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help!
Soo...im 13, and my boyfriend is 14. We have been dating.for 5 months, and he wants to now become 'sexually active'. I do too its just that i know its not right. And its not him...its my body. I would love to become active with him...but, idk what to do during it. Help?!??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Don't. Just Don't. think of it this way, you're in your late 20s, you're on your honeymoon, then your husband says, 'did I just take your virginity?', and you say no! You may not think of it, but that kind of thing is very downgrading.
also, you're only 13!! ask him if he's had sex yet. see what he says. whether he says yes or no, it's still bad. if he says yes, it means that he has told other girls before that he wants to be with them forever and/ or loves them and has manipulated them!! if he says no, just tell him it's wrong.
But, should you be a complete idiot/ slut and ignore my advice and anyone's who says don't do it and throw your life away, please, use a condom.
I am 13, too, so I know what you're doing. you'll regret it.
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I completely disagree with you guys having sex.
Have you even thought about why you want to have sex?
You guys are basically kids and you are not ready yet. I know you think you are but you're not. TRUST ME. You guys only knew eachother for 5 months. What have you learned about eachother in those 5 months other than how good he looks?
But I can't tell what to do. I just think... I know that underage sex is a BAD IDEA. I think that if you can't wait until marriage, then you should wait until you're 18 and have a better understanding about love and relationships.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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Well, I'm not going to advise you on having sex with him only because I believe that it's not the right time for you.
Not only because you are 13 but because you already know you aren't ready.
When you're ready to have sex, you won't be having doubts and you would understand sex completely.
I understand that you want to become sexually active with him. Lots of young people do and that's why there are so many young pregnant girls.
I'm sure you don't want to have a child any time soon, and that's why I think you should wait.
The other reason, is that your body isn't ready for sex. At age 13, you are still growing. If you have sex with him now, it will hurt so much and you will not enjoy it.
Wait until you are older to become sexually active with someone. It really is a big deal and you've only been dating this guy for 5 months. It hasn't been very long so just wait it out. If he loves you or cares for you, he will understand that you aren't ready.
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