I am a theater freak. Recently I tried out for the play 'Aladdin'. But, I found out today I didn't get the part I want, and I got a small part instead. All my friends got cool parts like the Genie, Aladdin, Jasmine, the main parts. I feel really rejecting, I've never got rejected from a part I wanted before...
If you want a main part, you have to try out for a main part. Think about all the people who don't have a part at all! It takes everybody to have a good play. Just enjoy what you have now and focus on being the best character you can be. You will gain experience and be able to do a bigger part. Just keep trying.
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i want a pet tht is easy 2 take care of nd not 2 much wrk wut should i get?????
You are going to think I am crazy. I had a spider once. All you have to do is make sure they have a sponge full of water and supply of crickets. It is interesting to look at, but they aren't terribly active. You don't have to clean their cage very often.
I have really enjoyed my guinea pig, but you have to clean the cage once a week at least. You have to clip their nails and feed them at least once a day. At least they only mess up one area, and they make cute little noises. A fairly good buddy to watch tv with, but get them really small so they are more used to you.
Betta fish are my favorite. They don't mind if their water isn't 100% perfect. They can eat every other day, and mine likes rock and roll. You can agitate them and make them flare up their face like they are fighting. They are loners, but don't need a huge aquarium. The are perfectly happy in a vase or small bowl. I have had one for about three years which is really good.
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yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen
Don't tell her you size anymore. It's none of her business. When she needs a crane to get them off the floor when she gets older, she won't be laughing. Change the subject to either something completely different or something that irritates her just as much. Don't give her a chance to act out her "soap opera."
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I have all different kinds of friends in such, but i hang out with 2 of them more. Im not a girly girl( and im not a lesbian) i hate wearing skirts and dresses and i really dont lyk really preppy people tha wear houchie skirts and a half a shirt, but maybe tha's juss some of the girls that go to my school. I just don't understand why people wear that stuff when you know its unconfortable. Why wear high heels to school them you could be confortable. THey only dress like that to get guys attention. I don't like cheerleaders either they annoy me. I'm kinda skater and like to do things that girls normally don't do or arent that good at. Me n my best friend r crazy at those kinda things and fit in real easily with the guy crowd. Every place that i go i always get mean looks from preppy girls cuz i don't dress lyk a brittany spears wannabe. Why do you think people corner me cuz im skater and not a barbie doll?
I was totally like this in school. I hated cookie cutters as I called them. I focused more on school and having my own thing (although that's pretty laughable because my friends we were too but just totally different from the prep norm). People are superficial. Period. So they think all of that uncomfortable crap is important. I think it is more appropriate to look nice for particular situations than just everyday. Then you get attention when you do decide to don a dress. And its really fun to have guy friends because you can ask them all of those "guy" questions when the time comes. Forget about it. Just be you.
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Well i was at my friends house and my crush was there and we were playin this game "base or building" base means if someone says a guy u have to say how far u would go w/ him ( 1st base - hug 2nd - kiss 3rd - make-out home - well u kno ) and building means someone picks 2 ppl and u say who u would rather push off a building. well i picked base and someone said my crush ( adam ) well he doens't kno i lyke him so i didn't want to say 3rd cause than maybe he wouldn't lyke me so i said 2nd ( but i really wish i would of said 3rd ) than the next time it was my turn they said my ex-b/f and i said almost to 3rd now i wish i could of said 2nd cause all my friends r teasing me saying i still lyke my ex and i don't!!! wut should i do PLEZ HELP ME!!!!
signed, I don't kno wut to do!!
(p.s. I RATE VERY HIGH)
Ok here's my one. This is stupid as hell. It doesn't matter about what you said in some game. Tell your friends to go take a flying leap off a real building. Do what your true self wants to you do. You don't have to let people pressure you into something you don't believe in.
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Ok.. I'm 18/f and my b/f of 2 and a half years moved to Georgia 5 weeks ago. He said he was doing it to ''grow up'' and to make sure his feelings for me were real. Well, he tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me, but when I try to get him to come back home..he won't. Do you think it's cause he is testing me, or because he wants me to leave him alone? Thanks!!
He is asserting his independence. Sometimes you have to know if you can take care of yourself before you commit yourself entirely to someone else. If you let him go, he will eventually come back if he misses and loves you.
It sounds like he is a good guy. I think he is just trying to prepare himself for the future. He told you what his goal was. Just trust him a little bit. It isn't easy, but you will get busy and not miss him as much. This doesn't mean either one of you won't get back together. Just hold tight, and do something to forward your growing up process.
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omg ok...im so pissed right now...i was supose to go to the movies with the guy i like today...he has to bring his little bro every where so i was just gonna go with my lil bro too bc ther the same age and all my friends have started skool already...so we planned this 3 days ago..i called n asked wat he wanted to see and he sed a.v.p and i HATE those kinda movies so i was like ok..i was gonna see it bc i wanted ot b with him! so i called n found out the time for it and we agreed to go today (wednesday) ...and we planned this on like monday...and we used to c eachother ALOT but now we just never get around to it and we hold hands n stuff when we do see eachother n hes just sweet and so i was really excited i did chores to get the money n everything...well so i called him yesterday just makin sure he can stil go n he sed he can..so today i called him n he didnt asnwer so i figured he l eft to go...and i got droppd off with my brother and we waited...i kept callin bc there was no answer...and then he called me on his brothers cell and was like..."oh ya i cant go now" i dont have a ride ..i wa slike um ok....and he was like r u mad i was like no and then he was like yaaa...and then he was like o well i can get a ride but its from a gurl ii was like do wat u want..and then he was like ok well ill call her n see if she can take me and ill call u back...AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! he didnt come, call or nothing to let me no wat was going on...so i was stuck seeing avp with my lil brother...im soo mad he hasnt called or nothing..wat shuld i do??
It's official. He stood you up. At least he answered your phone call...eventually. I hate it when guys lie and say they are trying to meet you and they don't. I wouldn't give him many more chances because its not fair to you not to call you ahead of the appointed time and let you know what is going on. It's not so bad to break a date before it happens, but it is awful to just let the person swing in the breeze (especially in front of you little brother yuck).
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Ok well I went to my friends house and she was flipping I have no clue what she took her boyfriend rushed her to the hospital after I left cuz she turned all blue and she wasn't breathing I'm scared whats gonna happen I can't live without her she doesn't do drugs usually it's all since her boyfriend cheated on her while he was drunk this weekend and now her cuzine/best friend died this monday and it fucked her up I think she over drugged her self...any help I can get to make myself feel better will help...plz I'm hopeless
love cutie_babee
Hopefully she will be ok now. She probably over dosed. Most people straighten out after this experience. She needs professional help to deal with her grief, and someone to talk to.
You need another close friend to talk to or even a counselor. Be good to yourself, and try to stay busy. If you can visit her, do that. Just try to stay occupied. I hope everything turns out ok. I know it hurts really bad to lose your best friend. Take care of yourself.
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alright, im not one of those overweight/underweight girls wanting attention or needing "emergency" help with their weight. but i have been wondering this question for a bit. when you say this weight is "average" for this height... are you saying most common kids for this age are this weight, or this is the weight you SHOULD be... in simpler words: are you basing average weight as the weight most common and good, or the weight that is considered average by professionals? i mean, the US has a large percentage of overweight children these days, and if you base it on average weight of all gendered children, wouldnt that make the scale a little off? sorry this is long- just want to know what everyone is basing their advice on! thank you and goodnight.
I try to avoid these questions like the plague. There are some written BMI indexes and such that help to base if people are overweight. It doesn't figure in for muscular people, however. I just don't like making these sort of judgements without seeing them or having that sort of training to make an informed decision.
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Ever since i could remember i'v always had low self esteem. I feel weird when i'm around guys like im the uglyist person there so i always shut up and keep quiet unless someone says something to me but i make it breif. I'v made a little progress with the talking in groups of people this year but i still don't like myself. I feel that i hate everything about me,but im not suicidal. What could i do to make myself possibly like me more?
There has got to be at least one little thing you like about yourself. Wear a rubber band for a little while on your wrist. Every time you think a negative thought, pop it. Eventually you will get tired of popping yourself, and will be a little less negative.
Its good that you are talking to people. If you want to practice making new friends, try visiting and/or volunteering at a nursing home. These people crave someone to talk to. Or do something else rewarding that makes you feel good about what you have done.
And treat yourself to something nice. New shoes, new clothes, or a new CD. It will help you feel a little better. Just take it step by step.
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I lost my voice about a month ago when I went to a singing camp. I had basically overused my voice. Usually I am asked to sing at weddings and such, so my voice is important to me as a way to earn money and express myself. However, after my voice came back after losing it, it has changed. It almost seems for airy, or not as strong. I feel like I forgot how to sing in a way. This has never happened before. I can still sing, but it wasn't as good as it was. Any suggestions on how to build my voice back up to its full potential?
You absolutely need to see a doctor. It could be serious enough to end your singing career forever. All of the practice in the world won't help if it is a physical problem. There could be a polyp, callous, or some sort of paralyzing of your vocal chords.
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hey, i asked a question before about the whole tutor thing and not being sure about what people would say... i have another thing that brings me down. i just went to freshman orientation and everyone was looking at eachothers schedules and i learned that all of my friends are in honors classes and i'm the only one in CP classes. and i'm not exaggerating when i say all of my friends i do mean ALL of my friends. this might sound really consited and selfish but I'M the one that has the higher goals in life and I'M the one that wants to have a great future and they mostly just throw their lives away focusing on boys and partying. the majority of them just want to become like a hair dresser or something like that and i'm the only one that wants to do something great and that's goint to help people I'M the one that wants to be a doctor. why can't I have the good grades??? i'm the one that needs it! i want to be a doctor while all my other friends hardly even want to plan their future! i find this totaly unfair! i feel so stupid sometimes and i just want to sit and cry. what can i do to make myself feel better about all of this!?PLEASE help i rate high!
Here is the deal. Some people are smart and don't have to work as hard to do well. Eventually, that will catch up with them. They get used to things being easy, and they don't always live up to their potential.
Working hard in school is great. If you think you can hack a more advance class, do it. Just realize you have to study more. It will pay out in the end. Don't cry about your friends, do something to make yourself better. Its not to late to be a doctor. Talk to your guidance counselor, they can help you a lot.
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Just so everyone knows, putting this in the subject of your question not only does not affect our decision to delete it, but it only serves to point out to us that you have already asked the same question before and it was deleted.
Asking the same exact question two or three times, only putting "MODERATORS, DON'T DELETE THIS QUESTION", does nothing but serve to annoy us more.
Yeah, I wish they would stop tempting the moderators.
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Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks.
I don't think there is anything wrong with a hairy chest. The biggest advantage to having a "naked" chest is to show off your muscles. It really doesn't bother me either way. I really don't like to base things on looks alone. As long as there is a little attraction an a lot of affection, life is good.
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AHH my dad treats me like I'm 5!! I mean I can't do alot of things by my self..I can't wear tank-tops in front of him...He thinks I can't take care of the dog because I'm too young? HELLLO I'm 13!! I'm a freshmen..at this age it's really hard to keep high grades..yet I still have to keep my grades above 95? Plus I'm alot more mature then a 13 year old..because like ALL my friends are 14-15..and he expects me to do alllll this work and stuff..and when I get hurt he thinks it doesn't hurt at all..but he still treats me like Im SO little!!! I swear he talks to me like Im 5...gR I've tried talking to him...but it doesn't work? What should I do?
Welcome to being a teenager. Just grin and bear it. He will give it up, someday. As far as the above 95 thing, my dad did that too; if it wasn't a straight A it wasn't good enough. He just wants you to be able to get a scholarship and go to a good school. He's having a little of the my little girl is growing up syndrome. My dad wouldn't even let me wear halter tops or anything that showed my belly button (and I probably wouldn't either now if I had a child). He is just trying to take care of you.
Are you ignoring your chores in taking care of the dog? Pour your energy in to proving him wrong in what you do, not what you say.
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ok well i'm usually an active person. i play soccer and basketball alot and i'm on the school teams... i hurt my ankle so im out for a little in my soccer season... how can i stay in shape for when i can play again and possibly lose a little weight?
You might want to talk to a doctor as to what exercises you can and cannot do. Swimming is really good if you have hurt your ankle because it isn't weight bearing, and you flex your foot to help it get stronger.
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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.
I think the best part of dating a gamer would be that you would probably know right where he is: in front of the tv. As long as you don't ignore your girlfriend, everything should be fine. You might find a girl that likes to play as well. As far as computer techs, sometimes those guy make a fairly good living and that makes living a little easier. I think its more of a problem if they don't like dealing with people or being social.
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Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal??
My grandparents were married for more than 50 years, and grandfather was 8 years older than my grandmother. Grandfather was around 30 or so I think when they got married because he had come back from the war in 1945 (?) and grandmother had my mom when she was 25 two years later. They were always together even though they complained about each other sometimes when the other one left the room. They hardly ever parted.
I think its more about the maturity of your chosen mate.
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hey i was wondering if anyone knows if a newer mazda millenia car comes spercharged from stock, im pretty sure it doesnt but a friend says is does. let me know
www.cars.com has side by side comparisons of particular models that will tell you what is stock and what are options. Sometimes they even have a review of the car in question. Just click on Research to get started.
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I bought this car in february, and besides getting a new battery, it was a great deal for $2000. But I drove about four hours away a few weekends ago, most of it highway going 70 or more. On the way back it started to make a really bad beeping... screeching grinding sound.
After driving the car for these last weeks, I can explain it better: When I start the car up and go, it will be fine for about 10 minutes. Then it will start to make a sort of beeping sound, that seems to be coming from something grinding and screeching against a pipe of some sort when it goes around (like the thing hooking the two front tires together are hitting something as it goes around it's rotation, only in one spot).
It stops completely every time I press on the break. It is sometimes worse when I make a right turn, and it sometimes gets better, or stops when I make a left turn. When I first started to hear it, someone told me that it might be something about the break pads. Then I heard that it could be a belt (fan belt maybe) that is loose or slightly off. And then I heard that it could be that my tires need to be rotated, or their off (I can't remember) and I might possibly lose a tire while driving it. As you can tell I'm not exactly car savy. I have a friend who is coming over tonight or tomorrow and would like it if someone could answer me and tell me what they think this problem could be. When I talk to my friend, I would like to point him in the right direction, so maybe he can fix it, or at least tell me exactly what it is, so I don't get screwed over by a mechanic if I have to go to one.
Its easy to tell if its a belt. Open the hood and look at all of your belts. If there are cracks in any of them or if they are loose at all, you need to get them seen about.
Rotating and balancing your tires is pretty cheap, and you can get that done at a tire store for no more than $60 or so.
Your brake pads could be catching or freezing up a little. If it sounds like rocks, it might be your bearings. If it is you bearings, get it fixed immediately.
There are so many little things that can make a big noise, so if he drives it he might have a better crack at it than I would.******************************************
Check your power steering fluid. Of course if you turn it all of the way left and all of the way right it is going to moan a little bit.
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