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i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with her and her dad and hung with him all night.. whenever me her and my other friends were supposed to hang out.. so tonight when i got home i found out she went with him.. and she started to lie.. but then she told the truth that she was with him.. i know she went to his house because her dad told me. so she immediatly admitted that.. i dont know what to do. im so sick of her lieing to me. i burst into tears after talking to her.. please help me.. i really need it. thank you SOO much for reading this//and helping if you do..
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your doing the right thing.. and its really hard..i know it is..your other friends are there for you..always always always are. and you two really had something more.. and its hard.... but it will all be okay.. im here if you need anything else..you know that. this happened to me.. and a friend.. and i never really wanted to admit it before...this is the first time i will...ill talk to you more later..<3 you always <3
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Just give her some space right now, she will soon realize what shes doing to u and she'll really miss u. Plus guys come and go but true friends last forever.
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Things like this happen all the time. When a girl gets close to a guy, she forgets the world, and who really matters. You should understand this is how girls are when they interact with a guy they like. Don't get on her case TOO much about it, she'll think you're jealous. Let's face it, all girls wanna be envied by someone, and they will tell you anything to get you jealous. So here's what you do, and don't go overboard. SUCK IT UP! Stop crying hysterically, I know it's hard. But just think, if you had a boyfriend, you'd want her to understand and always be there for her. Tell her this, "Look, I want you to know, I'm happy that you're happy. But when you ditch me for him, I don't like that at all. Tell me when you have plans with him, so I can work around that." Also, make plans with her, and ONLY her, and maybe ask to hang out with her and him sometime, and stand your ground, push a way into not feeling left out. Like jokingly cough if they get too close while in your presence, or if their talking, include yourself, don't just sit there. You have other friends, make sure she doesn't think your life revolves around her, cuz then she'll take advantage of that. Just always be there, cuz they'll break up in time, and she'll come running back apologizing, and needing you. And boom, there's your best friend again.
Good Luck
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You should tell her exactly what you're feeling. If you just let it go by without saying anything, she'll just keep ditching you. Just tell her that you're sick of her lying and her ditching you.
Good luck and I hope I helped =]
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You have to tell her how you feel. Tell her you feel left out and are tried of her lieing about everything. Tell her if she can't stop ditching you that you'll find another friend. Send any more questions to my inbox i think i can really help with this one! xoBrowneyes
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