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Alright well I'm a 14/f and I went out with this guy for 9months and he was sweet and stuff but we fought too much and my parents don't approve of him so we broke up well it's been about a month since then,we dont talk at all anymore and i really miss him, but I get these days where all I can think about is him and I wish we were going back out and then other days I dont wanna go back out.How can I figure if I want to be with him or not? Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel or just find a way to get over him? PLZ HELP
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I think you miss him.You should become friends and start talking to him.And you should tell him how you feel.
But i dont think you should go out with him because ya'll fought alot
goodluck
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On those days when you wish you were still going out, is it because you miss him specifically, or you're just lonely?
It sounds to me like you might not want him, but just a boyfriend in general.
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You have a few choices. First you can talk to him. He may think the same he may not. But thats really hard to do but if you know you can I suggest that. But if your feeling on and off I suggest you drop it I mean its probably because you're not intrested in anyone else. You could also have someone who is close to him talk to him about it. Like one of his friends that way you know hes not hidding anything. Hope i helped if not im really sorry, good luck times 562667 haha.
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If you feel it is the right thing to do, tell him how you feel. But if its been a while and you havent even talked then it might not be so smart. I was in the same situation and my parents really didnt approve and all we did was fight and i tried it again and went through the trouble of begging my parents and trying to make it work but it just all turned out to be the same as it was before. if you werent happy with him and he treated you bad then chances are he'll do it again. try talking as just friends and see how that goes. then after if you get along still try telling him. if he was your first serious boyfriend youre going to feel this way. i still think bout the guy i had and feel like i miss him then i realize hes a total jerk now. dont rush into things again take your time and see what happens.dont think about how much you miss him or want to be with him, think about if he could truly make you happy n let that be the dealbreaker. Good Luck
*Kristina*
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It can't hurt to talk to him before writing him off forever.
If you still have feelings for him, let him know it. See if he feels the same. :)
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