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My Boyfriend Questioning Sex
My Boyfriend Asked Me If Id Have Sex With Him Im 15 Years Old And I Kind Of Want To But I Want Some Advice. He Got Tested For Aids And All That And He Dont Have Them But I Just Want Some Advice
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you're 15 so besieds it being aganest the law as you're not yet fully grone it will hurt more than it would if you wated. wen you are truely reddy you'll no, u wont nead advice you'll just no. my partting words of wizdom are that if u choose to egnor the rest of the advice and hav sex even though your boyfrend is clean from std's use a condom, other forms of contraseptive don't protect aganest pregnancy.
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Not sure exactly what advice you want but all I have to say is if you truly wanted to commit to sex you wouldn't need to come on an advice website. If you are fully ready you would know straightaway, you wouldn't need to think about it, or say "maybe" or kind of want to.
Everyone says it but in a sense you are quite young and it's not until your a bit older you realize. I don't think it's something you should do if you are having to think about. But if you feel like actually I am ready, then all I would say then is use protection, and make sure you are BOTH doing it for the right reasons.
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I also Really do not think you should Because you are very young an when i was your well a year older i made the hugest mistake an lost mine gurl i k wat it is like to feel the pressure of wanting to have sex i really do k but u also need to think of it this way will he leave after he gets wat he wants because most of the time thats wat happens especially with young teenage boys. an still he may say he wont an after he gets it he will leave because yhats wat teenage boys do im not goin to sugar coat anything cause i had guys say they wont then they got it an then they were gone so dont make a foolish mistake like i did dont have sex until you know that he is the right guy an you an him are going to get married cause girl it was fun while it lasted but it only lasts an few minutes an then you have caused alot of damage possibly pregnancy possibly you just lost a boyfriend cause you gave it up an he is gone so just remember always think before you do things you aint sure you want to do an if that dont work pray an god will give you a answer not tryin to preach cause usually i dont
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You don't say what advice you are looking for which makes it hard to give you advice. There are two pieces of advice I can give you though.
First: I think 15 is to young to be having sex in the first place. Your body is not fully capable yet and you are not fully mature enough to handle a sex life. Yes your body will accommodate a boys penis but that is not what I mean by your body is not fully capable or mature enough yet.
Second: You are asking for advice; to me this means you are probably having doubts of your own about having sex. Meaning you are not ready. This is a good thing. You should never do something you have doubts about. Doubts are a warning system telling you that something is either dangerous and you could be hurt or you are not ready yet for whatever it is you are thinking of doing. So just tell your boyfriend you are not ready yet.
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I tink you shldnt hav sex wit him, you ar still very young nd you might even get pregnant
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