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hey i have seen some peoples site on this site, where, they have music playin. how do i get music on mine (Indeed)
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Don't put music on yours please. It is extremely annoying.
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Hey,
I was wondering if anyone could help me out here obviously lol. Well anyway, im 13 and ive been with my boy friend for almost 2 years(( yeah i know i know a long time to be tied down for my age)). We have done everything but have sex. Ive been thinking about having sex but i know that im not physically and mentally ready, and im for sure not old enough to have sex or even do what im doing. I was just wondeirng if its normal to think what im thinking, what it would be like to have sex and all. Thanks!:) (Indeed)
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It's normal to think about it, its really human nature. However, you are only 13 and admitting that you aren't physically or mentally ready. From what you said, it is pretty obvious you won't be having sex anytime soon, which is a good idea. As for normal - definitely. There is a big difference between thinking about doing something and doing it. That is where the difference between normal and abnormal comes in - its normal for a 13 year old to be curious about sex, it isn't normal for them to be having sex.
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (Indeed)
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The only way to be 100% sure of not getting pregnant is not having sex. And yes, it could break, its just latex after all. The common idea is that if you're scared - don't do it.
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OMG i just realized one of my boobs is bigger than the other, WHAT DOES TAHT MEAN am i an alien? i must have a disease how do i tell my mom? what do i do? (Indeed)
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The only exactly perfect sized boobs are fake ones. So I guess that means you fall into the normal category like the rest of us.
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can anyone tell me what they did for their room to make it look nice, some ideas they wish they did or are going to do.. maybe an idea about how to decorate a picture frame or make one ,, things like that!! please help!!! (Indeed)
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Here are some sites with some ideas:
http://ww4.bhg.com/bhg/category.jhtml?catref=cat640004
http://www.ivillage.com/topics/home/0,,167103,00.html
And if there is nothing there you like, paint your room green, and throw leaves everywhere!
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i was wondering the best way to... "enhance" my chest, thick bra, gel, etc,. i dont want to use tissue or any thing like that. is it true pushups, and milk enlarge breast? thanx again (Indeed)
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Ah yes, the boob struggle. Been there, still doing that. I've learned to be proud of the small amount I have. For a long time I wore water bras, which are not padded, but have gel inserts. I guess its for a more breast-ish feeling? Apparently they stunt growth though if you are very young, such as 12. So you might not want to use them for a few more years.
At 17, I'm still growing, just not a lot. The crappy thing is, nothing might cause your boobs to grow. You will have to deal with whatever your given. I heard that massaging them apparently enhances some growth but... I don't know if you're willing to do that. Maybe in a couple years, if you're still unhappy, then I'd consider either an air lift bra or a water bra. Also, if you're going to decide on a push up bra, don't get one that causes a drastic change over the weekend - people tend to notice. If you're concerned about that that is.
As you're only 12, I wouldn't worry toooo much about this just yet, there is still plenty of time to grow naturally, and hey you might end up wanting less some day.
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If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (Indeed)
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It depends how old you are really. When you are 29 and dating someone who is 25, its not a big deal. But when you are 13 and dating an 18 year old - its a big deal. You have to be within the same age bracket at the same time I think. And the same maturity level as well.
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I had a b/f for 9 months. We broke up b/c he wanted to go to drugs and I didn't want to be with someone like that. I told him at the beginning of our relationship if he wanted to do drugs I'm not stopping him but he won't be with me. So he chose drugs...week later he wants me back. I finally stood up for something I believe in, and I know I won't take him back...but what do I say to him? (Indeed)
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Drugs are for losers. The guy is a loser. You don't need him. There are plenty of guys out there who aren't into drugs and won't choose something over you. I'd tell him that he had his chance, he lost it and have a fun life.
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I am a Christian girl. My parents like to go to a supposedly "Christian Phycic" He says that God gives him his powers. I dont really believe in ANYTHING a phycic says, but my parents do. Is this phycic a sin in God's eyes? Please help me understand! (Indeed)
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No matter what your religion, you shouldn't base decisions on a psychic. I'm pretty sure it's not technically a 'sin' but charging people for God given powers is probably frowned upon. Technically, saying God gives him his power, might be stepping on some issues and some may see that as calling himself a bit of a prophet.
The guy is probably cracked and missing a few marbles, your parents can make their own decisions but you might want to consider not taking this guys advice or words of wisdom. Don't try to change the future, just make wise decisions from your own instinct and based on your own morals.
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Im 5 ft and i weigh 91 Ibs...is that fat? (Indeed)
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Nope.
"Fat" is a mental thing. You're just perfect exactly how you are.
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I met this guy, he is soo sweet and hot and he treats me like a princess and we JUST met! I saw a picture of him and assumed he was about 16 or 17 and when we talked on the phone, he completely sounded like it too! Well, he asked me how old I was and said 15 and he said oh man I'm younger than you, I'm 14! :-/ Oh geez.. is it bad to be with someone a year younger than you especially when youre a girl?! HeLp! (Indeed)
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Age shouldn't make a difference if you really care about someone. And it doesn't. All that matters really are the feelings.
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okay i got this problem me and my girlfriend were like the perfect couple but then she starts cheatin on me one day she said she had to go to work and it was on a saterday and she never went to work on saterday i followed her and found her at this house and a guy answered the door in his boxers and they started to make out on the steps then went inside. then anotherday i stowed away in my car trunk cause i know she was gonna see him when she got with him i jumped out the car and kicked that guys a** and took my car and left her there.
did i justify my self for doin that?
she wants me back and she apologizes wat do i say?
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Even though she apologized, she blatantly cheated on you, and I wouldn't bother giving this girl another chance. She had no respect for you, she probably still doesn't. I wouldn't take her back if I were in your position, she sounds like she doesn't really deserve you.
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today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!
thanx,
~*RiSs*~
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Dump him now.
If he wants to be with this other girl so badly then why not let him. You don't deserve that kind of treatment.
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ok, I have always heard that the air conditioner uses more gas when turned on. Is this true? Does the heater also use more gas? I turned my heater on one morning last week (yeah, middle of summer and i need the heater... maine sucks ass) and I noticed the rpm meter move up a bit when I did, and went down a bit when i turned it back off. This was all while I was still parked in my driveway.
I was also wondering if Cruise control uses less, more, or just the same amount of gas if it's turned on or off.
Is there anything else that uses slightly more gas turned on when I'm driving? (Indeed)
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Yes the air conditioning uses gas when its on. Using the air conditioner or heater puts more work on the engine, and because it has to work harder, it uses more gas.
Cruise control uses no gas to use, but can possibly save you gas. If you know you're going to be on a long stretch of road, using cruise control can reduce how often you push down and let up on the gas peddle, which means you save gas. More gas is used when you increase your speed obviously and most people cant magically keep their foot at an exact same level at all times so cruise control helps this.
Something that uses more gas is when you have a window down while driving. Strange yes. When you have a window down, again it causes the cars engine to work harder because of the force created with a rolled down window. So more work on the engine means your burning more gas.
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There's this one guy that I'd do anything for. It's crazy, yes. But I love him so much...it hurts. And he never talks to me. Never pays any attention to me. But I can't tell him how I feel, he's too cool. He intimidates me. And I don't know what to do, because all I want to do...is be with him. (Indeed)
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Maybe you just think he is too cool when really he is a very normal guy. Try and strike up some conversation, and see what happens.
If he still doesn't pay much attention to you, well then, it'll hurt but you will get over it. There will be a guy eventually who will pay you all the attention you deserve.
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well tommorrow is my ex's birthday an we madd tite after we broke up an my other friend joe.. is sellin dime bags.. an my ex (nick) wants one so im kinda gettin in da middle of this drug shit an i just dont wana get cought the problem is that nick moved to ohio an im in Ny... am i alloud to send it or will they find it? how do i get it to him? i really like him an hes my bestfriend an everything but i dunno wuh ta do!! plz help nicks b=day is tommorrow! (Indeed)
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Drug sniffing dogs.
They'll find it. Besides, if you get caught with it, or caught trying to buy it by an undercover cop, you're in deep crap.
Send him a nice card instead. If the guy needs drugs so bad he can buy his own and get caught.
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evr since i was born my grandmother has always been with me. even more than my own mother........not lyk she a bad mom or nethin but......lemme explain.....wen i was born my mom was have some economic problems so she told my grandmother to take me to the Dominican Republic (country where all my relatives were born cept me)neways i came bak 2 us wen i was 4 n my grandmother has lived with us ever since......well until a few weeks ago when she passed away..........ne advice on how to deal wit it? (Indeed)
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Sadly, death is a part of life. It sucks, and its difficult, but you really have to go on.
The only way to deal with this properly is to cry if you feel the need and to remember your grandmother. Think of all your memories you have together, look at old photographs and remember her. And don't ever forget her.
The worst way to deal with death is to bottle it up and try and forget because it hurts to remember. The best thing to do is remember her, remember all the good memories and know that even though she is gone, you will always be connected.
Because you were so close, you have to be strong now that you are on your own.
Don't ever let the death of another person stop you from living. If the pain of losing someone stopped life because of so much sadness, then everyone would be as good as dead. Remember her, and remember to keep living your life because that is what she would have wanted.
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My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
What should i do? (Indeed)
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If you're worried then don't do it. Its really that simple. Even with condoms you still have a chance of pregnancy.
Sex has been known to destroy a relationship emotionally, because thats what it becomes about - sex. One partner wants to have sex less frequently and one wants to have it all the time and so, both are left a little resentful depending on how it turns out. So just make sure you have guidelines before hand that sex won't be what your relationship is all about. And NEVER decide you don't need a condom, even its 'in the heat of the passion'. Condom. Always. And then some.
Think this through very carefully before you do it. And if you do decide this is something you want, go see your doctor before hand. It's very important that you do. They won't tell your parents or anything like that, but they can give you advice and possibly recommened birth control.
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I am 5'6 n i weigh 130 pds! er i want to be the "perfect" 100 by the summer days so i look cute in my bathing suit! All my friends wear 1's n im in 2/3's ya so what should i do to get to the perfect 100 HELP ME!! I want to look cute in a bathing suit!!!
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Are you crazy? 100lbs isn't perfect by any means. If anything its TOO skinny. You're perfect just how you are. 130 sounds like a much better weight than 100.
Why not go for a jog, its healthy. And its nice to get some fresh air.
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Hi
I really dont know if Im inlove with this person but every day and night I cant stop thinking about him, he never met me before, but I really always thinking about him this gut is an actor. I know your thinking that this is just crush because his famous and popular because he really is a popular actor. I dont know but when im thinking about him I always think of a lot of good things like we will live happy and I will always protect him..and take care of him I know it's crazy but that's how I feel. im 13 years old and Im a girl... I think that I should forget about him but I know that it's not gonna hapen because his always in my heart...
If there's just something or someway that could help me forget about him I will do even though it's painful but I need to try..
I hope you can help me.
thank you... (Indeed)
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Oh wow yea, totally relate, sorta. Actors are not only waaaay attractive but their also portrayed in the best possible way - the hero, saviour, kicking ass kind of way that every girl loves.
You get these little infatuations about actors where you think that MAYBE one day you'll just magically cross paths and he'll fall in love with you or something.
This isn't reality though, and those actors aren't really knights in shining armour. They may look good and act great, but that isn't them. Thats the problem with becoming infatuated with someone from TV or movies. You really don't know them, and you don't know their personality. You think you are in love with them but all you know is what they look like and the roles they play. Try and remember that. Focus on people you really know, people that are real. You're allowed to have your fantasies and you are theres no problem thinking about actors because, well, it happens. But don't get obsessed and don't let it go too far. Stick to reality and the people around you. The people who know you and the people who you know.
This infatuation will pass, they always do. Give it some time.
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