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I am 13 so should i go out with a 16 year old or not?
well, me and this guy have been like close friends for a while, im 13 and he's 16, he asked me out on a date and i dont know wiether to go or not, there is a couple who are going to be there but im going to be sitting next to him and i think there gonna be sitting somewhere else in the pictures(movies), i was thinking of going but he said we could always munch(snog) if im up for it, i havent agreed to go of anything yet, but he says that he likes me and everything, should i go or not?(oh i do like him back but im wondering what yous think about it) and my bestfriend thinks i should because he is such a lovley guy and very good looking, its just the slight age gap?
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Honestly, the three year age gap worries me. In my experience boys that age are mostly after one thing. So, you might want to say no to the date at least until you are older. because this just doesn't seem right.
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When I. Was 13,14,15,16... I dated older guys to, ohhhh what gentleman they were, not. Some I had known for years. So I thought the age gap to be void. Not all wanted second, but other things. Its a trap. And if he is one in a thousand he will wait for you. Ir he will date you without assuming he is going to get pleasure out of it. Take it frooM me....skip it or have a talk...just don't get sucked in.
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In many states a 16 year old dating a 13 year old is illegal. You may like to think there is a "slight" age gap but at your age a 3 year age difference IS a big deal. Many older teens these days like to date people a few years younger because as much as he may appear to be gentlemen like what the hell is doing trying to date a 13 year old? No offense to you but you are young and vulnerable and I'm sure him being the older one is well aware of that fact. Skip it
The guy is too old for you and someone who is 16 shouldn't be looking to date someone so young.
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