okay i got this problem me and my girlfriend were like the perfect couple but then she starts cheatin on me one day she said she had to go to work and it was on a saterday and she never went to work on saterday i followed her and found her at this house and a guy answered the door in his boxers and they started to make out on the steps then went inside. then anotherday i stowed away in my car trunk cause i know she was gonna see him when she got with him i jumped out the car and kicked that guys a** and took my car and left her there.
did i justify my self for doin that?
she wants me back and she apologizes wat do i say?
wacksk8er09 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 4:43 pm: i think u had a right to follow her and find out wut she was up 2 cheating is the worst thing some1 can do in a relationship and if she cheated on u she obviously didnt care that much about your feelings and it deff wouldnt work out u shouldnt give her another chance [ wacksk8er09's advice column | Ask wacksk8er09 A Question ]
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Sunday June 27 2004, 2:05 pm: WoW! I guess there's a really big problem in your relationship, trust. You didn't trust her when she said you had to work and your instinct was right but following her to find out was wrong. Her cheating on you was worse, thats one of the worst things a person can do in a relationship! I think you need to move on from her and not take her back! Good luck!!
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday June 26 2004, 11:10 pm: Well
I believe that violence is not the answer, though I can understand why you kicked his ass. She wants you back? Say no.
Getting back with a cheater is just like saying that it's okay to cheat. It's stupid.
I'm sorry this happened to you. You sound like a good guy.
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
FernGully answered Saturday June 26 2004, 7:57 pm: Even though she apologized, she blatantly cheated on you, and I wouldn't bother giving this girl another chance. She had no respect for you, she probably still doesn't. I wouldn't take her back if I were in your position, she sounds like she doesn't really deserve you. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
CaNdYQT101 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 7:41 pm: thats messed for your gurlfreind to ever be going behind your back like that .... if it was me i woukdnt go back out with her becuase she could just go off and do it again ..i think it was right for u to do what u did and i bet she leared a lesson.. i woukd wait it out and see what happens.. maybe if she changes u shood give her another chance... but for right now thats jus messed up!!!
i wouldnt go out with her right away .. i wood tell heri wanted to take alittle break becuase what she did was jus horrible and like i noe if it was u tht did that to hur she wood never forgive u becuase it takes longer for gurls to forgive the guys .. but u will jus have to c how the things turn out ... [ CaNdYQT101's advice column | Ask CaNdYQT101 A Question ]
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