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Question Posted Monday August 30 2004, 1:33 pm

yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen

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xXKiSsMeXx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 2:27 am:
haha! just show her your bra tag sometime it comes up and be like SEE I TOLD YOU! not in a mean way but in like a joking funny i told you so type of way! does that make sense? lol well I hope so!

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c_assi_e_x_12 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:58 pm:
Well if it bothers u that much then just sit down with her and calmly explain to her that it hurts ur feelings when she says that..and if it continues just dont hang out with her anymore..oh we can all be huge drama queens at time ;) lol hope i helped



..*Cassandra*..

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alisonmarie answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:05 pm:
Why not stop talking about boobs with her?

You already know you don't like the way she will react. I think you're telling her size to show her that she's not to unique or brilliant - but really, they're just boobs.

If the two of you argue about boobs, then skip talking about them.

I'd be careful, though, because it also sounds like she's trying to belittle you. She might be talking about how you won't catch up with her bra size, but she could be MEANING a lot more. If it continues, the best thing to do is have a serious talk with her.

Let her know how you feel, and see how she reacts. If she doesn't make an effort to be more considerate of your feelings, and you genuinely don't like the way she acts, it might be time to find a new friend.

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jesikuh977 answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:01 pm:
i hate girls like that lol like ur friend im the girl with the "big boobs" but i dont go around flaunting it... she sounds like a bitch =D everytime she says something juss be like ...k we kno about ur boobs their right there stop talking about it lol or tell her to shut up or soemthing..tell her boobs arent everything =D

*jesikuh

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addictedx3punk answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:57 pm:
you cna jsut talk to her in person dont call not online IN PERSON and jsut be like hey i dont wanna be mean but your acting kinda of rarrrish and explain to her that jsut cause she has bigger boobs doesnt make her any better than anyone.. i have a friend like that too i talk ot her but she didnt listen and kept in being mean to everyone about so i jsut stop talking to her so if she doesnt listen and keeps being all wierd then just stop talking to her for a while

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:44 pm:
your friend probably think shes the shit cuz she has a big breast. thats really immature. but you shouldnt get upset for her immaturity, its not your fault she is stuck on herself, or her boobs lol! but yeah, the next time she compares her boobs to yours or starts talking about her boobs just be like "yeah... not to be rude, but i dont care about your breast. i see them, i know there there, everyone does, its very obvious, so you dont need to talk about them all the time." she might get mad and think you are jealous, but oh well. and just for the record, big boobs arent so great anyway, mines are growing cuz i'm pregnant, and i cant stand them, i want them back small again. lol.

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:33 pm:
well i would juss be like i can see that your boobs are big but u dont always hafta talk bout them to make me feel like crap cuz mine arnt that big!!! trust me i kno how u feel my best friend use to have like nuthin then all of a sudden BAM she has sumthin a very big sumtin and she iz alwayz sayin stuff bout them and callin me flatty n shyt so juss tell her to lay off and stuff hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*<3

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craziixxchica answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:12 pm:
dont worry if she is like that u dont need her tell her how u feel and if she dont like it o well shes rude and friends arent rude to friends

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Monday August 30 2004, 1:55 pm:
maybe she thinks you have bigger boobs then she does. if thats not true, stuff your bra hugely before you see her again. that'll show her.

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chaos answered Monday August 30 2004, 1:47 pm:
Don't tell her you size anymore. It's none of her business. When she needs a crane to get them off the floor when she gets older, she won't be laughing. Change the subject to either something completely different or something that irritates her just as much. Don't give her a chance to act out her "soap opera."

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