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Confused about r friendship
hey i have this friend, lets say her name is allie, well me n "allie" are supposed to be good friends, but now that we've grown older, i've matured just a bit more, im not into the stuff she likes any more, like she's more of a tom boy, and i like sports n stuff, but like at the movies and the mall, she HATES goin into stores like claires and forever 21, and anything wit too much "girl" stuff, but i go into stuff i dont like as in spencers and K B toys, she refuses to go where i wanna go, but i go where she wants to just to be a good fair friend,we've kind of split up when it cumz to interest, and i dont wanna be her friend, cuz we agree on almost nuttin, the problem is i live rite behind her in a manner of speaking me n "allie" "share" backyards, and when we start high skool next year, all of our church groups will be help at her house, and if im not her friend, i'd feel awkward, what should i do
also im a soon to be 14 yr old, and her n my sis and her n my bro are GOOD friends, and i just dont want her to get upset because she considers me her Best Friend
sry i've written so much, and if its confusin lemme kno and ill try to edit it!
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well dont end the friend ship over that i mean maybe you guyz have to have at least one thing in common i have the same prob only im the tomboy and my friend is the girly girl we both love to shop til we drop and stuff like that you guyz like to shop together right?well when you want to go somplace she dont want to go just tell her you will just go in you no tell her you guyz dont have anything in common and you two can sit down a figure out what u do have in common its your choice if you want to end the friend ship hope i helped bye good luck send me feed back bye:-)
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Hey, I defintly think you need to talk to your friend. And tell her how you feel. And since you feel that you guys have grown apart ask her if she feels the same way.
I bet she will eventually mature. But maybe your clicks are just diffrent. And you two are two totally diffrent people. So after you talk to her, see what she says. Dont shut her out though. Like maybe when she starts maturing and you guys get to the highschool she will meet new friends, and you will have new friends. And you guys can just be acquaintances. Alot of people who are friends for a long time figure out their diffrences and both agree to be mutual. Whatever you do, try not to make it into a fight though because you still have to see her a church groups, so try to get along. But trust me you guys will fall into your clicks, no stress dont worry!
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Hey well this is a problem but i think we can fix this. You should talk to her and tell her how you feel about this, and find some new common interest or just try to compromise with each other since your going to be seeing each other alot.And if she is your friend she wont get upset with for saying how you feel.
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