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what to do: could she have given me herpes with a bj?
ok i been talking to this girl and she wants to **** but i didnt so she asked if she could blow me and i let her a few days later she told me she found out she has herpes. can i get it from a bj
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If she has genital herpes its fine. But if sh ehas it on her mouth and she has a break out then you will most likely get it from her. But remember she has to have a breakout. But honestly, I'd find someone else. Lol.
Kriss.
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The thing to remember about this question is that there are two different types of herpes viruses, including sores and genital herpes.
Herpes Simplex => [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Genital Herpes => [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Chances are since she mentioned that she has herpes, it is most likely genital herpes. Genital herpes is only spread through vaginal sex, so you are fine.
However if a girl gives you a blow job and she has a cold sore on her lips then you risk a chance of getting genital herpes.
I hope that I was able to help you.
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Unfortunately the answer is yes. You need to get tested now and again in a few months. Until you have two clean screening refrain from having sex with anyone including her.
If you have had sex with anyone since her. You need to inform them to get tested, even if you are negative now, as you could still have past the virus on in a dormant stage.
When you get tested ask about the best ways to protect yourself from STDs.
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Yes. Absolutely.
Worse than that: Herpes and HPV (genital warts, cancer, other bad stuff) are NOT stopped by condoms. Just a note for the future.
You need to get yourself tested, and tested again in a few months.
Do NOT have sexual contact with anyone else until you know for sure if you would be giving them something that they will have to carry for life.
Some advice you didn't ask for:
BEWARE of people who are desperate to have sex with you.
They are almost always trying to trap you into something before you can find out what is wrong with them.
I have been approached like this, and it is always a trap in my experience.
If the next thing you hear from this girl is that "you two have already been together, and you already have what she has so why don't you just go ahead and have sex with her... DO NOT DO IT!
I understand how tempting something like this can be, but next time think with your big head, not the little one. If you do, it could save your life.
Don't think you are the only one she is begging to have sex with her... she got herpes someplace, and it wasn't you. Who knows what else she could be carrying around? AIDS is a lot less fun to live with than herpes. :-(
Be smarter about where you allow your penis to go, and your life will end up a lot happier than it will if you keep going like you have been.
Good luck, and I hope both your tests come up clean.
P.S. Don't just get tested for herpes... get tested for everything. Seriously, you don't know where she has been.
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