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alright i ahve had a bf for 6 months and i have been havin ttrouble wit my parents since. they think i should have a black bf but i cant help. it is what i like not them. i have really strong feeling for him and i only see hime 2-3 times a month. i am 15 and he is 16. he doest go to the same school as me but i have been dealin wit it. anyways i have tryed tellin my parents that i cant help who i like and they cant stop me from it. well they havent stopped but now my mom says i always have an attutide wit her and i have changed. thing is i havent changed i just gotten older. and she still treats me like a kid. what should i do..
its a very tough situation.. and one thing you can try is ask your parents what they really dont like about him. if they say its because of his race.. ask whats wrong with their race. they probably dont know what he really is like.. so answer their negative points about him with positive points. try to stay mature and calm in the whole situation.. its hard not to blow up on them but if you are mature.. they might realize you really like him.. and start accepting it. hope this helps..
i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do..
your doing the right thing.. and its really hard..i know it is..your other friends are there for you..always always always are. and you two really had something more.. and its hard.... but it will all be okay.. im here if you need anything else..you know that. this happened to me.. and a friend.. and i never really wanted to admit it before...this is the first time i will...ill talk to you more later..
My brother's room is a fire hazard. Literally. There are papers spralled across the place and CDs everywhere. I can never find anything on his dresser and I've lost all hope to find any of my computer CDs.
The thing is today I went in there looking for something. Of course, I couldn't find it. He called to ask where my dad was, and while on the phone I asked where the CD I was looking for was. He didn't even know. How can I tell my brother he needs to clean up his room without letting him know I occasionally make stops in there? Also is there any way I can get him to let me make my stops in his room to try and find stuff?
if you know he has something in there of yours.. find where it is when hes not around. next time he is in his room.. go in there and ask something like what times dinner.. and then 'acedintly' bump into your missing item. tell him that its yours.. and you know he has your stuff in there. if he says he doesn't want you snooping in his room.. then tell him you will stop if he stops taking your stuff. when he has your stuff--its fair game for you to go and get it. hope this helps!
ok, my abs are pretyy flabby and so are my theighs, what should i eat and not eat and what can i do (exercise wise) to get rid of them...i rate high thx...
a simple way to shed a few pounds.. is before bed do one simple thing.. 35 crunches and 10 push ups. i do them every night.. and it really helps. they dont make you sweaty.. so after a shower is fine. make sure your doing crunches properly- its like half of a sit up. you should feel your stomach / abs working.. NOT your back. if you are feeling it in your back.. you are not doing them correctly. if you do them every night.. you will notice a difference. make it a routine.. i do them every night and it really helps. it only takes about 2 minutes.. like half a commercial break. hope it helps!