this class or take any other type of action? People called me names and made fun of me when I asked about this elsewhere, but I don't care. I bet there are more people who feel the way I do, they are just too afraid to say it (link)
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I just want to let you know that most parents are not afraid to say what they think and this statement becomes more true as the parents get older.
So odds are that you are the only parent who has a problem with the teacher. You need to realize:
1. She is just doing her job. She doesn't control who's in her classroom
2. Your son is 16! Are you afraid that his teacher is so pretty that it might be a distraction for him? SO WHAT! He's growing up. And when boys grow up their bodies are coursing with horomones.
It's the teachers job to maintain the classroom environment. And maybe your son doesn't want to leave the classroom because maybe he has friends in there that he rarely sees or maybe she is actually a good teacher.
I think maybe it's time for you to realize that your little boy is becoming a man and there's nothing you can do to stop it. Every kid at this age has had a little crush on their teacher before at this age but it usually goes away after a while or when they get a girlfriend. So as long as your son isn't obsessed with his teacher, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT.
I hope this puts your mind at ease a little bit.
~Andrew~
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So I'm 13 and I'm not really comfortable going to school because of the people there (And I can't do anything about it, so please no answers on that). I was thinking homeschooling; And yes, there is someone at home that can homeschool me.
The thing is, I don't know how to tell my parents in a way that they'll understand and say yes. Can you guys please help me?
P.S. Please don't say that I'm "Missing out"... I already thought everything through. (link)
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Well what are you running from? And I know you're running from something because you feel uncomfortable at school. There are people here who can help you. I've read some really great columns and most of the people on here know what they're talking about and have probably been in your situation before. We just want to help.
I don't know your whole situation but I'm just going to tell you when you run from a situation, that means that you are giving up. If it is bullying, then get an adult or teacher. I said this on another question but I'll say it again: If you tell on someone who is bullying you, IT IS NOT SNITCHING. That's just a word that cowards love to use to scare their victims into silence.
Again I don't know your situation so I'm just taking a shot in the dark. If you let someone know maybe they will be able to help.
~Andrew~
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Ok so I'm only 15/F and I want to get pregnant. I have a job and I'm pretty sure I could take care of a baby. I have all As in school and I just think pregnant bellies are so cute and baby's are too..sometimes I pretend with my sisters baby dolls but my friend Korey who I want to get pregnant by is black and I'm white and that is just not acceptable in my family... (link)
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Forgive me if I offend you but I'm going to call it like I see it.
This question seemed a bit stupid and ignorant to me. I really try to be nice to everyone on here and give people the benefit of the doubt but this question made you sound ignorant to the fact that it takes more than a job and straight A's to raise a baby. Let me tell you how my parents raised me: First of all I am blessed to have both of my parents raising me. Second, they both are adults and I was not born when they were teenagers. They both have jobs, but because they're raising me and my four other siblings we barely manage to do and get alot of things.
Now you tell me, you're 1 GIRL who wants to get pregnant by a guy who probably doesn't know you want to have his child and will probably not stick around to raise it and you think that straight A's and a job will help raise a baby? As soon as you have that baby, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR IT! You can't just hand the responsibility to someone else and you can't just stop playing with it when you get bored. A baby is A LIVING CREATURE that demands attention and love. And when you have children, you don't know what will happen. Let's say you have the baby and he or she is crawling around happily on the ground and he or she decides to push himself or herself up off the ground and as he's raising his head he hits the coffee table. Now babies heads aren't fully formed and your worried what might happen so you take him to the emergency room. Long story short your baby survives but your left with a huge hospital bill and you have no insurance to pay for it and your paycheck won't cover it. What do you do? You're still a child yourself. But because you wanted to have a baby while you're still a child, you are now forced to grow up.
If you can't pay that hospital bill or if they found out that your baby hit its head because you were neglectful, then they could take your baby and you would probably be sent to jail. And that's just one scenario on how this situation WON'T WORK OUT.
I know you think you got it all figured out but in all reality, you don't. If you decide to get pregnant at your age, what chance will that baby have at a good life? You will be responsible for that baby 24/7. Say goodbye to dating, prom, graduating high school, going to college, having a great career, etc. As soon as you have a child, all your hopes and dreams automatically go on hold. All your time would have to be dedicated to your child's hopes and dreams. It's possible that you would have to drop out of high school and get another job. I know this is not what you want to hear but it is the TRUTH.
I speak for all teenagers when I say, WE ARE NOT MENTALLY READY TO HAVE KIDS. And when teenage girls do get pregnant, THEY WEREN'T TRYING TO ON PURPOSE.
What I'm trying to get through your head is that...
YOU CAN NOT HAVE A BABY AT YOUR AGE AND EXPECT TO GIVE IT A GOOD LIFE!
If you were to have a baby, it would be the worst thing to happen to both of you because your life would be over and his/hers wouldn't even have a chance.
That's all I have to say. Again I'm sorry if I sounded rude but I get very angry when I see questions like this. It is upsetting to me for somebody to consider taking on motherhood, the biggest responsibility of them all, because they think a pregnant belly is cute. There are single women out there raising kids all by themselves and are breaking themselves to make sure that baby gets everything it needs, wants, and then some. Most mothers take their motherly duties seriously and would do anything for their children including laying down their own lives for their children if it came to it. A real mother protects her baby AT ALL COSTS! And seeing you say that you want to have a baby at 15 because you like pregnant bellies is like you saying you can do anything that these real women can do. That is a slap in the face to a REAL MOTHER.
YOU'RE NOT READY. You have all the time in the world to decide if you want kids.
I hope I was able to get through to you.
~Andrew~
P.S: I just want to say if I made you feel like crap or if I hurt your feelings, that was not the intent of me writing this. I just wanted you to realize how real the situation is. I wanted you to take the blind fold off and look at the path you were about to travel on. I'm not trying to hurt you in any way. I just want you to wake up and pay attention to your life. Be smart and BE BLESSED.
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Soo...im 13, and my boyfriend is 14. We have been dating.for 5 months, and he wants to now become 'sexually active'. I do too its just that i know its not right. And its not him...its my body. I would love to become active with him...but, idk what to do during it. Help?!?? (link)
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I completely disagree with you guys having sex.
Have you even thought about why you want to have sex?
You guys are basically kids and you are not ready yet. I know you think you are but you're not. TRUST ME. You guys only knew eachother for 5 months. What have you learned about eachother in those 5 months other than how good he looks?
But I can't tell what to do. I just think... I know that underage sex is a BAD IDEA. I think that if you can't wait until marriage, then you should wait until you're 18 and have a better understanding about love and relationships.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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i realy lovemy boyfriend and he loves me more than i do.i really want to let him take my virginity becase hes the one i love.he never ask me for sex.but i really want to do it with him.hes gonna use a condom and he always tell me that he wants me to be his baby mother and his wife.i want to get pregnant for him because hes always there for me.we've been togeter for 7 months now,if i get pregnant i know he will be there for me and the baby no matter what....anyways i really want an good advice what shoulhd i do.nd i'm from
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So you trust this guy that much that you're willing to have his child at 13? And you just believe he's going to stick around?
You don't know the first thing about sex let alone love. First of all the age difference is a problem. Second of all, you are to young to get a job so how do you expect to take care of a baby? Your boyfriend is old enough to get a job, but what makes you think he's going to give up his childhood to raise a baby? You can't trust everybody who says they love you. I don't know how things work in Barbados so I could be wrong about your boyfriend, but here in America, teenagers having kids isn't something you do on purpose.
I think you need to slow down with your boyfriend.
IF HE LOVES YOU AS MUCH AS YOU SAY HE DOES AND YOU BELIEVE HE WON'T LEAVE YOU, THEN HE WON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH WAITING TO HAVE SEX AND CHILDREN. That's how you know he loves you. You can't just say he loves me. You got to test it out and see it for yourself. You know somebody loves you when they respect your boundaries, your beliefs, your mind and your body.
If you ask me, you shouldn't have sex for a few years. If you can't wait until after marriage, then at least wait until you're 18. Don't rush into it right now. There's nothing wrong with waiting to have sex, it just means you have more time to develop an emotional relationship with eachother.
I hope I didn't sound harsh at the beginning. I'm just tired of seing these questions from really young teenagers who want to act without thinking and then the next thing you know, everything is blowing up in their face and falling apart. So just take your time and wait. And if your boyfriend can't respect your decision to wait, then he's NOT THE ONE.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S: Feel free to talk to me anytime.
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I'm 19 years old, turning 20 in a few months.
I feel as though as my father is extremely controlling and is having a negative impact on me.
For reference, he has been diagnosed with depression for a while now.
Basically, I am an adult now and I'm still treated like a child. My Dad gives little importance to my opinions and feelings, and is always pushing his beliefs and his opinions on me.
He is also always trying to control EVERY THING I do. For example, today is Good Friday, and the day is absolutely gorgeous outside.
I want to go outside by the lake, take a walk(It's about a 15 minute walk), read a good book, sit, relax and even meditate but my Dad says I can't. It's not like we have plans for today, we aren't seeing family and we don't celebrate Good Friday.
I`m just extremely fed up with my Dad trying to control me for no reason. I'm doing my best to try and be as respectful as I can given the circumstances so I don't necessarily rebel when he says no or whatever.
But like.. when does it cross the line? And how do I deal with this situation in the best possible manner and respectfully?
I'm entitled to my independence and my right to do what I want. I'm not doing ANYTHING wrong.
I basically have no life, and I don't do much all day. Everything I do is a problem for my Dad. He's just such a negative and draining person, it's hard to be around him.
If I want to go outside? That's a problem, because ''life isn't about having fun.''
If I want to bake? ''Stop doing stupid things. It's expensive.''
If I want to cook? ''Too expensive. Just eat whatever we have.''
If I want to go outside with friends? ''You don't need friends. They're not going to get you anywhere, and you can't trust anyone. Life isn't about having fun.''
If I want to decor the house. ''It's too expensive.''
If I do nothing but sit on the computer all day. ''You're not doing anything with your life.''
Like seriously, what the hell. I can't even DO anything because he always has something to say about everything. Everything he says is SO SO SO negative, that I'm actually frightened that it's going to rub off on me.
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I think it's time for you to do what you want with YOUR LIFE. You're 19. Legally an adult. Maybe it's time for you to get a job and move out. And if you're not in college, maybe it's time to go. No one is stopping you but yourself.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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All I think about non stop is the past and regrets over the past. All I keep thinking about is "I wish I had did this or I had done that" or "I wish I had talked to that person or that person" or "I wish I had participated in this or that activity". That is all I think about. Hell, next year from now, I will probably be thinking the same way about right now! how can I stop regretting over the past or longing for the past and focus on now? I just can't do it. I am 21 year old by the way (link)
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Well you have to keep moving forward. In life we always get these once in a lifetime opportunities to do things and sometimes we miss out on them. When you focus on the past and you forget about the future, then you're missing out on more opportunities. The thing is to keep moving forward with you're life and learn from your mistakes and you're regrets. The past is the past and there's nothing you can do to change it. I believe everything happens for a reason and a purpose. Your still young. No doors have slammed in your face just yet. So keep living. And if your usually a shy person, try being more active. Go to a party once in a while. Your future is not over so start living in it.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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So i am 17 and a Junior in high school. I never really have had an official boyfriend because i am so picky. I have known this guy for 4 years and he is a really close friend, just this year I started to develop feelings for him he says he has had a "crush" on me since freshman year. He is very physical, he is always wanting to do more and more but i always say no because we aren't dating, but he lacks emotion BECAUSE he is also talking to this freshman in college which he is obsessed with but she pretty much plays him. Just yesterday i was getting to just end whatever we have but he started being really sweet and i told him he needs to choose, he said he didn't know who he would choose then he was like "you know i love you right and it wasn't for her i would be dating you" and i just rolled my eyes and he said "i swear to god i do." I just don't know why he is doing this to me and i don't know what is going on through his head. Help me understand?? Thank you. (link)
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If I were you i would NOT go out with this guy because he saying these things just to manipulate you. He has a girlfriend yet he wants to mess around with.
You should leave him to his own life because he is taken and he sounds like a player. I may be wrong but any man who is willing to step out on his girlfriend is no good.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S: To answer your question, sex is probably the only thing going through his head.
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So I am 17 years old and i have been dating this guy for 6 months. All we have done is make out, he is a very horny guy and he always wants to do more and more. He wants to do everything, i think im nervous because i don't want him to think I'm bad at it. I am nervous about giving him a blow job because i have never done that before, and i am nervous about sex i just want to please him but i want to be good at it too. any advice as to what i should do?? (link)
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I'm just going to tell you that you and your boyfriend need to cool things down because it just seems like you and him have a physical relationship but no emotional relationship.
First of all I don't like this guy because he's pushing you to do more and it seems like he ultimately just wants to have sex with you and leave. If this guy was any kind of man, you could tell him how uncomfortable you feel and he would accept it. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PLEASE HIM. Worrying about pleasing your man should come after marriage. Not some guy who just wants your body.
I know I am on the outside looking in and I don't know everything about your relationship but from what you told me it looks like this guy is just a sex monster. So I think you should tell him your not ready and that you want to spend more time getting to know eachother on an emotional level. If he agrees to slow things down, then he's a keeper. And please keep in mind, once you loose your virginity, you can't get it back. So if you have sex with this guy and then realize he's a total loser, it will be too late because he already took everything sexual from you and he's just going to move on to the next girl. But that is only my opinion.
This is why I'm always against underage sex because you never know what it means to the person you're doing it with. You could be thinking you're in love while the other person thinks it's a one night stand. Sex is tricky. It's not supposed to be easy for just anyone. You need to be in a good, loving, and mutual relationship. And when the time is right you'll know and you'll be ready. You're nervous now because I think deep down you know that you don't want to do these things yet but you're afraid that he'll leave because maybe no guy has shown a sexual desire for you before. But then again I could be wrong. I'm just saying what I see.
This may not be the answer you were looking for but I think it's the answer you needed.
~Andrew~
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Hey I'm 21 n have been best friends with my guy bestie for 3 years. He's also dating my friend for the past 3 years.I fell in love with him a year back,told him cz I couldn't hide it from him, he understood n then we became closer a besties. It still hurts me to see his gf with him n I cry every night. He has told me that I'm pretty n cute n once I get thin he'll date me n told me to wait for him to get single.Since the past few months he has started lusting for me. He says I'm his closest female friend n he has even wanted me to be friends with benefit with him which I refused. He says that way I'll get a piece of him.. but that's not what I had imagined...I just wanted hi to love me n to date him n be with him. From the past few months he has started emotionally blackmailing me into sexting with him n exchanging private pics.Every time he wants to do it I'm reluctant but I go with the flow cz it's overwhelming for a plump girl like me that he finds me pretty n second if I refuse then he gets pissed...so to not piss him off I do what he says. But now since past few days all he talks about sex with me...if I try to have a normal convo with him he's all bored n doesn't reply properly...he's only interested when we talk about him wanting to do me...what do I do ?...I've started to feel cheap n like a piece of shit now...n he's trying to show that he loves his gf alot ...n talks to me only when he's in the mood...what do I do..I'm so depressed :'( (link)
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Please forgive me in advance because I'm going to tell you like it is. You need to stay away from this guy because he is USING YOU. He's using you because he knows that you'll do anything for him. He is no good for you. You can do a whole lot better.
I know you're thinking that because you're bigger than other girls that you'll be lucky to get love where you can find it but that is FALSE. You should NEVER have to settle for some low-life jerk who doesn't know how to treat a woman. You need to leave him alone and cut him out of your life. Get rid of his phone number, delete him on facebook, unfollow him on twitter or instagram. JUST LEAVE HIM BE. He has a girlfriend. HE'S TAKEN. When you try and hope for a relationship with a guy who is already taken, then you are basically settling for half a person because he's not fully yours as long as he has a girl on the side.
You are better than a guy like this and you don't need him. All he wants is SEX. If he can't respect you or your body or your boundaries, then he can't have you and he doesn't deserve you.
I'm sorry that you feel that this guy is the best that you can do because he is not.
Stay away from this guy because his intentions for you are far from good.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S: Don't give up on love. There is a guy out there somewhere that will love you for who you are and will bring out the best in you. But this guy you like is trouble. Don't send him anymore pictures and don't sext him anymore. You save yourself for your soulmate.
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what i do to make my gf inlove with me? (link)
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You can't make somebody fall in love with you. They have to fall in love with you naturally. All you can do is be yourself and let her know how you feel(When the time is right of course).
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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14/f My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We'll call him Chris. Chris and i got together at my party through a game of 7 minutes in heaven. After that, we snuck off and made out in a dark corner where nobody could see us. I've wanted to kiss him again ever since, but every time that i see a possibility for him to kiss me, he doesnt. Its been three months and my best friend and her boyfriend kiss all the time. Telling him straight up is out of the question, so how can i tell him without telling him?
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Well if you're looking for some off and on fling, then keep making out in dark places. But if you really like this guy and you want a true relationship then you need to take things slow and not focus so much on the physical but the emotional aspect of dating. Instead of trying to get him to not want to take his hands off of you, learn more about him. Why do you like him? Do you want to be with him for a long time? What are his intentions? What are your intentions? I don't want you to think there is anything wrong with kissing. But wanting to make out all the time at your age is, most of the time, asking for trouble. I think that from now on when you kiss him, there should be an underlying reason as to why you kiss him rather than just kissing to pass the time.
Eventhough I'm pretty sure this isn't the answer you wanted, I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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I am i 14 year old female and for the past few years my friends who i have known since i was 3 have been constantly been making fun of me and especially now that we are in high school its worse. They do it as a joke and it really hurts my feelings and i tell them most of the time that they're hurting my feelings and they say they'll try and stop but they never do. I can't deal with it anymore please help (link)
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I'm not trying to bash your friends but... THEY'RE NOT TRUE FRIENDS. Just because you know them for a long time doesn't mean they're going to be a friend until the end. I say they're not true friends because anyone who ignores your feelings and is constantly being disrespectful towards you, then that person is not your friend. Bullying is NEVER okay. If you don't want these girls to make fun of you, then you should stop hanging out with them. Just CUT THEM OFF. And if they keep messing with you, THEN LET SOMEBODY KNOW. Do not ever keep a bullying situation to yourself. And if you tell an adult, it is not SNITCHING. Snitching is a false term that was created by people who were afraid of being exposed as what they really were... Liars, cheaters, theives, bullies, but most of all, COWARDS. Don't let these girls bully you anymore. Ignore them and find some new friends because you outgrew the old ones.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Hi I'm a 13 year old girl and my crush is moving away! I live in America and i met this guy around last September/October time. We have grown to e close friends and I like him a lot, a few of my friends think he like me. Should I tell him I like him before he leaves to get closure? I am really confused and i really like him! Please help (link)
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If I were you I would tell him. Don't let him leave knowing that you guys were just friends and nothing more. TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. He needs to know and you do too.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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I am sorry and I know that I was wrong.I asked a question like "l Hate Americans".Please forgive me as a Human.The best answer I got is from you.I am 12 and can you beleive how Pakistani's talk bad about American's.I am sorry. (link)
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Sorry I took a while to respond. I haven't been on here in a while but Thank You for your apology. I know how easy it would be to blame and punish people who have done you wrong but it's up to us to be the bigger person. I know I try not to get revenge on people because I could never get anyone back like God can and that's why I leave it all to him. But Thanks again for your apology. I'm really glad I was able to help somebody.
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I hate you Americans.I am a Pakistani 12 years old girl.Why...Why are you killing Muslims.You all will go to Hell.Why are you killing innocent people.My question is that why are you killing innocent children.Someday,I will kill you all.If not me,than god will sent you to hell. (link)
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What does HATING your enemies do besides create more damage? SO what you're saying is that you plan on becoming a terrorist? What sense would that make?
I am an African American teenage boy and you don't see me saying things that I probably would regret. I know how my ancestors went through slavery and fought their way out of it only to walk into segregation. I know what it means to feel discrimination, but I would NEVER parade around and try to play God. Now I'm sorry that your people are being killed but not all Americans are responsible or even a part of that. Now you say God is going to send us to hell? Well if you do get to live out your dream of killing Americans, then we'll save you a seat right next to us.
I don't hate you for making this comment or asking this question. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and emotions.
But I am sad that you blame an entire nation for a few people's actions. I would never do that to anyone beacause IT WOULDN'T BE FAIR.
~Andrew~
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my life is all messed up,i no more know who i am or what i was supposed to be.its a constant feel of restlessness,its like somebody is stabbing a knife in my heart over and over again. (link)
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Obviously you are meant to be alive for some reason. If you don't know who you are, then try to FIND YOURSELF. Go outside or go to the park. Enjoy nature and gain an appreciation for life. If you feel like crap all the time, the WRITE ABOUT IT. Don't hold your feelings in. LET THEM OUT AND OWN IT. Don't try to keep what you're feeling a secret because that's when it starts to eat you alive.
If your life is all messed up, then forget about life and focus on you. You have to put yourself IN the world instead of RUNNING from it.
Nobody knows who they are or who they are supposed to be from the day they're born. They have to go out and find themselves. And that's what you have to do. GO OUT AND FIND YOURSELF.
I believe in you and I know you can do it. It may be hard but you have to hang in there. THINGS WILL GET BETTER.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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i am not a loud n clear person, i cant tell anyone the way i feel,at times when i m going through serious depression the people who hurt me i begin to feel hatred.
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If you have problems saying how you feel the you should WRITE IT OUT. Start a journal or diary or even write poetry. If you feel hatred, write about it. DON'T HOLD IN ALL OF YOUR EMOTIONS.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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I'm pregnant. He doesn't want the baby, although he hasn't talked about adoption or abortion with me. He has purchased some fuckbuddy of his an abortion in the past though. He is a disfellowshipped Jehovah's Witness who is trying very hard to get back to his congregation. He goes to all the meetings, etc. But obviously, he doesn't show remorse, so he has not been reinstated. (He was disfellowshipped in the first place for running an escort agency, cheating on his ex who was his fiance with more than 50 women over a period of 4 years, excessive drinking, stealing a computer from someone in his congregation, and some other things I cannot recall.) I am pregnant, and now he is casually dating other girls, he took my keys and removed me from his lease, refuses to give me my cat, and does not even call or email or text. How can someone who claims they are a Jehovah's Witness do something like this? He used to rag on me because I am agnostic, I was raised Catholic but I have my doubts about religion in general, so I like to keep it simple and just follow the basic principles of most religions. Such as don't harm others, honesty, don't steal, honor your parents, etc. However, I choose to ignore specific things that the bible teaches...such as "harming your body because it's a temple" I don't care that I smoke cigarettes (leave me alone, it's a personal choice and legal vice), I don't care that I have tattoos, (they're not offensive or blasphemous tattoos anyway), etc. Or other specifics that Christian denominations adhere to...such as people being gay. (I don't care if my neighbor is gay, if he's not posting gay porn on his door for all to see, I don't care. Who does it harm?) My ex will not smoke a cigarette or get a tattoo, because it's what his religion tells him, and he is FIRM on these things. He talks bad about gay guys at his place of employment, and says they are definitely going to hell. But, the bible says a man who doesn't take care of his family is worse than a nonbeliever in God. So what gives with this guy? I personally don't think he is a follower of Christ, what do you think? And from a non religious stance, what would make a guy feel okay with abandoning his girlfriend and baby? (link)
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In my opinion, I think this guy isn't ready to be a father because he probably lacks the MATURITY for the job. If this guy is giving you a hard time about this baby and he's doing all this stuff to you, then maybe it's time for you to move on. Maybe stay with your parents or a close relative or a best friend until you can get back on your feet.
Your beliefs and his beliefs just aren't compatible because he criticizes you for yours. So I think it's time to leave him. But this is entirely your choice.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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