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19/f
I am currently in college and I am undecided major. I have given my future career a lot of thought and I know that I want to do something involving a laboratory. My entire family and extended family are associated with the medical field, so it is basically in my blood to be surrounded by medicine and research. My aunt and uncle are doctors, however I wish to be the medical researcher. I need help coming up with career choices which would fit the criteria of being in a laboratory and doing research. I was either thinking pharmacy or forensic science (I've always wanted to be a detective and I am interested in the law department).
Would anyone be willing to help me out with my career problem and their inputs and/or recommendations? Thank you!
You do need to consult with your student advisor when you return to school for the next semester. For right now the one thing you can do while your home is to investigate the forensic science by calling you local police or State Police. Ask one of the departments if you could either meet with or even job shadow with someone in their Crime Scene Investigation (CSI) area.
Explain that you are presently in college looking at majoring in forensic science for law enforcement. You would like to know more about what is required to work in that area of law enforcement. To see just what is entailed in CSI so you may tailor your major.
I am very confident that once you have explained why. One of the two departments will be very happy to accommodate your request.
sooo im almost 15 and my parents never let me do anything. i live with my dad and his gf, and shes a control freak. whatever she says my dad goes along with and if i dont listen to her then she starts taking away all my fave stuff. she even goes through my phone everyday and reads every single txt message...and if i delete them, she gets online and reads them! its like i cant even go to the bathroom by myself! but anyway, i cant go anywhere with my friends, i cant ever hang out with my bf unless their with me the whole time watching my every move, i cant even ride in the car with my cousin or go anywhere with anybody without me having to calling them like every half hour telling them what im doing, what time ill be home, and blah blah blahhh! i just cant take it anymore....i mean i know im not an adult but seriously! there wayyyy too overprotective and they need to lay off a lil and give me some privacy!
This is not an answer you want or possibly like, but maybe it can help.
I can feel your pain though unfortunately there is not a lot you can do about it. When my son was your age I coined the phrase betweener. To old to be seen as a child and to young to be seen as an adult. Its probably one of the worst ages to be at.
Yes you need more freedom in order to grow and learn how to exist in the ever changing world as an adult. You also need your privacy; all young ladies' do. Your dads' girlfriend may be being as strict as she is because she remembers how wild she was at your age. Keep that to yourself please.
My advice: Sit down with dad and his girlfriend and calmly explain that you feel stifled by how tightly you are being restricted and your lack of privacy. Explain that you know right from wrong, that dad has raised you right and needs to trust that he did a good job. If you get good grades in school remind them of that. As for sexual activity if you are still a virgin you may want to point that out. If you are not; well you may want to figure out how to handle that question for I feel girlfriend may ask.
Explain to dad that you need to learn to grow. Part of learning is doing. This means you need his/their trust and that you be allowed to spread your wings a bit. To learn about being an adult. To have privacy so you can express you inner most thoughts to yourself and to your closest confidant. Expressing yourself to yourself and to your closest friend is part of being a girl and becoming a women. Without privacy it is hard to do this. Tell him if he ever questions anything all he needs do is ask, but to go through your email and texts is an invasion of your privacy and a show of distrust which you find both disturbing and unjustified.
Of course you need to find your own words for what I have written. Talking with your dad and his girlfriend together may work for dad is their to hear you and not getting things second hand. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by trying this.
Good luck. Hope I've helped some.
I am 17, female. I have scoliosis. I haven't been to the doctor for it at all. But it is to the point where it is clearly visible if i wear a tight shirt. Its on my right side and i have a pretty big rib hump because of it. My dad hasn't said anything (even though it's noticable) and i haven't mentioned anything about it either. I know that its probably only going to get worse but I just want some information/feedback/similar stories or something. I don't know what to say to my dad because I don't want to have to wear a back brace to school, I don't want to be taken out of school if surgery is needed, nor do I think we can afford any of that anyways. So I just don't know what to do, anything helps. Thanks
First things first. If mom or dad have heath insurance through work, now is the time to have this taken care of before you are no longer covered, unless you are planning to go on to college. The major cost of whatever is needed will be covered by insurance.
Next lets address your other issues:
A back brace: I know why you would not want to where a back brace. Vanity is not a reason not to allow for a valid medical procedure that will save you from very real pain later in life. Also surgery has its own pain, while short in duration, tit would still have to be dealt with.
If the doctors feel that a back brace will fix your spine then it may be your problem is not all that terrible. Surgery of any type is a radical procedure to correct problems that there is no other choice but surgery. Elective surgery, which yours would be is generally a last choice procedure.
Surgery: Unless your doctors felt it was necessary that the surgery be preformed immediately I see no reason why, if surgery is required, that you be taken out of school. The surgery could be scheduled during say spring break or even put of to summer vacation. In the interim the doctor may require you to wear a brace. As I said above the brace should not be a big deal.
Both procedures would or are being done to prevent or keep you from having life long pain as you get older. Vanity is the most likely reason why you are against wearing a brace. How will you feel if in a few years you walk looking like a question mark because of your medical condition? Then add to that feeling the very real possibility that along with how you may look you may or will be experiencing some real pain.
I can tell you that as someone who suffers from chronic pain thanks to a car accident. That pain is no fun. I take a fist full of pills several times a day. I walk around in a fog because of those pills and several times a year I undergo surgical procedures to sever nerves near my spine to block the transmission of the pain.
None of this is any fun. To look at me you cannot tell I am disabled but I am. I have experienced a life changing event at no fault of my own but still I suffer and have had to stop doing many of the things I love.
You have an opportunity to fix what is wrong with you and move on with your life. Do not let vanity get in the way of doing so. As I said surgery most likely can be scheduled around school. If it can't the school system will and must work with you and your parents to keep you current with your school work.
As for the money. That is your parents to worry about not you. Talk to your dad. Let him know what and how this is affecting you. Don't be so sure he hasn't noticed. He is probably waiting for you to come to him.
I'm having a hard time deciding wether or not my boyfriend is too controlling or if I'm my own worst enemy causing my problems. The problem is that I'm torn. On one hand, y boyfriend is super sweet, he's a stand up guy - one of the few, and I trust and love him. On the other, he's got a very strong personality and has non violent anger issues - his words not mine. He gets mad and annoyed over every little thing. It was never directed at me at first but after the first few months it started and now I feel like I'm always doing things so delicately, trying not to annoy him. And even when he misinterprets situations and gets annoyed with me for no reason, he never apologizes because he thinks he is always right. That's how he is and to me those are signs of a controlling person. He's very smart but dare I ever disagree or say something that he doesn't think is smart, he won't fail to point it out and make me feel bad. Again, not good.
Bu then returning to the good stuff he is sweet and does nice things for me and treats me well. Just that I want to go out and I like to dance and he doesn't anymore even though he did when we met and he repeats that he goes for me he continues to see friends and so social things for me but then when we do go he gets bored/mad and even though there's a reason for it (he has back issues and is in pain) it jus ends up putting me down. But then when I go without him with his friends it bothers him too even though he rarely admits it because he says that he was once able to do those things too but now he just can't anymore. We are both 20 and too young to stop having funbut he acts like he is 28. I don't know what to do because I loved him from way before he was like this and now I have this guy that swears were going to end up together and is amazing to me except for the fact that I am always tryi g to please him because his anger is inappropriate... Advice?
You are in a controlling relationship that can at anytime become violent. I'm not saying that it will, I'm saying that it can and therefore you are in danger. You need to leave before you are hurt.
Any relationship where one party controls the other is not good. From what you have written his controlling of you, if it has not already started, will effect your and cause you eventual issues with depression.
Even if your boyfriend never lays a hand on you in anger you are being abused. Being controlled by another is abuse and part of battered spouse syndrome. I know you don't want to here this but you are in a bad relationship one that you must leave before you are any further hurt by him.
As for his controlling ways. A psychologist will probably tell you, if you asked, that this is a personality flaw. That being something medication cannot fix or modify. I know as for years I was a controller. For me though it was part and parcel of the depression I unknowingly suffered from. In order to deal with my depression I had to have everything in my life in its proper place. This included my family. Once I was diagnosed properly for depression I was also able to deal with the controlling issues I had.
Does your boyfriend suffer from depression? I can't say; first I'm not a doctor and second you haven't supplied enough information to even make an educated guess. If you can get him to agree to being screened for depression by his doctor that would be a good thing.
Otherwise he needs to admit he has control issues and be willing to deal with them in therapy. If not; as I said above you are being abused and you could very likely be in physical danger. This is not a good relationship to be in and you need to leave.
If you need help in leaving there are organization that will help you. If you need help in finding them write me a private message and I will supply you with their contact information.
18/f
I used to watch porn on occasion but now I've noticed that I've been wanting to watch it more often. I just feel dirty about it. Should I feel ashamed?
There is nothing wrong with watching porn. Like masturbation as long as it does not become an all encompassing activity to the detriment of everything else have at it.
There are some people who believe porn is dirty and has no place in society. While I disagree with them I have fought a war to defend their right to object. Just as I have defended your right to watch.
I believe that porn does have its place when viewed properly. Their are some who view porn for the simple pleasure they receive from viewing it. There are others who may watch porn to learn about new sexual positions and still others to spice up their sex lives.
Whatever their reasons are as long as it is done in an adult legal manner. Meaning no kiddie porn, there is nothing wrong with viewing porn.
So relax and enjoy yourself.
what is a blow job particularly and how do you give it?
The information provided by Erinn_the_bamf is the proper advise.
If you need to ask these questions you are probably to young to be involved in sexual activity. As someone old enough to be your grandfather let me give you some uninvited advise.
Teenage boys confuse love and lust. When they hit puberty they are hard wired to find sexual relief. They will tell a girl anything they need to in order together to provide sexual relief to them. Don't fall for this as teenage boy have one other problem. They cannot keep a secret. If a girl provides any for of sex to them or for them the have to tell someone. Usually their best friend. He usually tells his best friend and before you know it you are suddenly very popular because you now have a reputation for being easy. This is not a reputation you want as it is very hard to live down.
The boys you are seeing in school for the most part may tell you they love you,but trust me here most as many as I would guess 90% are confusing lust with love. So be very selective in choosing who who and when you have any sexual relationship.
I know this for I was once a teenage boy and this has not changed since then or before me.
do u pregnant by givin a blowjob and i was havin ma periods!
You really need to study anatomy and physiology. Your mouth and your vagina are connected to two different systems with in your body that are not interconnected.
Your mouth is connected to your digestive system. You vagina is connected to your reproductive system. There is no way sperm entering your mouth can find its way to your reproductive system. Sperm has to enter your vagina in order for you to be come pregnant. This is the ONLY WAY A WOMEN CAN BECOME PREGNANT.
I too would suggest you not participate in any sexual activity until you learn more on how a woman can become pregnant and how to prevent pregnancy when having sex. Otherwise you may end up an unwed mother.
Just how old are you and how old are the boys you are with?
Does anyone have a list of the sears store that are closing?
I heard the news about the sears closings the other day but I can't find anyplace that says which ones are shutting down! I applied to one and have had two interviews, but I have another offer someplace else that I would take if my local sears store is closing.
Can anyone help me find out more about this?
They will not be announced until sometime next month.
ihad sex with my hubby and im fix but my ?is if your fix can you still get pragnet beac i had a .aweek ago and we had sex but i spoted a day now for the last for4 days i been sick could i be pragnet
It has happened. It depends on the type of ligation that was done but it is rare. The best thing to do is to have a pregnancy test done. You can start with a home pregnancy test. If that is positive visit you gyn for a blood test.
It just may be coincidence that you are sick with symptoms mimicking pregnancy. Signs of pregnancy this soon is possible but it just may be you are also working off some type of bug. Wait a week before taking the home pregnancy test and go from there.
I'm 23/f. He's 25/m.
I'm engaged to this awesome guy and I have always gotten along with his family. There have been recent changes in our life and we decided not to tell his parents till it was the right time and place.
The couple of days ago, they asked a question very related to that recent change and I accidentally let it slip. They asked more questions about the issue and I answered, thinking I was answering correctly.
When they left, my fiance called me a liar and told me I lied straight in his parents' faces because apparently I had answered their questions wrong. I did not know I was answering it wrong, at all. I now feel terrible because my fiance tells me I ruined everyone's Christmas and holiday.
His father now is angry with me because I "lied". I was not lying, at least not intentionally. I was merely giving the wrong answer while thinking it was right. My fiance is furious now, especially that I accidentally let the info slip, and he will barely speak with me and I don't know what to do or how to fix this.
I need to mend things asap. I have tried apologizing, I have tried doing everything in my power, even giving it time. This is the third day and I do not want it to continue further... What should I do?
Thanks in advance.
I agree with Zane; you are being a little vague here on what the problem is. What you said and whether what you said was the truth, as you know it to be or knew it to be at the time; or why you fiance called you a liar.
Having this information would help us formulate a specific answer to your problem. A general answer to your problem is what you have already tried; that is to apologize to all concerned. Try apologizing again, this time if your were not the first time, be more specific in why you said what you said.
You might say that their questions were so specific you felt compelled to answer as you did for whatever reasons you did. You felt their questions were so specific that they realized something had changed and....
I wish I could be of more help. Lack of information hampers my/our ability in formulating a better answer.
Hi ... I am working in MNC and their is 4 member in our team I am the Team Lead their my three members is not capable that enough as company wants. now my manager want to promote from two member out of four in our team so I am confused I am sure that I am one of them and my manager ask me to recommend one name, so which name I should give I don't want to give any name because they are not capable for the work. so should I give a name to my manager or should I not?
Part of being a manger is knowing the capabilities of your people. You say the other members of your team are not capable of meeting the requirement or standards of the company. I understand your point of view on this. Of the three is there one who with a little mentoring could meet the standards of the company. This person might possibly be the newest member of your team and the only reason he/she doesn't meet the standard is length of time on the job to learn all that is required.
This is the person you recommend to your manger; with the explanation that this person with mentoring can learn what is required to meet the standards necessary to be a good leader. In your view the other two do not meet the standards required and why. Then it is up to the manager to decide to take your recommendation or promote one of the other two.
I have been taking YAZ birth control pills for a long time and I heard a commercial for a lawyer saying that YAZ has BAD side effects and can even kill you! They said if you have ever taken it to call their law firm and talk to an attorney right away because there is a "class action" lawsuit against YAZ!
I didn't get the phone number or website because I was so in shock and I haven't seen the commercial again so can anyone tell me who I should call about getting legal help? And what good is legal assistance if I am dead? Can you really die from taking birth control pills? They said blood clots and cancer and stuff. :(
I am scared! Help!
Signed terrified yaz user!
Razhie is correct in what she has told you.
There was a book written that became a best seller about these lawyers who file product liability law suits. In the law they are called "Torts" or common law as it is based on common sense rather than statute law. The book was called, I believe "King of Torts", it was an interesting book of fiction based on the reality of Tort suits.
This is what is happening with the YAZ commercial you have seen. The lawyer sees an opportunity to win a product liability suit against Yaz. There may be millions at dollars at stake here if the suit is won. First the Lawyers get paid in full. Then what is left over is divided among the claimants.
I was inadvertently involved in one such suit. They won the suit. The settlement was in the millions of dollar range. After the lawyers took there fees the claimants received $67.85 which is what I paid for the product the suit was over.
Yaz is no more dangerous then any other birth control on the market. It is popular therefore it may be having a higher incident of what is called adverse outcomes. This is an all encompassing term for anything from rashes to death. The commercials I see warns against certain practices while taking Yaz as those practices such as smoking increase those risks.
If your concerned talk to your doctor about a different medication or another form of birth control. Always be honest and forthcoming with your doctor so the doctor can properly treat you and prescribe accordingly. Have regular check ups by a GYN and you should be okay with what ever form of birth control you and your doctor agree on.
What does it mean to "rub your clit"? Where is that?
Clit is short or slang for clitoris. It is located at the top of your vagina. Before I answer the next part of your question I need to know how old you are. The part of your question I have answered is the part your mom should have told you about when she had the sex talk with you.
i suddenly started getting bad pain in the lower left side of my back about an hour and a half ago, it hurts when i walk and try to sit up for a long period of time. Also when i went to the toilet i was in severe pain.
None of us are doctors and even if we were we are not allowed to give or make diagnoses on this site.
If you have not already done so you need to see a doctor. There are a number of vital organ that can give you pain where you are describing, among then would be a kidney.
If you are having a Kidney problem any or all of them need to be treated by a doctor. Since this is 24 hours since your posting I would recommend going to either a 24 hour walk in clinic or a hospital emergency room if your family doctor will not see you today.
If you are a minor tell your parents immediately as Kidney problems are serious and need immediate medical intervention. As with any bodily ache or pain you need to inform your parents. They are much better able to access the need for medical treatment than we are.
Pain is your bodies way of telling you something is wrong, do not ignore it. If you do not know the reason for the pain seek a doctors advise.
If you are concerned that the pain may be due to sexual activity and by seeking a doctors advise mom will find out you are sexually active, DON'T BE. As long as you are over 14 you have medical privacy. Meaning you can meet with your doctor in private. Mom or dad must wait in the waiting room. This is by Federal Law. This allows you to speak openly with the doctor and allow the doctor to properly treat you. Neither the doctor or anyone in his employ may revel to you parents the results of the exam or what the doctor is treating you for without your written permission. To do otherwise carries a 10 year prison sentence. This privacy act covers all medical professional you may come in contact with including EMTs and Paramedics.
The law is called HIPPA. It is a Federal Law passed for just this reason, and others. But is does allow for anyone over the age of 14 to have medical privacy. So if your concern was mom or dad would find out you are sexually active, your concerns are not valid. Your doctor cannot tell your parents even if they are the best of friends. So go see a doctor.
what is the spanish word for vagina
la vagina, vagina, slang Cho cho
Ummm this is kinda embarresing but My underwear smells...And yes I wipe well and wash with soap down there...but even when i do i still smell...i change my underwear once a day.. and the smell is very strong...i have never had sex (im only 13). Could this be diet isues? How can i get this smell to go away? I really really need help!please!
The odor is totally normal and is partially due to the hormones now racing through your body. There are different products on the market you can use to mask the odor but not cause them to go away.
This is also something you should speak to your mother about. This is occurs as normal young girls go through the bodily changes that make them young women.
Your mother is the best person to talk to as she can help you best understand what is happening and what you can do to overcome this problem. Remember even though we are talking about a part of you that is also your sexual organ, what you need advice on has nothing to do with sex and should not be embarrassing for or your mother to talk about. It is as much a bodily function as peeing and pooping is as well as something mom herself may have to deal with. So talk to her.
20/M
My whole life I've been very sheltered. I have very few friends and I'm not that close to my family. I had 4 girlfriends before I was 18. The longest relationship I had lasted almost a year. I've been single for 2 years now.
I'm a virgin, even though I'm great at pleasuring girls sexually in all other ways.
I've been told a lot that I'm quite attractive, with an athletic body. My family is very wealthy, and I have plenty of money. I have a genius IQ and am going to a university (still living at home) and studying in cognitive neurochemistry and biotechnology. I have traveled the world, and have great social skills, and can make people laugh really easily. But I just don't have any close friends. The friends I do have are all nerdy guys who have never touched women.
I don't really have any friends at college. I tried online dating, but it made me kinda feel like a loser because I cant find a girl in real life to be with, plus meeting in person for the first time might be awkward. The women I go out with have all been emotionally abusive as well, which makes me even more reluctant to really try to get into a relationship because I feel like I'm just going to be treated like I'm worthless for the 10th time.
I just don't know how or where to meet people to be honest. Would you consider online dating to be kind of pathetic? I don't like parties, not that I know enough people to be invited to them. I'm too young to go to bars. And I'm not interested in any school or community clubs.
People always tell me "just go out and meet people go to parties and stuff lol", but I'm just not built that way. Is there something wrong with me? All the girlfriends I have had I met in high school or driving school. Now that I'm not around girls that often, I have no chance of getting a girlfriend, never mind a good one.
What do I do? The only time I really feel happy and satisfied is when I have been in relationships, even bad ones. I'm happy with myself, I just hate being so alone all the time.
First things first. There is nothing wrong with online dating, more on this in a bit. Second and very important is that when you do meet a girl is not to immediately acknowledge the fact that you are wealthy. The last thing you want is some women to latch on to you because she is a gold digger.
My usual advice to questions like yours is to ask them to sit down with pen and paper and make a list of those things that interests them. These would include school clubs and community clubs. You would also list things like hiking, camping, fishing, photography and even bird watching if this is something that interests you.
The idea behind this list is to prioritize these things in order of interest then look for clubs that are organized around these things. Why do this? Simple, as you said you have a hard time starting a conversation with people especially women. When you have a common interest you have a common ground by which to have a conversation. Maybe you are just listening to a group when something is said that you can offer to the conversation. Now you have broken the ice with these people.
Essentially this is what these online dating services do. They match your interest and education with a like minded women. There is someone out there who is a match for you. The dating service shortcuts the process of finding her or then for you. Common interests is the building block for a lasting relationship.
I'm sure you've heard the expression beauty is only skin deep. This is very true. Beauty is designed to attack the opposite sex. Sex without a solid foundation to build a relationship on is like trying to build a house on quick sand. In my mind online dating takes you beyond the attraction phase into the foundation building phase. From there the sexual attraction will come as you get to know the person that lies just below the skin.
You're not a loser for using online dating. Many important and busy people who don't have the time to date have used online dating to find a mate. Try again this time with a positive attitude.
So I'm a13 year-old girl, and I want a good way to give my guy a boner. We have been dating for 4 months (soon to be 5), so the touch barrier is broken. That doesn't mean I really want to give him a hand-job though. Thanks for the help. :)
Frankly I think you are a little young to be thinking about this. You say "I want a good way to give my guy a boner. That doesn't mean I really want to give him a hand-job though." What he is seeing is that you are a tease. If you get him excited he would expect that you do something about it. If you don't then you are a tease. If you get a reputation as a tease that is almost as bad as getting a reputation as being easy.
My advice:
1. You are to young to be going down this road, it can easily lead to places you are too young to be going.
2. Stick to making out with him. Kissing and hugging for now.
3. If you want and you feel you can control him and yourself you can consider letting him feel you up above the waist and with his cloths on.
For now this is as far as you go. Your may have the body of a young women but you and your body are not yet mature enough to any farther sexually. You may be a very mature and responsible 13 year old. Even so you have a lot more to learn about life in general before you take the turn in life that leads to sex and sexual intercourse.
If you are a popular young lady, which I'm sure you are, you will have many more boyfriends in your life. All will want the same thing, sex. boys your age confuse lust and love, it is their hormones that drive them. Don't let their hormones force you to do something you shouldn't or are not ready for.
Wait until the time is right, until you meet someone you will have a long term relationship with. Possibly someone you can share your life with. I'm not saying you should wait until your married. What I am saying is that you should wait for someone that knows the difference between lust and love. That will respect you and not leave you after you become a notch on his belt.
The best thing for you to do to remain popular is to not become a tease and to respect yourself. By this I mean you do not have to have sex with a boy to keep him as a boyfriend.
I am a 13 year old girl and i question my sexuality. i think boys aare hot and like them and stuff but sometimes i feel curious to look when my close girl friends are changing and think girls are really pretty and have good boobs. i sometimes think i want to kiss a girl to know if im a lesbian but i have never kissed a boy but i want to. people say its normal to sometimes feel lesbian or gay during puberty but im still worries.please no mean comments
Thanks!
At your age there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are feeling. You are checking out your sexuality, it does not mean your gay. I believe it is not only normal to for girls to check out other girls or boys to check out other boys, it is part of the process of defining who you are sexually.
It is also very normal in certain social situations for girls to hug and kiss each other. This is not an indication you are gay or have lesbian desires. At some point in defining their sexuality many girls and boys, although most won't admit it, will have at least had some form of same sex, sexual relationship just to see what it was like. Here again their is nothing wrong as it is part of defining who you are sexually.
Unfortunately this is something not taught in sex ed. Something most parents won't talk to their children about because they will not consider the thought that their child may be gay. Their is nothing wrong with being gay.
My only advice to anyone, still in high school, who feels they are truly gay is not to come out with it as the other students and even some teachers will shun them. Gay bashing in high school is also very prevalent so for reasons of personal safety I advise they stay in the closet.
For now and for you; now is not the time to put a label on your sexuality as you are still experimenting with it. When you are much older then you can decide who you are sexually.
My Boyfriend Asked Me If Id Have Sex With Him Im 15 Years Old And I Kind Of Want To But I Want Some Advice. He Got Tested For Aids And All That And He Dont Have Them But I Just Want Some Advice
You don't say what advice you are looking for which makes it hard to give you advice. There are two pieces of advice I can give you though.
First: I think 15 is to young to be having sex in the first place. Your body is not fully capable yet and you are not fully mature enough to handle a sex life. Yes your body will accommodate a boys penis but that is not what I mean by your body is not fully capable or mature enough yet.
Second: You are asking for advice; to me this means you are probably having doubts of your own about having sex. Meaning you are not ready. This is a good thing. You should never do something you have doubts about. Doubts are a warning system telling you that something is either dangerous and you could be hurt or you are not ready yet for whatever it is you are thinking of doing. So just tell your boyfriend you are not ready yet.