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Q: I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something?
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Okay as a girl I totaly understand what your saying but at the same time I get where they're comming from. SKATERS ARE SOOOOO HAWT. its like a fact. I guess they're so appealing because they just seem so spontanious and fun. I guess the reason I dont find gentlemen as appealing is cause I'm looking for fun not safe walks to the beach. I hope that helped I didn't mean to offend you if I did im really sorry. Im just being honest. Hope I helped :/ xoxoxox3
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Q: My brother's room is a fire hazard. Literally. There are papers spralled across the place and CDs everywhere. I can never find anything on his dresser and I've lost all hope to find any of my computer CDs.
The thing is today I went in there looking for something. Of course, I couldn't find it. He called to ask where my dad was, and while on the phone I asked where the CD I was looking for was. He didn't even know. How can I tell my brother he needs to clean up his room without letting him know I occasionally make stops in there? Also is there any way I can get him to let me make my stops in his room to try and find stuff?
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haha thats simple just walk in there while hes doing homework or what ever and ask him a stupid question like "when is mom comming home" or whatever than as your leaving be like "Your room is really gross clean it." and as for your second question, is there a mirror in his room or something that you dont have in your room? thats what I do with my sister I pretend im looking in her mirror but im really getting the clothes she stole from me. haha hope i helped if not sorry xoxox3
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Q: OK.. I'm on this quizzing team thing, where you have to answer these questions to get points (hence the name).. Anyways, I'm not very good at it and no one likes me on they're team. (I know this because they'll say it /while/ I'm in the room..and probably out of the room as well) But no matter how much I try to study, I just can't get the reading done. There's either too many distractions, i'm bored, or I just don't get it. And I don't want to quit the team because i"m afraid my parents/friends/coach will be dissappointed in me.. Help?
Signed,
Disappointed and Miserable
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Well first dont let them put you down. Okay they may be the smartest people ever but im sure they dont have friends other than textbooks. Second the way I study is I make lists and outlines that a quick and easy because otherwise i get confused and give up. Maybe you could go to a teacher for help maybe like a social studies teacher or some one who is going to help you concentrate. Last teams are meant to be fun, if your not having fun don't bother. I know you may dissapoint your teacher or your family, but this seems to be bugging you. Don't foget that the wrost person to dissapoint is yourself no matter what they'll still love you. Hope i helped xoxox3
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Q: okay i've been talking to this guy and a couple of weeks ago he tried to do stuff w. me at a party well i've liked him for a while now and he talks to me occasionally like if im walking with a boy that is just a friend he will say something like " this boy dont want to go out with you" or he'll say whats goin on here ? and i like him soo much i cant get over him and all i think about is him like in school i cant do my work cus i think about him soo much and i dont ever learn anything.. what should i do should i try and talk to him?
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Most of the time I would say go for it tell away. But I dont want you to tell him this and him start backing away. It sounds like he likes u and im sure u like him, its just it may make things akward if you tell. You should hangout with him more and invite him to hangout more and stuff. Become really good friends with him that way he knows he has a chance. Then you can eaither tell him, have a friend do it, or hint to it and im sure he will ask you out! hope i helped lyl xoxo
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Q: me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do?
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Aw dont worry about it. I am positive he really likes you and im assuming you're about 13 or older? So kissing is like cake. Don't think about it just get it over with cause once you do it you'll want to do it again. Thats really cute the whole bet thing..thought u might wanna know haha xoxox3 good luck!
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Q: ok well like i have two big problem areas that i would like to get rid of before the summer. i missed a dance because we had to wear liek a skirt, i didnt go becuasee i didnt want to show my legs. i want to lose weight on my inner thighs and the back of them, also my arm like if i put my arms out like a t or like -|- the - are my arms its flabby under neath. i life 4 pound weights but i dont know if that will just build muscle or loose the fat. i also do crunches and run sometimes. i do wall sits for a minute a day. i just need help with my thighs and arms. sorry its long. ill rate 5's
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First off dont ever ever put yourself down no matter what you think you look like im sure your amazing. But if your determind I would try palaties. Its amazinggggg thats what I do. and afterwards you feel REALLY relaxed. It works trust me on that one. There are lots of diffrent tapes going from begginer to advanced and even a half an hour a day helps! xoxox3 hope i helped just dont feel bad about yourself im sure u look hott in a skirt!
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Q: Recently, my friend Jennifer confided in me to keep a secret from her friend Lauren. Lauren is now with Jennifer's ex boyfriend and Jen told me that all Lauren ever talks about is the boyfriend(she talks about him 24/7). Jen is really annoyed and bothered by talking about him because she still has strong feelings for him. But, Jen doesn't want to hurt Lauren's feelings because she is really happy. Jen asked me what she should do and what should I tell her?
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tell her to chill out. They won't last forever. Boys have a short attention span unless they seem super serious i wouldnt get too upset over it. Tell Lauren to stop obsessing hes just a boy and hopefully shell take the clue. Hope i helped xoxox3
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Q: well, my subject pretty much says it all... i like this other boy now... he knows that i like him - my friends tell him that all the time and i told him that i do like him once, just so he knows that what my friends tell him aren't lies... we used to be friends - well, i THINK we're still friends... but ever since he knew about me liking him, we barely talk anymore, unless for a couple of words - thanks, here - or we're in the same group for class and we HAVE to talk and help each other... was it wrong to tell him that i like him?? what can i do so that me and him talk again, but not seem desperate for him?? [[i'm not desperate for him, although i catch myself looking and searching for him at times...but you can't really help doing that... it's nature to look and find your crush, right?]] i would REALLY APPRECIATE VERY GOOD advices... thank you! i'll rate 5s
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Well its fine some boys act that way but you can't be afraid to talk to him. Whatr you need to do is act like things are normal, like everything is the same. And hill probably think everythings fine and start to hangout wit you maybe even like you. I know it will wrok out just keep cool. haha lyl hope i helped!
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Q: im the shortest kid in my class and i like the tallest boy. Everybody know i like him and are always saying stuff like "yeah _ go get your girl" but im always like "shut up" and he acts like he doesnt here. The other day i was asleep in class and when i got up to do my work i looked up to glanced at him and he was looking right at me smilling and well im very say and turnd around really quick and it looked like he got mad or somthing cause he moved his seet and like facing his back at me and now hes wird all my friends say i should talk to him about that but i dont want to look silly talking about that and asking him if hes mad at me how can i talk to him about that with out starting with what happend so i wont look silly or what can i do??????????
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Well fisrt your age plays a big factor. If you're like 16 or older im really sorry but he doesn't. Even so try this: Go up to him and just start talking. If he doesnt bring it up it may be a sore subject but say things like im soo tired and stuff because he may get the pint. Hope i helped!xoxo x3
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Q: Right, i have a best mate called rowan (he's a guy im a girl but im called roHan lol) im 14 he's 14 and we'v been best mates kinda on an off for about 3 years, a month ago our friend nikki had a party and we were laying down and just watching a movie when we started kinda flirting and touching each other up then it prgressed and he fingered me and i gave him a handjob nobody saw us though, Since then we'v had a thing going in secret, we'l go up an alley for a *talk* after school, and stuff will happen, iv gievn him head twice and we'v talked online about fucking and stuff iv had 1 bf during this thing and he's had 2 gfs, its stopped then, thing is i dont actually have a crush on him and he doesnt have one on me, im just a lil confused an all, should i keep it going with him? or should i end it?
xxxx
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See the thing is those kinds of relationships can really hurt people when they end. Becasue you think you dont have feeling for them but it's a strong lust. And when people find out you'll probably be called names and what not. My friend did that and now things are slightly messed up for her. If you think its worth it kepp doing it, but if you think its worth it you definatly have strong feelings twards him. Hope I helped good luck xoxo x3
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Q: Ok, i like this guy at my school and he used to bark and me and all this wierd crap well evrytime imj not at school or not aroudn he's always around..and today i missed school to go to the doctor's and he was all around my friends and they were talking with him ALOT today...well my friend and him were walking and he's like so where's your friend, and my friend K* goes uhh ur gonna have to narrow it down..and he goes the one with blue eyes...K's like o ya (my nick name) nd he's like thats her name..nd K's like no it's C*...he's like ya C..where is she???
Ok sorry if that confusing..but anyway do you think he lieks me? I mean how often does a guy actually notic eyour eye color!
*I rate!!
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Aw thats so sweet but I cant say for sure that he likes you. I mean lots of guys are completly clueless and him knowing you eye color is really cute but on the other hand thats just how some people remeber. On the other hand it means hes looked in your eyes which shows he wants you to pay attention to him. Thats a plus. As I said I dont know for sure but my guess if that he does. And even if he doesnt I'm sure he'll start pretty soon. Good Luck xoxo♥
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Q: okay.. i ride a bus home.. and the guy ive been crushin on sat with me today.. well we were tickling each other, holdin hand, and all that stuff... and his ex (not exactly, they didnt date.. just flirted ALOT) was staring at us.. shes kinda my friend too.. ne ways.. well how will i get her off my back?
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Tell her how cute he is and how much you like him almost obsess to her. Do this to give her the idea you wont give up. Eventually she'll lay off no worries hun.! Hope i helped xoxox3
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Q: So I'm a 17 year old female, and I need to give you a little back story so you can better understand this. This past week and a half, this boy and I got close working on the school play together. He was really flirty and I was flirting back. Then on Saturday, I found out he went out with this girl the night before that he's been pining after for a while, and she told him that she likes him back. The flirting kind of ended for a day, and then it started back up a little by Sunday. I know that this is just a weekend, but I fell hard.
My question is, should I tell him that I like him, just to let him know, or should I let it go and let him be happy with this other girl?
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I think that you should let him know. I mean seriously what does this girl have that you don't? "Don't ever let anyone make you feel like you don't seserve what you wat"-ten things i hate about you. But its true. I mean this guy could be the best thing that ever happend to you don't let some girl mess that up. You dont have to strait of tell him but hint because it's really easy to send that message without having to say "I like you." cuz thats just akward. Tell him how you think he's super nice and don't let him put himself down, he'll get the message. Good luc I really mean it!! you can send me a question if you want hope i helped.x3
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Q: Alright well I'm a 14/f and I went out with this guy for 9months and he was sweet and stuff but we fought too much and my parents don't approve of him so we broke up well it's been about a month since then,we dont talk at all anymore and i really miss him, but I get these days where all I can think about is him and I wish we were going back out and then other days I dont wanna go back out.How can I figure if I want to be with him or not? Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel or just find a way to get over him? PLZ HELP
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You have a few choices. First you can talk to him. He may think the same he may not. But thats really hard to do but if you know you can I suggest that. But if your feeling on and off I suggest you drop it I mean its probably because you're not intrested in anyone else. You could also have someone who is close to him talk to him about it. Like one of his friends that way you know hes not hidding anything. Hope i helped if not im really sorry, good luck times 562667 haha.
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Q: what are some signs of when a guy likes you? because theres this guy i like and im not sure if he likes me...please help ill rate
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Okay well when a guys like you, there are many things they do. First they tease you, or do something to make you smile or laugh. They talk to your friends about you. They do little things like bring up things you've said in the past. And what boys always do when they like you is look for you, because boys always want to spend time with you. Hope I helped good luck xoxo!!
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Member Since: January 25, 2006 Answers: 15 Last Update: January 28, 2006 Visitors: 2266
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