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i like this boy - a friend of mine - i told him but now we d
well, my subject pretty much says it all... i like this other boy now... he knows that i like him - my friends tell him that all the time and i told him that i do like him once, just so he knows that what my friends tell him aren't lies... we used to be friends - well, i THINK we're still friends... but ever since he knew about me liking him, we barely talk anymore, unless for a couple of words - thanks, here - or we're in the same group for class and we HAVE to talk and help each other... was it wrong to tell him that i like him?? what can i do so that me and him talk again, but not seem desperate for him?? [[i'm not desperate for him, although i catch myself looking and searching for him at times...but you can't really help doing that... it's nature to look and find your crush, right?]] i would REALLY APPRECIATE VERY GOOD advices... thank you! i'll rate 5s
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You were absolutly right to tell him. The reaction this boy is displaying is totally normal, allthough it may be aggrivating. By telling him that you like him, and your friends constantly reminding him, he is waiting for you to follow up on your first move. What i mean is that it is not unusual for a girl to pursue a guy, but traditionally the male pursues the female. In his mind you did what he percieved to be unexpected, and now he is waiting for the next move. Look at it for your point of view; if a guy tells you that he likes you and then all of his friends confirm this, what would you do when he starts acting shy? You would wait and see what his next move is, may it be asking for your number or finally talking to you in person. He is doing exactly that; waiting for you to try and talk to him about it. the pressure is off of him to make the first move since you already did that, so now the "ball is in your court" and you must make the next move.
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Well its fine some boys act that way but you can't be afraid to talk to him. Whatr you need to do is act like things are normal, like everything is the same. And hill probably think everythings fine and start to hangout wit you maybe even like you. I know it will wrok out just keep cool. haha lyl hope i helped!
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