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I'm a 15yr old guy from England and quite a few people told me I give good advice, so here I am attempting to give some good advice.
Gender: Male
Location: England
Age: 15
Member Since: December 26, 2011
Answers: 2
Last Update: December 26, 2011
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well, im in love with this guy, were not dating but were fooling around, my bestfriend told me the other day that she likes him, i havent told her anything that weve done or that i like him, he wanked infront of me a couple times, then i dont it for him, then like the next day we were in the movies cause there was nothing to do that day we were sitting down the front middilish and i gave him head! and then he took me back to his house and we had sex, it was amazing, i lost my virginity to him and he's a gentleman about it. i made a stupid mistake by going to his party he had for his 14th in his house and i got mega pished, and me and him went upstairs and ended up having sex again and my bestfriend walked in, she burst out in tears and ran home, she told me she hated me and never wants to see me again what do i do? oh hes 14 im 13 and she 14.. (link)
Obviously its gonna be hard for her to take, your fucking your bestfriends crush, basically, but if thats who you want to be with, and clearly he does to, then what more can you do, she has to accept the fact that you two are "an item".

Hope this helped, although it probably didnt :)


I am a 13 year old girl and i question my sexuality. i think boys aare hot and like them and stuff but sometimes i feel curious to look when my close girl friends are changing and think girls are really pretty and have good boobs. i sometimes think i want to kiss a girl to know if im a lesbian but i have never kissed a boy but i want to. people say its normal to sometimes feel lesbian or gay during puberty but im still worries.please no mean comments
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As a gay guy myself, I questioned myself and as it turned out I was gay, but a surprisingly high number of people came to me when i came out, asking about themselves and their sexuality, you are not alone, and what you're going through is common during puberty, just be yourself :)




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