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does anyone know the song that is played on the ABC Family commercial where its like "a new kind of family" "a new kind of journey" blah blah blah.. and it shows scenes from a whole bunch of shows on ABC Family like Kyle XY, Gilmore Girls, and the movie Fallen...
thanks for any help
I want to put this song on my iPod because I really like it...
THANKS
ooo i just LOVE that song. it is High by James Blunt.
Hey- I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too and we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem- I want to kiss her (just a kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it... Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help
P.S. we are meeting tomorrow! I need advice soon!
what you could do is when there is a stop in the conversation just stare into her eyes and then just slowing lean forward and kiss her! that would be the easiest i think, because trying to tell her that you want to kiss her is more ackward.
okay I'm going to be blunt here. guys can answer this too if you feel the need to input heehee.
i get really bad cramps. this may be the wrong place to put this but oh well. any cures? help? anything at all?
you can try taking some Advil, tylenol or midol. or if you go on the pill that helps get them under control too.
hey I give and get advice from this site all the time but i dont know how to look at the answers to the questions I asked like a couple of days ago help?
well they normally get e-mailed to you. but if they don't go to the site and sign in. then look under the section that says "Welcome, YOUR USERNAME". then click on the link that says "Your Questions". and then click on your question and there are the answers!
Well I know I'm putting them in wrong. I can't even get all of it in, I get like half of it in. It's my first time doing this and I don't get why it won't go in all the way!!Please help!!!
for my first time i had my mom buy me the slim fits (which are thinner then the average tampon) with the lowest absorbancy. the slim fits are easier to put in and you will feel them less. good luck :]
2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.
Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me
Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out
Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me
Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks
...
I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose?
guy #1. here is why:
1)he is closer to your age
2)you have a lot in common
3)he lives near you
4)good personality
the only thing you really have to work on with him is that you need to let him know that you are not ready for sex. if doesn't listen or continues pressuring you, then dump him. but do not go with #2 because the age difference is huge and since he isn't a virgin i think he would eventually expect sex with you.
good luck and go with your heart!
okay well sorry if this is the wrong category butt
i have very thin/fine hair its about shoulder length and blonde on top black underneath and i always have to backcomb and put tons of hairspray in it to make it look normal I HATE IT IT TAKES FOREVER, so i was wondering if anyone knows any thickening shampoo or creams or hairstyles that would help?
- thanks.
if price isn't a matter then try using aveda products.
http://www.aveda.com/templates/products/multiproduct.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY10357
Ok, so i'm not like tottaly fat or anything. but i am big. my weight is around 160( a little more, but bettween 160 and 170). i want to loose weight but everytime i try, it never works. i've tried to stop eating junk food, but it only works for about a day. and in P.E. we always run a mile and i want to have a good time and not be embarresed infront of others. what do i do?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????
you shouldn't start out by just cutting junk food all together. if you just cut junk food, then that will make you want it even more. you should start by only cutting calories a little. like for breakfast, try eating a bowl of healthy cereal (like cheerios or a cereal high in fiber), and if you can use skim milk. for lunch cut out one of the snacks you used to eat with lunch and replace it with a piece of fruit (apple, peach, pinapple, etc). like if you used to eat a sandwhich, chips, and juice. try eating a sandwhich (perferably on wheat bread), with an apple, and water. drink about 8 eight-ounce glasses of water per day. water helps flush out your body. for dinner try to stick with having only one helping of food. don't totally deprive yourself of junk food, just limit yourself. start out by just eating a couple chips instead of a huge bowl of them. another thing you could do is instead of eating a greasy junk food like chips replace them with pretzels.
just start out slow and work your way up. you will also need to exercise to lose weight and get in shape for P.E. try going for a brisk walk or jog. or if you have a treadmill you could do that. or you could ride a bike. and if you have DDR (Dance Dance Revolution) that is a fun way to exercise. i know that on DDR there is a workout mode that tells you how many calories you are burning and you can set a goal on there.
GOOD LUCK!
I'm 15/m
I'm going to grade 10 and I want a new style for highschool.
I used to wear hoodies and recently began weraing long sleeved shirts a lot.
Neither of which I want to wear to much of cause I'm not like a stupid prep/poser.
I am fat and tallish.
P.s I dont want really bright colors, and preppy cloths either
**IN ADDITION TO YOUR FEEDBACK**
if you don't have a pacsun near you, you could try ordering clothes online, but that is sometimes hard because you don't know your size when your shopping online. i'm sure you could also find some good clothes at a store like Target or Kohls. but good luck :]
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well you could try shopping at Pac Sun. i know a lot of guys that wear there shirts. they have "skater" & "surfer" brands there. but you shouldn't worry about getting labled because i know some preppy guys that were this stuff and some punk guys that wear this. just wear whatever you feel comfortable in. and even if your insecure about your weight, you shouldn't cover up your body with heavy sweatshirts. wearing hoodies will just make you look even bigger.
I really really REALLY want to get my ears pierced. However, is it a problem that I've had them like....5 times before. Would they get really infected if I got them again? I also wanted to know if getting a piercing below the cartilage hurts. If I get it there, will it hurt?
Please help me!!!
okay well i had the same problem. but i found something that works so my ears don't get infected anymore. i put "new skin liquid bandage" on them. it is a liquid that you would normally put on cuts, but i put it on the post of my earrings. this way the earring never actually touches your ear. i found this out because i knew somebody that had diabetes and this is what she did to keep her ears from becoming infected. this works really well for me, so it should work for you too :]
and getting your ears pierced below the cartilage doesn't hurt as much as getting your cartilage pierced. but it still hurts. it is more like a quick sting.
I've tried doing my eye make up a lot of times but it just never looks right. I love this girls eye make up right here, and I'm wondering what she did to make it look so pretty and what she used. http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/sexiigurl94/blahhhhh.jpg How do I get my eye make up like hers??
for the eyeliner just get a black eye pencil. you need to put a line of black liner on the inside of your eye. like that thin line of your eyelid. then it looks like she is wearing a shimmery silvery blue eyeshadow color. so just put that all over the lid of your eye. DO NOT go up to your brown. stop once you reach the crease of your eye. then you need to apply two coats of black mascara and viola! your done! good luck. but this look will look the best with blue eyes. if you have brown eyes then i would replace the blue eyeshadow with a green shimmery shade. and if you have green eyes, use a shimmery brown.
good luck! and have fun with it :]
What colors of eyeshadow would look really really good for green eyes? I tried one of those almay ones that say they are really good for green eyes, with the purple on the lid, then dark green then light green, but it makes my eye look bruised. I use these colors already- pink,silver and green sometimes a skintone/goldish color. Any advice? i rate
well i would say that since green eyeshadow looks AMAZING with brown eyes, i would use brown eyeshadow on green eyes. not like a neon green. like a medium/dark shimmery green. i know that Mary Kay cosmetics makes a duo eyeshadow with dark and medium green shades in it.
I usally go to sleep around 4 or 5 in the morning and wake up at 2 or 3 in the day time. How can i go to bed earlier without taking pills. If i go to bed at 11 (when i want to) im not tired, and i cant go to sleep. I cant wake up earlier either because.. the rest of the day I might fall asleep in class or whatever because when I dont get enough sleep its not pretty. THANKS!
okay what i would do is pick one day where you don't have to go to class or work or anywhere. then i would go to sleep at your normal time but set an alarm for like 11 in the morning. then that day you will be tired from not getting enought sleep, but then you will also be able to fall asleep that night at a decent time. so if you fall asleep at like midnight then your body should wake you up around 10 in the morning. if you keep doing this then your body should get use to the changes.
im going to a new school this yearthis year. i've been in a catholic/private school since i was 3 years old. now i am going into eighth grade and im switching to a public school. i don't know what it will be like. i know a few kids there but i don't know if people will make fun of me since i new or whatever is going on. please help. i am 13 and f.
i don't think you will have any trouble fitting in. sometimes being new is a good thing. i would say just be yourself and be confident :]
ive tried a few things but nothing seems to work that well. around my nose, on the sides, it's like red because of oil build up i guess and it kind of outlines it, and i really would like it to go away before school starts in the last week of school. wat should i do? and wat are some good products that i should use?
you can use and of the Bioré Shine Control products. you might want to try their deep cleansing pore strips. that actually pull out all of the dirt and oil in your pores of your nose.
also get a face masque to use 1-2 times a week. biore has one, but i have Queen Helene Mint Julep Masque and i love it!
ok so i have a lot of discharge, and i have not had my period yet.well the discharge is ruining all my underwear. i live with my dad cause my mom passed away.if u tell me to get pads or something like that, tell me how to deal with telling my dad or how to get them.
thx a ton!
your dad is an adult, he will understand. it is also important to have pads ready for when you do get your period. if you can't just go up to your dad and ask him to take you to the store, then the next time both of you are at a drug store, go to the feminine hygene aisle and pick some up then tell your dad you need them. like this "here dad (shows him pads), we'll need to buy these to", then walk off and look at something else.
he's not going to think it is strange, especially since every girls has to buy pads at some point in her life.
14/f
Okay, I'm nervous. My period has'nt come yet and I usually get it on the 25th of the month or before, never usually after. The first time I got it was on the 5th of the month and the second time it became irregular and didn't come till the 25th and since then on, that's when it comes. I don't know, I'm just worried, I'm not pregnant because I'm a virgin. I've had my period for almost two years so I don't know what's up. Any info. would be helpful guys, thanks.
P.S: I have a feeling it's gonna come because my face is all broken out in pimples which is usually a sign.
don't worry about it :) your period is just irregular. i'm 14 also and i got mine for 2 months and then it just stopped coming! it didn't come for 6 months until i got it again. so don't panic. some people stop getting their period for a whole year before it comes back. so as long as your a virgin you have absolutely nothing to worry about :)
I'm getting my wisdom teeth taken out next week, and I am kind of scared, even though I'll be put to sleep. I guess the thought of people ripping out 4 of my teeth freaks me out.
Does anyone have any tips on getting through it, or getting through the soarness afterward? Thanks.
one piece of advice: buy frozen peas! lol it sounds weird but putting a bag of frozen peas on your cheeks works WAYYY better then an ice pack. my sister got her wisdom teeth out and the oral surguon even told her to use peas.
well i've never gotten my wisdom teeth out but i have gotten two teeth pulled without being put to sleep, and then i've gotten surgery on my mouth and have been put to sleep. to me, it was actually kind've fun to be put to sleep. because you don't remember anything. all i remember is getting a little tired and then BAM! i was awake and it was all over. for the pain, have a bunch of advil or pain killers near by and each soft foods. i've also heard that eating cold foods (ice cream or waterice...yumm) helps with the pain more then warm foods (soups). you can try mac n cheese, applesauce, and soo much more.
GOOD LUCK :]
what do i do my dogs are attatched to human table food they won't touch dog food so i have to make them breakfast lunch and dinner. tell me how i can get them to eat dog food. please........ thank you
well you can try adding a little water to the dog food then warming it up and make it like a mush. that way it reseambles human food a little more. you can also try sprinkling parmesan cheese on top of the food. i have also known dogs that like tomatoes, so try adding some tomatoe juice to the food.
GOOD LUCK!
you can also ask your vet about it :]
hey everyone... im 13/f and I have a serious problem sweating underneath my arms. I have tried a couple special deoderants, but they didn't work. Once I started shaving my under-arms last year was when all the sweating started.I heard there was a shot you could get to stop/not swaet as much...?? If anyone has ANYY info on this shot(name, price, where i can get it....) plzzzzzzz help me!!!!Thankx
well i don't know of a name or a price for the shot but i think you should just ask your doctor about it. you could also try googling it. i googled it and found some website that may help you:
http://www.hyperhidrosiscumc.com/
http://www.preventsweating.com/?gclid=CIOF3eyuxIYCFTY8OAod82WCkg
http://www.botox-cosmetic-surgery.com/news_botox_can_save_social_life.htm
from reading the last site, it seems like you could get botox injections in your armpits. so really i would just ask your doctor/mom about it and see what they think.