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Lately my boyfriend jus seems to b making me depressed and stuff and i dunno what 2 do becuase i love him and stuff. but lately his attitde just makes me sumtimes jus b all depressed... becuase he kinda blows me off an seying like sure... right.... or w.e and i hate those words and it jus seems sumtymes like hes jus dosent care .. but then other times i kan tell he does... but alot of times i get depressed becuase of his like mood changes nd stuff.. what do i do?
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hmmm..this sounds confusing! if he makes you feel depressed then you really shouldn't be going out with him. I know it may sound harsh but you can't go out with someone who makes you feel bad. well i wouldn't. but you say sometimes he's nice? maybe he has stuff on his mind? talk to him about it, if he carries on then you really gotta end it..you can't be happy staying with someone who's making you unhappy. hope i helped. PS: please ask me direct questions to my column!
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He is a guy. GUys are like that. They don't show much emotion or interest. Trust me.. I am one. If his mood changes it's because he needs time by himself. Make him come to you and beg for you. It works. Like don't talk to him for a while.
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Communicate.
That's usually the answer to boyfriend problems. There are way too many couples that don't communicate enough nowadays, and it's killing relationships left and right.
So talk to the boy. Let him know that when he brushes you off like that, it's hurtful. Does he know he's acting like this? If not, you've gotta tell him.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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Tell him how you feel. And if he continues to treat you like that and make you feel bad tell him it's over because if he doesn't repesct your feelings it doesn't seem like he is a good person.
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