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i want to kiss him
14/f My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We'll call him Chris. Chris and i got together at my party through a game of 7 minutes in heaven. After that, we snuck off and made out in a dark corner where nobody could see us. I've wanted to kiss him again ever since, but every time that i see a possibility for him to kiss me, he doesnt. Its been three months and my best friend and her boyfriend kiss all the time. Telling him straight up is out of the question, so how can i tell him without telling him?
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14/m My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 months...I've wanted to kiss her again ever since, but every time that i see a possibility for her to kiss me, she doesn't.
Why does he have to be the one to kiss you? Maybe he's afraid that you don't want to. Clearly he likes kissing you and wants to kiss you or you wouldn't have gotten together after the party. I mean, it's how your relationship started! Maybe he's just a really great guy and doesn't want to take advantage of you.
Quit being crazy and just kiss him. That's the best and only way to tell him without telling him. It's not as hard as you're making it. There's no way you should spend another minute thinking about this. Good luck! :)
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If you want to kiss him, then you should.
I think that it's fine to not be making out all the time when you're 14. I don't see anything wrong with a kiss here or there but if you're always making out, like a lot of young couples are doing, it never ends well. I think you already know that though.
Just because your friend and her boyfriend kiss all the time doesn't mean you have to.
I do think it's better to just know a person in the beginning months of dating and start falling for them more before you get too intimate.
As long as he treats you right and acts like a good boyfriend, there shouldn't be too much to worry about. He might be nervous but give it some time and eventually the kissing will come naturally. Just enjoy the time you spend together right now. I mean it's only been 3 months so you have plenty more to come.
If you really want to kiss him, maybe hint at it. But if I was you, I'd just wait till he's ready to do it again.
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Well if you're looking for some off and on fling, then keep making out in dark places. But if you really like this guy and you want a true relationship then you need to take things slow and not focus so much on the physical but the emotional aspect of dating. Instead of trying to get him to not want to take his hands off of you, learn more about him. Why do you like him? Do you want to be with him for a long time? What are his intentions? What are your intentions? I don't want you to think there is anything wrong with kissing. But wanting to make out all the time at your age is, most of the time, asking for trouble. I think that from now on when you kiss him, there should be an underlying reason as to why you kiss him rather than just kissing to pass the time.
Eventhough I'm pretty sure this isn't the answer you wanted, I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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