Question Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 5:23 pm
My sister was like to me "what are you drinking" and im like "apple juice" and she starts yelling me calling me a heffer and crap! like im not even on my diet anymore...and im not even fat but she says if i eat stuff and drink all this sugary stuff im gonna be huge later on and im like..uhh its just juice. i was thirsty so i drake some. and she was like thers crystal light..and i didnt feel like crystal light so i drank apple juice..we always fight about this and i know she cares about me and she doesnt wanna see me get huge...but she always makes me cry and she makes me feel fatter times 200. idk what to do..i hate myself now i just wanna lose weight so im anarexic like her and then shes happy and she can get off my back. ugh! what do i say to her to get her off my back!!!
JennaRESPECTS answered Sunday September 26 2004, 2:23 pm: Your sister sounds really mean!!Just tell her to leave you alone about the fat thing and let you handle it!it's none of her business!!(but tell her in a nice way so she gets even meaner about the situation).I hope i helped you out!
liddylflirtx3 answered Sunday September 26 2004, 11:51 am: How cruel your sister is! She has no right to tell you that you're fat or that you'll get huge when you're older...who made her the judge of this?! Drinking apple juice is perfectly fine! =)
Since right now you're probably growing like most other girls, you need to keep eating! Don't starve yourself just because your sister does or says your fat. Eat whatever your little heart desires! =) I also recommend you should talk to your mom and tell her that your sister has been on your back about this whole weight loss thing!
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Saturday September 25 2004, 10:53 pm: tell her you dont wanna follow her foot-steps cuz shes makin a bad decision...tell hers it your life you kno what your doing and you know what YOU can eat n drink she cant do everything for you.. [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
xaDvIcERsAiRx answered Saturday September 25 2004, 10:13 pm: that's terrible of her; it lowers your self-esteem, and hurts both of you in the long run. have a talk with her... thats really immature. dont worry about it... if you have anyconcerns about your weight or fitness, excersize. [ xaDvIcERsAiRx's advice column | Ask xaDvIcERsAiRx A Question ]
chaos answered Saturday September 25 2004, 7:43 pm: "At least it wasn't a 150 calorie soda, you jerk." Ignore her. She obviously has not clue. Do what you know is right. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
K3587 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 6:56 pm: Somehow I doubt she wants you to become anorexic. I don't think that would make anyone happy. Besides, it was freaking apple juice. It's not like you were shoving Crisco down your throat.
If she makes you cry I somehow doubt taking her advice is the right way to go. Tell her to shut the hell up. Mean, yes, but effective. [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
lorelei answered Saturday September 25 2004, 5:38 pm: Have you told her how un-helpful she's being? People who suffer from anorexia tend to be incredibly hard on themselves and sometimes on others concerning food.
If she really is an anorexic, you need to get her help. Talk to your parents or someone else you can trust. Even if she gets upset with you for doing it, she'll thank you in the long-run.
As far as yourself, you really shouldn't compare yourself to other people. Ever. Don't let anyone else influence your image of yourself because you will never be happy. You're your own person and you should work to fit your own personal standards. You say you're not dieting? You're satisfied with your weight? Stick to that! Don't let someone who's insecure about her own weight get you down. [ lorelei's advice column | Ask lorelei A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 5:30 pm: You shouldn't want to be anorexic! Thats not healthy. Who cares if you drank some apple juice. Apple juice is good for you. if she wants to be a freakin string bean then thats on her, but she doesn't have to drag you down with her, you are your own person. be happy about how you are. You should love yourself no matter what you look like. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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