Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2011, 12:43 am
So I'm a13 year-old girl, and I want a good way to give my guy a boner. We have been dating for 4 months (soon to be 5), so the touch barrier is broken. That doesn't mean I really want to give him a hand-job though. Thanks for the help. :)
Additional info, added Wednesday December 28 2011, 1:14 am: Also I would appreciate it if there were no comments about my age. Thanks again. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 8:30 pm: It's really not a good idea to give a guy a boner if you have no intention of taking things further. When boys become aroused they generally expect to have a sexual encounter. He might pressure you to go farther than you are comfortable with, and that's not a position you want to put yourself in.
adviceman49 answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 10:12 am: Frankly I think you are a little young to be thinking about this. You say "I want a good way to give my guy a boner. That doesn't mean I really want to give him a hand-job though." What he is seeing is that you are a tease. If you get him excited he would expect that you do something about it. If you don't then you are a tease. If you get a reputation as a tease that is almost as bad as getting a reputation as being easy.
1. You are to young to be going down this road, it can easily lead to places you are too young to be going.
2. Stick to making out with him. Kissing and hugging for now.
3. If you want and you feel you can control him and yourself you can consider letting him feel you up above the waist and with his cloths on.
For now this is as far as you go. Your may have the body of a young women but you and your body are not yet mature enough to any farther sexually. You may be a very mature and responsible 13 year old. Even so you have a lot more to learn about life in general before you take the turn in life that leads to sex and sexual intercourse.
If you are a popular young lady, which I'm sure you are, you will have many more boyfriends in your life. All will want the same thing, sex. boys your age confuse lust and love, it is their hormones that drive them. Don't let their hormones force you to do something you shouldn't or are not ready for.
Wait until the time is right, until you meet someone you will have a long term relationship with. Possibly someone you can share your life with. I'm not saying you should wait until your married. What I am saying is that you should wait for someone that knows the difference between lust and love. That will respect you and not leave you after you become a notch on his belt.
Dman1807 answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 1:53 am: If youve broken the touch phase and you want ti be sexual
Go ahead and act like it and ask him if he wants too do it
I can gurantee he will say yes
gani1993 answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 12:57 am: I'm 19. At thirteen I was not thinking about boners, sex, moretheless giving a guy a handy. Honestly of you think your old enough to do stuff then do so. But at thirteen showing someone you like them shouldn't be through sexual stuff. Kinda sad thirteen her olds are this bad now. [ gani1993's advice column | Ask gani1993 A Question ]
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