Ok.. I'm 18/f and my b/f of 2 and a half years moved to Georgia 5 weeks ago. He said he was doing it to ''grow up'' and to make sure his feelings for me were real. Well, he tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me, but when I try to get him to come back home..he won't. Do you think it's cause he is testing me, or because he wants me to leave him alone? Thanks!!
chaos answered Thursday August 26 2004, 9:25 am: He is asserting his independence. Sometimes you have to know if you can take care of yourself before you commit yourself entirely to someone else. If you let him go, he will eventually come back if he misses and loves you.
It sounds like he is a good guy. I think he is just trying to prepare himself for the future. He told you what his goal was. Just trust him a little bit. It isn't easy, but you will get busy and not miss him as much. This doesn't mean either one of you won't get back together. Just hold tight, and do something to forward your growing up process. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
Derfel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 5:35 pm: think he is being a Dick head! Sorry to be blunt but he's messing you about, you have to hang on for him while he fucks about shutting you out of his life. Its not fair on you. Its up to you if your going to put up his attitude or not but I would advise you give him a short, sharp shock and get rid of him. You deserve someone better.
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DarKAngel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 5:08 pm: i think he's trying to see if he can with stand being with out you for awhile but once he returns he will never leave your side and always be there for you and that my friend is what he is trying to do [ DarKAngel's advice column | Ask DarKAngel A Question ]
o0Tina0o answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 5:04 pm: he could of got anouther girl.. or he could be testing you to c if you will stay with him 4ever
ElementaryHustler answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 4:59 pm: I think he is testing himself and maybe you. Just give it time and see whats going on first.
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