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what do u think?
ok well my mom told me last week she thinks its time i go see a gyno. well i dont have a problem with it b/c i am sexually active and i think i might need to go. well im guessing she obviously thinks me and my boyfriend are doing stuff if she's making me go there. well im really scared to tell her so im going to keep it from her as long as i can. my friends have told me that the questions they ask you are confidentail.. well is there any way i can ask the gyno if i can get birth control and they can give it to me without my mom thinking anything like can they tell her she should probably put me on it to regulate my period? i know this is weird but what do u think?
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the only way u can get birth control without ur mom knowing is if you go to planned parenthood and get it.. tell ur mom u dont want her to go with you bcuz u feel uncomfortable and for her to just give u the money or something.. lol.. i hope everything works out for u
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um.. i don't know about that one i do know that planparenthood gives you things with out your parents permission, but i think the gyno would actrulley need your mothers permission.
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You could hav ethe doctor tell her it is recomended to regulate your period, but I'm not sure if teh doctor will do it. But no matter what, if you want to get birth control, and its from your like doctor/gyno, which your mom knows, she will have to know you are on it, because it will come up when your insurance pays for it. If I were you i would just get all teh stress off my back, and be honest with her. Since she was the one suggesting to see a gyno, she must think you are sexually active. if you can't just flat out tell her that you are, try easing into it. Go talk to her and ask her "hey mom, why exactly do you think its time for me to visit a gyno? and what is going to happen when I go, and what will they ask and offer me?" if you do it this way,it might be easier to tell her the truth. Its no good to keep secrets from your parents, especially your mom, you wanna keep the honesty there with your mom.
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Ok for starters...
they keep everything confidential...
but birth control is very exspensive!
if your moms taking you she already knows whats going on...believe me MOM KNOW EVERYTHING! lol
I'd tell her about it and just be like hey mom I'm in a point in my life where I'm getting older and I need to perscribe some birth control for my safety...or w/e...believe me it wont come as a shock...I mean she'll prolly ask you TO GEt some! ! !
hope all goes well!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Yes the doctor will keep everything confidental. But the doctor is not going to lie for you.
You could try and fill the perscription yourself without your mother knowing by not using her insurance. But without insurance your perscription will be $20-$50 a month. But I am not even sure you can fill your own perscription if you are under 18. If you are on a medication, you may need your parent's approval. Ask your doctor for some opptions. I am sure she hears this problem quite often.
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haa trust me yer mom knoz....ohh jeez my mom knoz EVERYTHING i've dun and i didnt even tell her one thing....momz alwayz kno.....its creepy...but they do...juzz tell her u wanna be safe wit birth control she'll prolly understand most momz do.
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Yeah, totally, mom's are really good about knowing what's going on. She wouldn't be making you go if she didn't think you needed to, so hey, while you're there, why not? Just be like "Mom, I'm old enough, I'm already going to be there, so I need birth control." or whatever. If she asks why, tell her. It's not like she doesn't already know, I mean, they can tell. :)
~Laura~
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Moms have a second sense. Trust me she knows what's up. There is no harm in asking for birth control if you feel you need it. Just prepared to discuss the issue with your mom because its going to happen.
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Well if you are 15 or older it is confidential and they cant tell anyone anything unless you authorize them to, so i wouldnt worry about your mom finding out...
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Yes, thats all you have to say. Just talk to your gyno. Explain that you want to go on brth control and to tell your mom that it is just to regulate your period.
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