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So I have gotten my first cold sore from who knows where. Anyways, I didn't feel it coming and its on my lower lip on my right. Its on the whole left side of my lower lip. It takes up half of my lip.
So yeah, I went to the doctors on Monday because it was pretty bad. I had it since last Friday. They gave me 2 pills to take 3 times a day. So I'm taking 6 pills a day.
So it has gotten better.
It looked really bad a couple of days ago and I hate how I look. I start school on Monday so do you think it will look any better than it does now?
It's just the scab now and I've had it for 2 days. I don't know how long these usually last?
I think it was pretty bad because it all happened on the same day. I was sick, on my period, and then this cold sore.
I just don't want to start school again with a big scab on my lip.. (link)
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Awe it'll be fine. I've never had one but my friend gets them a lot. And if your on medicine it should be pretty clear within three days. Don't load a bunch of Make up over it though it will irritate it. Feel better!
Krissi
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How does a guy know his not a virgin? (link)
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If your a christain or of different denominations, some of them consider losing your "virginity" once you have oral sex its lost. But if you wanna think the obvious way once its out and exposed as well as hers, and its put in even if not all the way in your virginity. But a reminder, make sure you lover her or him :)
Kriss
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Ummm this is kinda embarresing but My underwear smells...And yes I wipe well and wash with soap down there...but even when i do i still smell...i change my underwear once a day.. and the smell is very strong...i have never had sex (im only 13). Could this be diet isues? How can i get this smell to go away? I really really need help!please! (link)
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truth is....don't use soap down there lol. Makes the smells Go weird. Mixes with hormones or whatever. Lol. You this soap its Clear.....nonscented...feminine wash. Or gentle or easy. Its common you'll see it. Also weird..but is there discharge in your underwears
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So I'm a13 year-old girl, and I want a good way to give my guy a boner. We have been dating for 4 months (soon to be 5), so the touch barrier is broken. That doesn't mean I really want to give him a hand-job though. Thanks for the help. :) (link)
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I'm 19. At thirteen I was not thinking about boners, sex, moretheless giving a guy a handy. Honestly of you think your old enough to do stuff then do so. But at thirteen showing someone you like them shouldn't be through sexual stuff. Kinda sad thirteen her olds are this bad now.
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Hello! I need help on trying to quit thinking my girlfriend is cheating on me :(.. I'm 20 and she is 17... I love her a lot and I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me! We have been together for 6 months and it scares me to think about it and I hate thinking about it! Its complicated to explain, sometimes she doesn't show that she loves me and every time I want her to hangout with me she says that she can't control it because of heer parents but yet she can still go and hangout with her friends! And when we do hangout we have a good time and sometimes we fight! I just don't know what to do :'(... Makes me angry! If someone could help me I can explain more! Thank you! (link)
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Coming from a 19year old girl I can tell you my opinion about her. Have you ever asked her or implied anything about her cheating. Does she hangoutt with other guyss. And honestly bacck when I was 16 17. I was a lot more immature and I'd lie to a bf when really I could hangout. Maybe she's trying to end it slowly. Ir doesn't want to make you feel bad. I'm sorry :( maybe not to worth it. Its been six months shouldn't fight tooo much yet.
Kriss.
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well, me and this guy have been like close friends for a while, im 13 and he's 16, he asked me out on a date and i dont know wiether to go or not, there is a couple who are going to be there but im going to be sitting next to him and i think there gonna be sitting somewhere else in the pictures(movies), i was thinking of going but he said we could always munch(snog) if im up for it, i havent agreed to go of anything yet, but he says that he likes me and everything, should i go or not?(oh i do like him back but im wondering what yous think about it) and my bestfriend thinks i should because he is such a lovley guy and very good looking, its just the slight age gap? (link)
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When I. Was 13,14,15,16... I dated older guys to, ohhhh what gentleman they were, not. Some I had known for years. So I thought the age gap to be void. Not all wanted second, but other things. Its a trap. And if he is one in a thousand he will wait for you. Ir he will date you without assuming he is going to get pleasure out of it. Take it frooM me....skip it or have a talk...just don't get sucked in.
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I sit alone at lunch. I hate it I get so upset about it. Every table I've asked to sit at their table. They've said no because it was too "full" or they just didn't want me there. I hate it so much (link)
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Same used to happen to me at my new school. What you gotta do is start talking to people and make friends. Or bring good treats and show them off.
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My boyfriend says he wants to slow dance with me. While I've never slow danced before, I'd like to pick out some songs to dance to. I really enjoy artists like Jack Johnson, John Mayer, Matt Nathanson, and Jason Mraz.
I was thinking Angel by Jack Johnson, St. Patrick's Day by John Mayer, and A Beautiful Mess by Jason Mraz. Any other suggestions? (link)
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Michael buble. Kci & Jo Jo. Train- when I look to the sky. Christina perri- arms, distance.
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I have had a somewhat colourful life, sexually abused as a child for a period of 8 years by a family member. I grew up in a household where drugs and alcohol were a daily vice. I was removed from here when I was 14 and lived on people's sofa's going from one house to the next. I longed for love but when I got it, I used and abused it.
Years passed, I got into university, but not before going out one night and being so drunk that I woke up in the morning in my house nakered and covered in bruses. I had been rapped but had no idea, when, how, where and by whom.
I chose to put this behind me, I had a goal in life and started an academic career.
I went through uni, getting drunk, sleeping with random men. Feeling completely ashamed and empty everytime. I realised that this would never happen if I didn't drink alcohol. I stopped drinking. Things moved on, got better. I got some self respect back. I have met the man of my dreams. He looks after me, he cares. I have confided in him about my past antics and helped me through! I really love him.
After a night round a new friends, I drank wine. I ended up asking my friends to come back to my house, where my boyfriend was waiting up for me. Upset that i didn't consider him, he left.
I ended up in bed with 2 people. We didn't have full sex but we kissed. This has left me feeling terribly ashamed and guilt ridden. I normally have great insight into myself and I know that to change my behaviour, firstly I need to look at what I want my ideal self to be. I am waiting for therapy around my past but it's taking so long. Do I risk telling my boyfriend, breaking his heart and loosing the best thing that has ever happened to me, or do I never tell him and put this behind me? I am English female nearly 30 (link)
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I would tell him. I'd you bee commit and get married you will look like a liar, and decieving. Best idea...sit him down. Tell him everything, and don't sugar coat anything.
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Im 13 and female. Girls at my new act really, really nice when they want something or need help, ect. but when i wanna just hang out they act like bitches. (sorry for the explict language.) Like just yesterday, i practically did they're whole history paper and then they just snub me. I think it might be because im emo. Can you tell me whats wrong? (link)
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Thy are using you they do not care about tour well being. Here if you need anything.
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The same thing keeps happening when ever I get into a serious relationship
I'm a 19m by the way
We have sex and it consumes the relationship
I can't really talk to my friends about it
I have no reason to complain I have an above average sized "package" about 9" and I have sex atleast once a day I live the mans dream but it isn't a relationship and that's what I really want any advice would help (link)
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Next time you get. Into a relationship with a girl, make it more of a gift. Work your way up to it, it can make things a lot more then just sex. You have to value her and she value you :)
Krissi.
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ok i been talking to this girl and she wants to **** but i didnt so she asked if she could blow me and i let her a few days later she told me she found out she has herpes. can i get it from a bj
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If she has genital herpes its fine. But if sh ehas it on her mouth and she has a break out then you will most likely get it from her. But remember she has to have a breakout. But honestly, I'd find someone else. Lol.
Kriss.
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21 female. Nick 19. This may be kind of long but I will really appreciate any help! :)
Me and Nick have been together for about 4 months. He is the nicest guy I've ever been with I really couldn't ask for a better guy. We've known each other for a long time but just started dating months ago. He pays for me when we go to dinner or get anything to eat. I'll be like "Nooo!" And take out my wallet because I feel bad that he pays for me. But he won't take my money he makes me put my wallet away.
Well last weekend we were going on a double date with my brother and his wife. Nick called his mom for something and she asked what we were doing that night and Nick said going to dinner and his mom asked if he was paying for me and Nick was like well yeah. And she said well do you always pay for her? And he said yeah. And she was like does she ever pay for you? And he said no but she said that she was going to take me to dinner soon. Then she said ..well that's not right and she said it kind of in a mean tone. And she was on speaker phone so I heard everything. Nick was pretty quiet and his mom was like is she right there? And he said yeah, and I walked away. It was so uncomfortable and I was kind of offended.
That night when we were at dinner I took out my wallet again and he said no, put that away and I insisted I at least pay for the tip then and he wasn't even going to let me do that but I forced him to let me.
And just a couple nights before this happened we were talking and I even said I hate that you pay for me I feel bad! And he said no I want to pay for you babe and I said well I'm taking you out some time then! :)
It just bugs me that his mom would say that about me acting like I'm taking advantage of him or something saying "well that's not right, she should pay for you" I couldn't stop thinking about it all night and I was really quiet. Nick could tell something was wrong and he kept asking me if I was mad at him. Finally I said, I know your mom doesn't like me. And he said she likes you babe, you wanna know why she likes you? Because she sees how happy you make me. And I said well it didn't really sound like she liked me too much on the phone and he said well I don't think she said anything bad, what part didn't you like? Obviously he was sticking up for his mom and didn't think anything she said was offensive. I just let it go. But now whenever I see her next I am going to feel really uncomfortable around her. Would you be a little offended if you were me? I don't know what to do!
Plus, he told me way back that he wanted to pay for me & take care of me because I am doing school full time and can't work that much and he is working full time right now before he goes back to school so he knows I don't have a lot of money right now. But it's not like I say, you have to pay for me! No, I'm not like that at all. (link)
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Oh goah. Moms are very protective of their babys. Just ignore it, its the way of life. I would be upset but do not let her get to you. Go out for Ice cream once in awhile and pay enven though you really shouldn't have to. Show him or make him something to show how much you care. Let whatever she says roll off her tongue and over your shoulder. Do no, I repeat do not, say anythohg to offensive or mean about his mom. He will go into protect mode. Unless he knows damn well she isn't nice.
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Okay so i have thick hair, and its really wavy... it looks like this(except is like a light brown color)
http://jmarle.com/zencart/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=2_5_7&products_id=26&zenid=ap1g08qaffv1pmvrgv04h8ekr4
but that is only when it is wet! when it dries it is like frizzy and poofy. you can see the waves, but they get all frizzy and it makes my hair look tangly and dry! i hate it! it looks a lot like this when it dries. (when i mean that i mean when i use my moose and stuff to try and hold the curls and reduce frizz)
http://forums.longhaircommunity.com/showthread.php?t=71410
[by the way, i got these pictures from google...don't sue me :) haha.]
The products i use are
-suave curls spray gel (works okay but makes my hair hard)
-pantene curly moose(its really light but i'm not sure its really doing what i want it to)
and then sometimes is use hask spray on luminator pure shine, but that only works for a little i feel like.
BASICALLY i want to know shampoos/conditioners/leave-in condititoners to wash my hair with AND moose, smoothing creams, or luminators than will define my curls, make my hair silky and SOFT , and reduce frizz. what are products that do this? pleaseee help!!!!!! thanks!!! (link)
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Sammmme here. I use tresseme mousse. Tres. Hair spray. Also there is a product called ion. It is a brand but they have packets of it for rehydrating your hair. Use it twice a week. If all else fails.....go to sallys beauty supply.
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my just don't understand me .nobody loves me at all..i am so lonely..in previous test i have got very poor marks .. i told them the reason but they told me to stop study and to be ready for marriage .i am just 18 . in my college ... i just want to die please tell me easy way to die (link)
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Death isn't an easy way out. Consider your family. And if you do not have any consider friends, and if you don't have any of those consider everyone who will be sad to see you have gone. Also, you are a product of love, especially in gods gyes. Of you don't believe in him, I'm sorry. But don't do something so selfish. You study, you graduate. Stay determined. And I will always be here for advice.
Kriss.
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Ok, so i'm thirteen and am a virgin. As it should be and I have not popped my cherry. I want to masturbate but without popping my cherry. Any ideas how? And no, my parents don't know about this. So please don't tell me to ask them. I am a girl too! (link)
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First off in order to finger yourself, you do notttt Ave to go inside. The clitoris s the most sensitive part and is what makes it way more stimulating. But do so as you please. More than likely you won't pop it. Again, don't go deep inside and you don't even have to go inside.
Kriss.
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I am 16. Okay, so last night this guy fingered me (my first time) and he did it really, really hard. He did it for a few hours actually. Anyways, when he left there was blood spots all over the sheets and my shorts had a big blood stain. My vagina hurts and i have a bruised spot. It's been bleeding since last night so it's been a little less then a day It's only been a little tiny bit of blood coming over, barely any, but still noticiable. Is this normal? Also, it hurts a little to go to the bathroom. (link)
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After second it always hurts to pee. And after doing stuff it also can sting a little to pee. But yes it was popped. Most guys don't actually finger you while going inside of you they do it on the clit (lol). But maybe he can lighten up a little or finger you where its more normal but hey if you like it that way...then why stop.
Kriss.
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i am 14 and have a really big problem. everyone says im too young for love but truth is im not. and I love a girl but she lives too far away for me to see her often enough to date. i love her and she loves me but we cant be together. do i keep talking to her the way i do or just give up? (link)
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Honestly if you really do lover her, the thought of giving up wouldn't even pop up in your head. When you love someone you make it work. Talk to your parents and her talk to hers and maybe the parents can figure things out like I used to.
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how long will a hickey last (link)
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Two to three days.
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im a 19 year old female and since i can remember i have allways had discharge.I have had test for std's and such and they have allways been fine, i have a boyfriend we have been together for a year and a half and we are realy open with eachother and have talked about this before,i seem to notice it more after i shower because i dont were underwear after i have a shower i just were pjarmers and sometimes i can feel the gluey discharge on the top of my thigh i find it realy uncomfortable & i am quite embarrassed about it when having sex, im paranoid i may smell or it may make a mess is ther any type of cream or medical treatment available that can control this ? (link)
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Go to the doctor, there is medicine for it. Obviously cream would not be very helpful. Wear underwear, and a small pad so it is not uncomfortable.
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