Member Since: December 26, 2011
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A little over 2 years ago, my husband and I separated. I took our daughter and lived with her for a year. And trying to be a good parent *she wanted to see her father for the summer* I didn't wish to deny her this. She was at the time only 5 years old. I allowed her to visit with him for the summer, and when the time came for her to come back, he said he wasn't going to bring her back, that I'm never going to see her again and refused to let me speak with her. I believe he is trying to get back at me for leaving him. I have tried to go through a lawyer, but I did not have the funds to pay for it, and with todays economy, it is very difficult to find a job to pay for a lawyer. So I went through a pro bono service, where for people who do not have much income, they do it as it sounds.. Pro bono (aka free), and whenever I contact them, they never get back to me.
I have tried contacting him for about 1 year and 6 months, he has since then changed his phone number, moved somewhere else, and as I've seen gotten different IM S/N's, Emails, and social networking accounts. Any emails I send him go unanswered, any letters I mail go unread and returned, any calls I had made previously went unanswered then eventually to someone I did not know. Pro-Bono (the name of the company that helps with divorces) is taking WAY to long to do anything, and I guess considering it is a free service, that they will take their precious time, but I am beginning to lose myself. I am constantly applying to jobs, trying to find some source of income so I can pay for a real lawyer, but to no avail. I have gone to the police but I get the same answers each time (You are separated so you both have equal legal custody, we can't do anything about it blah blah, go to a lawyer) I was wondering if there was any other services or something I can do to get this taken care of more quickly. I miss my daughter so much that it's beginning to effect my mental state. *Before separating from my husband, I was suffering severe depression due to his abusive nature* After having left him, and having it be me and my daughter, I have gotten better, but after him taking her, I have slowly begun to deteriorate. Another question, is this considered kidnapping? Even though I had given him permission, he was to return her before the beginning of the school year, and as previously stated, he did not. Some advice and help is more than appreciated and I would be more than grateful. Right now, I'm not above anything to beg for help. I desperately want my daughter back, I went through the pain of carrying her and having her, and to me, it is not right to deprive a mother of her child. (link)
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my mother went through the same thing the only thing you can do is try an get the child without him nowing because niether of you have full cutody you practically can do the samething he did an no it is not kidnapping because you or him have full custody so the only thing you can do is try an get the child to same way he did an if it dont work you can call the police an tell them what is going on an that he took the child from you an he wont let you see her an prolly the only thing they will say is take out a report dont k if this helped
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I just lost a good friend of mine...skateboarding was his life. He was born to skate, lived to skate, and died skating. He was the most amazing guy ever. He was friends with everyone, no matter who you were. He would do anything for anyone too. Three days ago he was skateboarding and his board went out in the middle of the street. He ran after it and was struck by a pickup truck. He was in a coma for 2 days and then they did some brain tests and he failed them. He wa s brain dead. He was only 14 yrs old. I know hes in a better place now...probably skateboarding(: ...but i just dont know what to do )': i miss him like crazy...i just wish i could be with him in Heaven..a place where theres no more goodbyes "/ ...what should i do? (link)
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Well fiest of all i know what it feels like losing somebody you love i lost my grandmother not to long ago an it hurts still to talk about it but what i did is i would pray to god to tell them what i was feeling an sometimes i knew he had told them because something was always telling me that i shouldnt cry because she didnt want me to cry because they were much happier where they are now you really have to think of it this way they arent suffering an hurt anymore an they dont have to put up with wat was going to be ahead of them in the future because everything happens for a reason it doesnt matter if it is death or if it is birth because trust me if he wouldnt have died in that way it may have been painful when he would have came home possibly paralyzed an then he would have been very depressed because he would not have been able to do wat he loved the most so look at it this way try to be happier an if you want this sometimes helps go to where he is buried an just sit there an talk like your talking to them i mean its not like im telling you to be crazy it just helped me cope with wat i was going through so dont dis it until you actually try it
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My Boyfriend Asked Me If Id Have Sex With Him Im 15 Years Old And I Kind Of Want To But I Want Some Advice. He Got Tested For Aids And All That And He Dont Have Them But I Just Want Some Advice (link)
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I also Really do not think you should Because you are very young an when i was your well a year older i made the hugest mistake an lost mine gurl i k wat it is like to feel the pressure of wanting to have sex i really do k but u also need to think of it this way will he leave after he gets wat he wants because most of the time thats wat happens especially with young teenage boys. an still he may say he wont an after he gets it he will leave because yhats wat teenage boys do im not goin to sugar coat anything cause i had guys say they wont then they got it an then they were gone so dont make a foolish mistake like i did dont have sex until you know that he is the right guy an you an him are going to get married cause girl it was fun while it lasted but it only lasts an few minutes an then you have caused alot of damage possibly pregnancy possibly you just lost a boyfriend cause you gave it up an he is gone so just remember always think before you do things you aint sure you want to do an if that dont work pray an god will give you a answer not tryin to preach cause usually i dont
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