first and foremost, i wouldl ike to add one thing to moderators. delete me! i do not care! you may delete at will! i trust you in your power, and the rest of us lower ppl should! quit saying dont delete me ppl! theres only like 11 or 12 levels 2's! if your deleted, theres a reason! so with that in mind, delete to your hearts content. and please, please, from the bottom of my heart, delete the next question that says do not delete. and thank you everyone, for reading this warm, heartful thing on deleted questions. or something. hm, i wonder if this makes any sence, what so ever.
Matt
Finger hovers over button....um no. Not right now. Maybe after all 10-12 us agree with you.
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for about a couple weeks my nipples have been really sensitive and they hurt sometimes if something touches them like my bra or something...i dont mean to sound nasty but they just have been hurting. im not pregnant or anything cause ive never had sex and im only 14 but if anyone knows why please help!
It could still be your period. It will probably stop in a few days. If it continues after a week, call the doctor, but it probably isn't anything much more than they're growing.
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hey i am a 15 year old girl and i got into this football accident in ROTC homecoming is coming up and i am suppose to wear my brace cuz i screwed up my neck big time...but isnt that kind of emabarassing... i mean it wouldnt hurt just one day without out.. or would it... HELP plz
Eventually you won't need it. If you don't wear it now, you will have worse problems later. Decorate it. Know that you are doing it for your own good, and everyone else can stuff it.
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my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?
Every teenager has a phase where there are "stupid little pictures." on their walls and/or doors. She is stretching the truth if she is telling you that she isn't checking them out. I remember enjoying thinking about particular heavy metal heads when I was young, but I didn't stalk them. That's when you have a true problem.
She likes you, and she isn't running off with some cutie. Come now, tell me there aren't at least one Victoria's Secret catalog under your bed?
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(I asked this question to everyone before, but I have certain favorite columnists so I'll just ask them now)
Okay, well, there's a guy I know from MSN who I've been talking to for about a year now, friend of a friend, never met him in person. Last year we mentioned that it might be interesting to actually meet, though he did think that it might be a little awkward, but twice our plans got screwed up one way or another so we just dropped the subject. I didn't speak to him all summer because his computer broke down, and when he came back on I thought maybe I'd mention our idea again. He said he thought it might still be weird, but I said we should give it a try anyway because there was nothing to lose. He agreed and even suggested a place we could meet. A few weeks later, on a Friday, I said how about Sunday and he said yes, but we didn't decide on a time or anything, and come Sunday I didn't see him online until the late afternoon and he didn't even bring up our half-made plans. Anyway, the point of all this is that I really don't know what to do, whether I should keep trying or not. I really want to meet him because I like his personality but for all I know he finds me annoying. I don't know whether to let it go for another while so as not to seem desperate, or if I should just confront him and ask him to just tell me whether he wants to meet me or not so I can go from there. I really don't want to sound pushy. Sorry this was so long, but any advice would help. Thanks.
P.S.:Before I got answers about being careful because i don't know him. This is true, but I'm just telling you now that there's no need to worry about him being some old perv, I know 2 of his friends and random people who went to school with him, he ain't armed or dangerous, folks. :)
It sounds like you need to wait for him to bring it up again. Guys have a tendency not find people who pester them attractive. Its kinda weird that he is giving you the brush off if you are just meeting for fun. I know it sucks, but guys are strange and wonderous creatures.
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My sister was like to me "what are you drinking" and im like "apple juice" and she starts yelling me calling me a heffer and crap! like im not even on my diet anymore...and im not even fat but she says if i eat stuff and drink all this sugary stuff im gonna be huge later on and im like..uhh its just juice. i was thirsty so i drake some. and she was like thers crystal light..and i didnt feel like crystal light so i drank apple juice..we always fight about this and i know she cares about me and she doesnt wanna see me get huge...but she always makes me cry and she makes me feel fatter times 200. idk what to do..i hate myself now i just wanna lose weight so im anarexic like her and then shes happy and she can get off my back. ugh! what do i say to her to get her off my back!!!
"At least it wasn't a 150 calorie soda, you jerk." Ignore her. She obviously has not clue. Do what you know is right.
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All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help
Are they trying to steer you away from a guy who is not good for you? If this is true, then dump him or at least think about what they are saying.
Friends don't make this kind of ultimatium unless they aren't truly friend, or they are severely worried about your welfare. Ask them what their problem is with him.
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OK.. heres the deal..
I am 14 years old i weigh 225 lbs..*damn right * and i really need 2 loose weight! i know i can loose 10 lbs a month.. i want to loose 80 lbs. by the end of may.. i have been trying over the summer and that.. its been working good i lost 20 lbs.. but all of a sudden i started gaining weight!! i have been eatting better and excirsing more and everything.. does anyone know what 2 do?
If you are exercising, then you probably are gaining muscle mass. The good news is that muscles help you burn more calories. If you feel better, don't worry about it. 600 seems a little to little for a growing and active person. You can probably eat as much as 1000. The average person is supposed to eat 2000-2200. There will probably be a few months that you plateau and don't lose any, but keep it up. ***************** A plateau is when you stop losing weight for a little bit.
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My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, twice. When we broke up, I had no idea he had done this and when we got into a huge fight he told me. I feel so hurt, worthless and betrayed. He was the only boy I ever truly loved and he had told me he felt the same. We've been talking now, and he says he still loves me and wants me back. His sorry's aren't taking away the heartache but I still love him more than anything. I don't know if I can trust him yet and he's cheated on other girfriends. Do you think he could really mean it this time? I can never seem to move on from him and he regrets cheating completely. What am I supposed to do or say?
"So who are you cheating on now?" Please forget about him because there is someone out there who will respect you enough not to cheat on you. And the fact that he only brought it up during break up tells me that he has no concern for another person's feelings. It was spiteful and thoughtless. The time to talk about cheating problems is when you are in the relationship.
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My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!
I didn't date until I was 16. You don't have to be like your friends. And she might not object to a chaperoned date. I know it sucks to drag the parents, but you are too young. Begging her is not gaining you any ground whatsoever.
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All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help!
Hi, I am here to represent your complaining friend. This is me. A lot. Especially lately.
I spend a lot of time by myself so the first person I can really talk to, I tend to latch on. I forget that I am very lucky to have a steady job, a roof, and a car that works. There are people with much less than I that are happy.
When the going gets tough the tough go shopping. Or some other activity where you don't focus on problems. A funny movie. Point out all the good things she has going for her. She probably doesn't have anyone else who will listen. Do point out that she seems unhappy because sometimes you run around in a pattern that needs to be broken. Sometimes just acting as every thing is peachy helps your mood a little.
You might encourage her to volunteer or just get some exercise. You generally feel better you when you help yourself or others. Sometimes all you need is a swift kick in the pants. And on that note, I am going to take a few minutes to walk today...
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Hey everyone,
I'm playing a character in play where i have to keep a straight face while someone sings to me in German... does anyone have any advice on how to keep a straight face and not laugh or giggle during the performance?
Get the translation of what the character is singing to you. You need to know what they are saying so that you can understand how your character reacts to it. You should be busy with the thoughts of your characater. And eventually you will not think about laughing anyway.
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ok well my mom told me last week she thinks its time i go see a gyno. well i dont have a problem with it b/c i am sexually active and i think i might need to go. well im guessing she obviously thinks me and my boyfriend are doing stuff if she's making me go there. well im really scared to tell her so im going to keep it from her as long as i can. my friends have told me that the questions they ask you are confidentail.. well is there any way i can ask the gyno if i can get birth control and they can give it to me without my mom thinking anything like can they tell her she should probably put me on it to regulate my period? i know this is weird but what do u think?
Moms have a second sense. Trust me she knows what's up. There is no harm in asking for birth control if you feel you need it. Just prepared to discuss the issue with your mom because its going to happen.
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I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much!
You don't get entirely over it. Eventually you aim your anger at the correct person at best. She really needs counseling and a shoulder to cry on. There will be all sorts of issues for awhile yet. It will be sort of like grieving. Hopefully, she gets help and it doesn't color her relationships to the point that she isn't happy.
It is not your fault. You didn't make him do this. It will take a while for her to feel better. She is fortunate to have you help her through this terrible incident.
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.
The big deal is that its very very hard to divide yourself from that person once you have had sex with them. Its like an invisible control. I would wait for marriage if you can.
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I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
thnx
Grow up. Get a job. Get an apartment. Move.
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okay, ive been talking to this one guy for like a month now..hes realli kool and everything, we goto different schools, have 2 very different lives, i have my lisense but he doesnt have his and so its totally hard to see eachother..i mean yeah ill meet up with him places and a few times ive given him a ride home,but its totally weird like that, i mean i want a guy to come see ME, pick ME up, drop ME off home, etc..ya know?? before when i first started talking to him i was totally interested and wanted it to work out, now i think im kinda starting to loose interest in him..its so hard tho cause i mean we hold hands, hold eachother, etc, [nuthing more than that kinda stuff] and he got me flowers the other day and hes making me this frame thingy in his ceramics class, and so its totally bad timing for me to wanna end it with him.. hes a realli kool guy but like i dont even know if i like his personality that much more than a friend.. at first i wanted to get to know him and see whut happens, and i did get to know him and im not sure if i realli like him that much now that i got to know him. i feel like im leading him on so much but now hes making me something in his ceramics class, etcetc!!!! whut should i do?? thanks alot
I don't think you have to break it off just yet. What you need to do is let him do some of the driving. Let him make the effort to come see you, pick you up, drop you home...etc. If he is truly interested and/or worth your time, he will do these things for you. You might also just want to tell him how you are feeling because guys are terrible at taking hints. You are just tired of doing all the work. If nothing changes, then dump him, nicely.
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i just started at a new school last week september 8th the first day i noticed this girl,jasmine had all the same classes as me me not knowing anyone decides to be friendly and say hey im new and i think we have the same class want to walk with em there and jasmine f*ck no f*uckin girls are stupid so i was like w.e and just went to class later dureing that day i realize she in every one of my classes!i didnt say anything to her the next day in Health we had to ask everyone what there favorite show was mine was boy meets world and she yells out boy meets world is like 70 years old her is full house and this kid dustin says yea and so is fullhouse she gos ya well at least its good and today she made fun of my friends outfit and my voice and just other stupid things....im very girly i dont have that many friends becuase im new but im making it it always seems like im the kind of girl that girls like jasmine love to pick on(she thinks she all that)but why do you think shes doing this she dont evan know me?and what am i spose to do next time shes talkin crap bout me?
Ignore her. Make different friends. Get good grades. Get scholarship. Have a great career. Take over the world.
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i take Communication Arts, and I didn't know how hard it would be? My latest assignment was to make a script with a partner, and we agreed that he would write the script while I brought the props and costumes. It's called a one word scene, which means one person can say only one word per line, and it has to be at least a minute and no longer than two minutes. See, I didn't have a problem with this until I read the script...it's about him being hungry and wanting to eat lkions while I think it's gross. i don't want to sound rude, but almost half the grade is based on the script and how good it is, and most of it doesn't make sense. Plus, the script it only 48 seconds, and she's a REAL stickler for getting the times straight. I have 2 questions::
How do i tell him in a nice way that I want to re-write the script?
Do you have any good ideas that will work well for a minute with this kind of script?
Reading it out loud to each other helps a lot. I would read it twice. Once to recheck the timing, and once to make suggestions or additions. You really need to hear the flow out loud. And you don't have to shoot the words out like a gun machine either.
Have you ever watched "Who's Line Is It Anyway?" They sometimes do this skit where they use one or sometimes two words to get an idea across. And they make theirs up on the spot. You two might do well to get together and watch it for research purposes.
There is nothing wrong with a script about being hungry. You can oppose his hunger, join it, feed the hungry, or something totally absurd.
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I'm new this year at a school and I thought it would be so easy to make friends, and it has been thanks to basketball. But during school, the most people ever say to me is like...Hi! and then when basketball practice comes around they're all crazy. I'm a VERY talkative person, but going to the same school for all my life (except this year) I know what it's like to have a new girl and instantly not like them because they're not as tight with your friends or whatever. I'm saying I need to sharpen my social skills, but asking questions like, "So...what do you like to do?" isn't a question I'd normally ask. It's odd asking questions like what's ur fav color and stuff....so i need help...
Think of an issue that you feel strongly about. Maybe even something from a newspaper. Then ask someone else what they thing about it. You might find a new friend or a worthy adversary. What you do with it after that is up to you.
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