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well ok i am going out with someone and we where thinking of having sex. but i am so scared. he has no dieses or anything like that since we are both virgins. but i was scared about using a tampon what if it breakes or something and when are you supposed to have sex is;'nt it like 2 weeks before your period? i want to but i am just so worried bout getting pregent.
.... oh and do you have to use a douche afterwoods?? (link)
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I was hoping that's what you meant! :)
Sex is risky business. If the condom breaks, you might get pregnant. That's the fact.
That is why a girl should never have sex unless she is mature enough to face the consequences of what could happen. Of course most will risk it anyway.
You can get pregnant anytime. There is no real safe time of the month. There are times when you are more likely to get pregnant than others, but never is there a safe time. Couples who are having trouble having a baby will try on the days when you are more apt to get pregnant. If you have no fertility problems though you can get pregnant any time of the month.
Do not douche afterward. It won't do any good.
The best thing to do (even though you may not want to) is to wait until you are more ready for sex. If you are worried, and really, you should be, you are not really ready yet.
Sex is a really big step to take into adulthood. It comes with very real risks. Be sure you are ready first, not just looking to make the boyfriend happy.
Here is a web site you may find of interest. It may help you decide if you are really ready yet. :)
Sex are you ready for
http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&np=291&id=2170
Sex, first time
http://www.sxetc.org/index.php?topic=FAQ&sub_topic=Sex&content_id=535
Sex, making the right decision…
http://familydoctor.org/276.xml
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ok so i will be turning 18 in a month and my boyfriend will to. and we would really like to move out with each other to get out of the house. but the only thing is we are both in high school. and do schools still accept you if you live on your own? and does anyone know what the deal is with colleges and what there policy is for a non-married couple living together? (link)
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Just curious...how are you going to make enough money to pay rent and bills and continue with school?
I suppose high schools differ in their policies. There is no rules against it here. They just make you the one responsible for expenses instead of your parents.
As for college, I don't think they really care. You probably couldn't live in a dorm room or anything, but living off campus isn't a problem. :)
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do they only play slow songs a sem-formals?? (link)
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Only the clothes you wear are different.
The music is the same at all dances, unless there is a theme.
They will have both slow dances and fast ones. :)
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i need help i saw this boy at a performance thingy and i liked the way he looked.and then i got a hold of his email address and started talking to him wich is great so i get to know what he looks like then i tell him i love him so much and im finding it hard to get over him.and he just wrote back lol ok.and i think he might have taken it as a joke.and last night we wernt talking to each other becauze we are sort of in a fight.but i still have feelings for him and please dont tell me to let him go becauz i love the guy so much.he is turining 14 this year and im turining 12 he is just 2 years older than me that ok.but im struggling through this fight we re goin through.please help me. (link)
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You can have a fight and still be friends. Don't let it discourage you.
Continue to talk to him whenever you get the chance. The more you talk the better you will get to know each other.
If he doesn't live where you see him all the time, just being friends and learning about each other might have to be enough for now.
Oh, and you aren't supposed to use this site until you are 13. I know its not fair but it is for legal reasons. :)
Good luck.
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You see, this is kind of confusing in my position. My brother Bryan got his fiance Stephanie, I guess you could say fiance, pregnant. The only bad thing is every time I do something that seems okay to do, it's always WRONG to her. First of all, last New Year's Eve, I stayed the whole week with Bryan and Stephanie. We get to the party house, and my other brother Michael and his wife Brandy walk through the door with her younger brother thats my age (Brian), and so I go talk to them for like maybe an hour? So Stephanie gets jealous. She goes off and tells my mom. To make this short, my mom and I ended up getting into a fight that night.
Second of all during Thanksgiving break I stayed with Michael, Brandy, Stephanie, and Bryan. (They moved in with eachother) Stephanie was never home, and when she got home she would always close the door to her room, so I figured she didn't want anyone to go in there, so I just didn't bother. But then she starts sending me messages on MySpace telling me that I'm not talking to her and that she feels left out because I'm not including her! WHAT THE HECK! She sure isn't trying so hard to talk to me! So then on Thanksgiving night at about 10:30. We all got into a fight, Michael and Brandy on my side, and Bryan and Stephanie against us.
So that night I stormed out of the house for about an hour. Everytime I would walk by the door, they were still arguing. After they were done arguing someone finally came outside to look for me. After they found me, we all sat in the living room and talked it out.
(I'm sorry this is soooo long you guys, I just have to get this off my chest.)
Things got better once we started communicating. BUT! After that, New Year's comes along again. So she decides to pull the whole thing all over again!! It's getting very old!
Everyone in my family is getting annoyed by her being all baby-ish and having everyone baby her all the time!
I don't know what to do.
Please help!!!
-Thank you SO much!-
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I don't think its necessary to tell your brother nobody likes her as was suggested. All that will do is get him mad at everyone and upset about the whole thing.
You do need to get together and have a talk with Stephanie. You all need to stop babying her. She is probably having hormone overload if she if pregnant... let your brother baby her if he wants to, you don't.
Let Stephanie know that her behavior is getting old. Since it seems most of the fights happen at get togethers, it might be good to talk to her before you go to that next party or family function. It sounds like she enjoys being the center of attention. Get with the rest of your family and don't let it happen anymore. :)
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ok so sorry this is sorta long. well i came downstairs today and my mom is sitting at the computer looking at flights and she goes, "ok so there is this mothers weekend thing at ur sisters college, but its the weekend of your birthday." (she was asking me what i thought, but ovbiously she was already looking at flights so she wanted to go there.) so i told her it was fine whatever, to go. then i just walked away. then i hear her quickly call my sister and say, "shes fine, im coming." i am so mad. not only is it my bday its my sweet 16. its like she likes my sister better and cares nothing about my birthday. would anyone else be offended/upset if this happened? i just dont know what to do. i feel like crap. (link)
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You told her it was fine. She believed you. If you didn't feel that way you should have been honest about it. So, honestly you shouldn't be offended.
You now need to tell her that you will miss her being there on your birthday. Even though you said it was okay for her to be gone. Make plans to do something special when she gets back.
I don't think you are right in thinking she likes your sister more than she likes you. The mothers weekend just happened to fall at the wrong time. Had you had a problem with it she probably wouldn't have gone. She had obviously told your sister just that in an earlier conversation.
Make those plans to do something fun when mom gets back. I'm sure that will make you feel a lot better. :)
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me and this one girl have been best friends forever.. and she got into a huge fight with my other best friend about 3 months ago.. now i hear shit from the both of them about the other ALL THE TIME and one of them is mad at me because they say that i hang out with the other one too much.. but i dont! i just try to make everyone happy!.. what should i do?
signed,
hopeless (link)
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As you said, you can't please everybody. Nor should you even try.
You need to tell them both...I am friends with both of you. From now on I do not want to talk with either of you about the other. We can talk about anything else, but not my other friend.
If you are asked by both to do something, do something with whoever asked you first. That is fair. If you want to let the other know, just say I can't go __ with you because I was already asked to do __ with other friend. She asked first.
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i am really concerned about my friend and i think she is cutting, what are some signs of someone who is cutting?
please help, i dont want to talk to her about it unless i know for sure. (link)
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Here are some web sites for you. One deals specifically with what to do if a friend is cutting. The biggest sign/reason for cutting is depression. :)
Cutting���������.http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/feeling_sad/cutting.html
Cutting friend....
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/friend_cuts.html
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You're very welcome. :)
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I have a male friend who is 39 and has told me that he never wants to get married or have kids. That is fine- for him. But I've told him how someday I want to be in a proper marriage and have children. Well we were talking today and I told him how a medium had read my palm several weeks ago, and told me that I would be having 3 children, (one set of fraternal twins, and a girl). Well this is what my friend said "well you better get started right away, and you'll need to find a husband".
I thought this was a very vindictive thing for him to say. I am only 27 and told him I still have a lot of time before my clock stops ticking. I have a theory on his attitude: two years ago he told me he wanted to sleep with me. I told him I was saving myself for my future husband, and that I wanted kids. This is when I found out that he never wanted to get married or have children. (not that I wanted to be with him anyways).
So my question is, does anyone else think what he said was mean? And do you think he said it to get back at me for not wanting to sleep with him? (link)
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I don't think he was being mean. I think he was teasing you.
Don't take it so seriously. :)
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I know that my boyfriend is going to officially propose to me (19/f) sometime soon. He told me he bought a ring and that he's waiting for the right time to give it to me. I'm okay with the fact that he told me, I'm actually pretty glad about it. You see girls in the movies all the time that are pressured into going along with engagement. I think it was really respectful of him to talk about it with me, it's just that I'm not quite sure how to act when the time comes. Obviously I'll be happy, but since I'm probably not going to be surprised should I sort of pretend to be? I tend to show very little emotion and I think it might hurt his feelings if I don't appear to be happy or surprised or SOMETHING. I want it to be really special. Can anybody help me out here? (link)
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It will be special no matter what you do!
Just say yes! Be happy, smother him with kisses.:)
Congratulations!
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Hiya, my name is Diane I'm 13. I really like this guy, lets call him Tom. Tom and I used to hangout every Friday and I mean we've kissed and stuff during spin the bottle but it has never ment anything. In november i was at my friend Joe's party. Joe was with his girlfriend, Joe's other friend John was with his girlfriend and I was just with Tom like walking around this park we went to. Since we were alone we talked alot and he put his arm around me for a good 10 minuets...until I kindof push him off. Anyway since then we've been really close friends. We flirt all the time even when his girlfriend walks by (one girl dumped him cause of that). And he tells people he wants to hangout with me, but I want him to make a move already I mean i'm probably sending mixed signals or something but how do I get him to make a move? (link)
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If he is 13 he may just not be ready for that kind of thing yet. You shouldn't rush him. Girls mature a lot faster than guys do.
It probably also didn't help that you pushed him away after he had his arm around you for 10 minutes. You may need to explain to him why you did that. He might have taken it that you were not interested.
Talk to him about it. If he isn't ready yet for that though, don't push him into it. :)
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Hello, my name is Bill, and I'm a 15 year old male. At my school there is a girl I like, named Courtney. I have known Courtney for a few years, and last year I started having more feelings for her. I told her I liked her, but she wasn't sure of her feelings, some people said she liked me and some people said she didn't, so I was very confused. What made it worse was Courtney and I had a fun relationship, she was really funny and was probably the best friend I had that was a girl. When she found out I liked her, she didn't feel as comfortable around me, and we didn't talk very much. Well over the summer I didn't see her much and I lost some of the feelings I had for her, but I still liked her a little bit. When we came back to school, she talked to me normally again, she was more comfortable around me and we talked a lot. I know her family and they know me, and they are very nice people. We still talk a lot and hang out, but usually in a group environment. In the past month I have started to like her very much again, but I haven't told her for fear of what happened last year will happen again. People tell me that last year was different and that she is different now. Others still tell me that she isn't sure who she likes. I know her very well and I don't want to lose my relationship with her again, but I really like her and I just want to tell her. She is a very amazing person, and I not only like her for her looks (though she is very beautiful), but I love her personality. Every time I see her I just can't help smiling. But there is the down side to telling her, please help me out on this one, I'm very confused. Thankyou very much for reading that and I look forward to hearing from you! (link)
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Wait until there is a school dance or something going on and just ask her to go with you.
This would work on a movie too. You don't have to just say I like you, do you like me. Just ask her out and see what she says.
If for some reason she says no, just make like it isn't a big deal and continue on as friends.
Things could change in the future.
Good luck, hope she says yes. :)
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i was typeing on my computer and i hit a key and it made all the print 5X's bigger. so if i go on a website all their print is much bigger than it should be . how can i undo this ? (link)
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On the toolbar on top do you by chance have an icon that is 2 capital A's with a double tipped arrow underneath it? If so, click on that icon and set it on medium.
If that doesn't work...
Go to start > control panel > Accessibility options > Display > High Contrast > Make sure high contrast is not checked.
Or...
Start > Control Panel > Display properties > Appearance > Font size > Make sure it is set on normal.
Okay, that's all I have. Hope something works among those suggestions. :)
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Ok Exams are here, and i am completely stressed over one in particular: Calculus. I have such a busy weekend because my young aunt from the states is coming and i want to do stuff but the exam is on tuesday ( i also have another on monday) and i freaking out. Any good tips on how i should prepare well for this exam, i am perplexed on how to confront it. Thanx in advance. (link)
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Here is a website on test preparation. I hope there is something you can use here. Start early and have fun with your Aunt too.
Good luck with your exams. :)
http://www.su.edu/studaffs/acadsup/preptest.htm
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my friend's boyfriend has been harassing me since last year. He keeps doing things to my locker such as smashing a banana on it, putting tape all over, writing all over it, leaving long notes, putting signs with names such as boob girl or b***h etc. He would also spread all these rumors about me and call me all of these names. when my friend tells him to stop he refuses and he said that he wants to hurt me. she wants to protect her boyfriend from being suspended and she is trying to stop me from telling the GLC. He has been doing the same things to other people but they are too afraid of him to speak up. I really want to tell the GLC and take action but would I be doing the right thing by doing that even if I probably won't be friends with her anymore? also, I know that the GLC won't believe me since I don't have enough evidence to prove what he is doing to me. what should I do in this situation? (link)
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I think you should tell on him. The reason he continues to bully people is because he gets away with it. Maybe if you say something others will be brave enough to come forward as well.
As far as your friend not liking you anymore...its a chance you'll have to take. You seem to continue being her friend even though her boyfriend treats you badly. Why should what you do to get it to stop be any different?
Hopefully she will get a clue about her boyfriend one of these days. When she does, she will want to be friends again. Why she would even stay with someone who is mean and cruel to her friends doesn't say a lot for her backbone!
Keep an eye on her regardless of what happens. Make sure this guy doesn't mistreat her. He sounds like a potential abuser to me.
Good luck and don't take anymore crap! :)
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I have never before used tampons and I want to start trying them but I am like so terrified that I am going to put it the wrong place or it will hurt to bad does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Here are some links that may be of help. :)
Tampon use, FAQ…
http://www.tampax.com/en_us/pages/ques_main.shtml?pageid=tp0002&=1
Tampons, guide to using first time...
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
Tampons, how to use………
http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p3627.htm
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My best friend Shianne has now screwed me over 2 times. It seems every time I tell her I like a guy, she offers to "help me with them" and she always ends up giving them her number, and dating them behind me back!! But she doesn't even tell me until the day after they start dating!
She did it with a guy named Steven, and now Brandon. Then whenever she breaks up with them, she expects me to not like them anymore, and to not want to date them because "friends ex boyfriends are off limits to other friends."
What do i do?!?
Should I really consider her my BEST friend if she's done this to me two times already?
Should I wait to see if she does it again?
I honestly don't know what to do, and I'd LOVE for some honest suggestions.
-Thank you so much!-
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I don't think I would consider her to be a BEST friend.
From now on, don't tell her who you like. If she asks why not, tell her honestly why. Help like hers you just don't need!
As far as ex boyfriends of friends being off limits...that's just silly. If two people like each other, who cares who they dated before. So long as the friend didn't deliberately break a couple up, they can date the other friends ex if they are asked out. That's my thinking anyway. :)
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i just downloaded a new program called limewire so that i could get free songs for my ipod. The problem is i dont know how to transfer the songs from limewire to iTunes so that i can get the songs on my ipod. Please help fast!
lots of love,
emily (link)
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I couldn't decide what answer might be the one you needed so I will send you some info I found.
Hope you find something here that helps.
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showthread.php?postid=129775
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what are some signs of when a guy likes you? because theres this guy i like and im not sure if he likes me...please help ill rate (link)
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Here is a website that has some tips on telling if a guy likes you or not. Hope it helps you out. :)
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_2.htm
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Alright well I'm a 14/f and I went out with this guy for 9months and he was sweet and stuff but we fought too much and my parents don't approve of him so we broke up well it's been about a month since then,we dont talk at all anymore and i really miss him, but I get these days where all I can think about is him and I wish we were going back out and then other days I dont wanna go back out.How can I figure if I want to be with him or not? Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel or just find a way to get over him? PLZ HELP (link)
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It can't hurt to talk to him before writing him off forever.
If you still have feelings for him, let him know it. See if he feels the same. :)
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