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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)
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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him?
who cares what he thinks? As long as your happy thats all that matters.
ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...
ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.
please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms
you're not spoiled, you just sound a little shallow for having to ask people on advicenators.
doez ne one know where i can find some cool/cute backgrounds for this sight cuz someone banned me! so i have to start over also doez ne one know if you can even put on music on here if so where can i find it and where do i paste it thx in advanced!
~kelly
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http://www.pickle-green.com/egraphics/news.php
http://www.tweeter.makes.it/
Well im 13/f and i weigh 105 or 110 i was wondering if i was the right weight or not and if im not then how much should i wiegh im worried!! Help me pleaze!! Bye bye!!
Theres not really a perfect weight for someone whos 13. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes, especially when you're body is going through some major changes. (which it probably is) It does matter how tall you are, so I would say if you are about 5 feet tall, then that is an okay weight.
Check out these websites though"
http://www.am-i-fat.com
http://www.seventeen.com/health
And make sure you ask your doctor about it.
--Johanna
I really need help!
I can't fall asleep ever, i'm getting in a really bad habbit, a REALLY bad one. School atarts in less then 3 weeks! And I start school around 6 *thats what time it's suggested that you wake up*
And I dont go to sleep un'till about 3:57 AM or atleast 6:24... Between those times. That means I'd have to stay up for almost 2 days straight!
Are sleeping pills healthy? I really have to get out of this habbit. It's going to ruin my whole school year!
And P.S: I sleep atleast untill 2 in the afternoon, Thats what time school ends. I can sleep through school!
So about the pills, what is a really good brand that really works. How long do they take to work and make you fall asleep (kick in)? I have pill-Phobia for large pills, Do they come in a big size? My parents don't want to spend over $50 for them. They want me to have a good education, do they effect your mood in anyway if you take them? How many do you take?
Sorry it was so long, but im trying to get as much information I possibally can.
Maddy
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Aww...I have the same problem too. My advice is to see your doctor about it. Usually its just stress though. Insomnia (Sleeplessness) occurs whn people have tooo much on their mind including stress and axiety. You might just be worried about school starting, and that could be a reason that you can't fall asleep. I would not sugguest sleeping pills because if you take them, it might be Really hard to wake up at 6 o clock in the morning. Here are some tips that might help:
1.Pick ONE time and stick to it.
2.Make up a bedtime ritual to let your body know that its time to go to sleep. (read, take a bath, brush your teeth)
3.Try not to sleep past 10 AM because the later you sleep in, the harder it is for your body to fall asleep at night.Also you want to get into the habit of waking up early for school.
4. Try this relazation tip when you are trying to fall asleep: lay there and pretend you are "sinking" into the bed, relax each of your muscles, as you relax them say them in your head- "arm, hand, foot, etc."
5. Try using special relaxation creams and lotions. I have one called badgers sleep enhancer and it really works. You can find them in stores like bath and bodyworks.
Make sure to talk to your doctor! Here are some websites that might help!
http://www.well.com/user/mick/insomnia/
http://www.stanford.edu/~dement/insomnia.html
Any further questions, please drop them into my inbox. Hope I helped!
P.S>don't try to think about falling asleep either. Just think about what your friends are doing or something.
i mean. what if your stomach is fat! but the rest is skinny i mean my stomach is not super fat but yeah ok im 13 and 5,5 is 130 the avrage weight?! yeah and what do guys look for. im so sick of every guy talking to me trying to get me in there car. i dont kno ok ill stop that was kinda random i rate high!
Yeah, i can relate. Poochy stomachs are the worst! But usually you lose them somehwere along the line of puberty. Um, I really think that if a guy is that obsessed about how you look, then its not worth it but you will find someone! Trust me, you will. try doing situps too if you want to really lose that tummy!
--Johanna
ok on friday i was supposed to go to the mall to meet up with a really close friend of mien with my best friend. since my parents are WAY over protective and wont let me if i told them i was goin to see a guy. i told my mom that i was goin shoppin and to the movies like a couple days ago and today she was like yea ok we will wait and see what happens, and since she trusts my friend a lot i know it would be a yes but then today she was talkin about friday about takin us swimmin and i was like i am not goin i am going to my friends house to go to the mall and the movies and she was like NO your not going to the movies or the mall wit your friend.. and i was like ok whay if i go to her house and she was like you can do that but not go to the mall. i mean today i was supposed to go to boardwalk wit her and she wont let me bc she has her party that she paid for to go to.. what i need to know is can someone help me out and make a plan that i could tell my mom or even tell her i am goin some place else bc the mall i guess wont work.. i need to go but i also dont want my mom to find out.. someone please help!! i have been waitin to see my close friend for like 2 weeks now... i have already tryed talkin to them about givin me some freedom and all they told me was ur 14 and at ur age you guys like to "experment" a lot of things.
yeah well noone ever said life was fair. You shouldn't waste all this time making a "plan" to see this guy. It's not worth it. Maybe you can try talking to your parents and being very mature. Make a compromise, give them your word you will not "experiment" with this guy. Or ask your parents if you can hang out with a group of friends. Like a group of 4 or more friends. That way you will be with more people, and it will be less likely that things will happen. Oh yeah and your parents just care about you, it sounds corny but it is supposively true.
My ex-boyfriend and I told eachother that we liked eachother a couple weeks ago, and since then we havent really hung out or anything. Which is weird cuz we were best friends b4 and after we went out. Is there any place i could ask him to go with me that wont really seem like a date, just a friends thing because we're "waiting" to go out again?
If you two have already tried to date, and it didn't work, then why try again? Maybe you're better off as friends. But anyways, if you really like him, you don't need to rush things. Just hang out as friends. It's not like your dating has to be "offical"
Hey! Skool is about to start and i have a problem! Well I started dating this guy um.. 7-12-05 well he goes to a different skool and well i dont like long distance rel. b/c i always think they will cheat! Also now that we have been together for a couple of weeks he acts different then he did when we first started goin out like he dont care as much! And well i sorda never got over my ex like a year ago and i miss him i need to know what to do like i wanna break up with this guy but i dont know what to tell him! please help!!
ASAP
Love Kayla
You should definitely ask him about it. It's true that some long distance relationships don't last but some do. Just casually bring it up, like "Do you still like me?" And if he says i don't know, that means he doesn't. And if he says yes, it probably means he does. Wait things out and see what happens. Alot of boys just aren't too....hmm....how to put this...."in touch" with their feelings, but some are. (which is great) So I wish you the best of luck!
much love, -Johanna
(13,female) ok so me and this kid were going out for 4 months and we're at 2 different schools but then he dumped me and said it was because we don't see eachother a lot but then i found out it was really for another girl...but then after a few months we went back out and hes asked me to makeout with him before but i'm kinda scared to cuz i don't want to mess up or anything i mean i'm going into 8th grade and a lot of kids makeout but like idk i'm just kinda nervous...i mean should i just makeout and hope i don't mess up or just wait..?
No, you shouldnt! Hes a jerk if he actually ASKS you to makeout with him. No offense, but making out should be a mutual (together) decision, or it should just happen like spur-of-the moment. Besides, how do you know hes not going to cheat again? I would wait and find some other guy, a nicer, more respectful one.
Me and my boyfriend (Greg)have been going out for almost 6 months.
Before I had no friends, and at the beginning of this year I started to hang out and become friends with his friends.
Then we started dating.
We are together almost all day every day,
because when I hang out with my friends, he is there too because they are his friends also.
I'm not saying I'm tired of this, I love being able to see my boyfriend all of the time. and I love him more than anything.
I can't help it if we have the same friends.
Is seeing my boyfriend every day unhealthy for the relationship?
It's not "unhealthy" But I would reccomend not doing it, because you both need seperate time to think, hang out with friends, and do what you want. You don't want him to think your clingy either, but if he is okay with it, then sure, it's okay.
ok so i have brown hair down to the middle of my back. i always wear it down and thats all. this year i wanna change the style of it, professionaly. any suggestions?
go here and pick your hair type and find some cute styles:
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/0,,,00.html
I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke?
No! All soda is pretty much bad, if you drink it alot. In fact, in some studies, it shows that diet soda is even worse for you because it makes you want to regain more calories. It's okay to drink soda occasionally but I wouldn't drink it every day....
ok, I am 14/M I am about 5'1"-5'3" & I weight like 120 lbs.
Over the past few weeks I have been under ALOT of stress, & all my stress seemed to go to my stomach & my chest
how do I get into shape, like what I want is like a 6-back & a better looking chest, so I was wondering if you could tell me a work out routine & a diet that would help me with this & how long it would take?
thank you so much, I REALLY appreciate this (I am trying to get my life fixed & start over)
You might want to start going to a gym. They will be able to help you with a personal routine. Also try doing situps, and make sure you are eating right. Eat light, fluffy foods like fruit or salad greens. And I know this sounds girly, but you might even want to take up yoga. It is very relaxing and stress-free.
I'm looking for some new, unique back to school clothes that will really get me noticed. Not like aeropostale or anything....Do you have any tips on wear to buy clothes? And also, what is a good price for a pair of pants?
Try Hot Topic, Zumiez, Forever 21, or Torrid. Most of their clothes are really interesting and bound to get you noticed. And a good price for a pair of pants is around 40 dollars.
Well i asked a question similiar to this but i still need help. she says she doesnt like me like more as a friend but i believe i can make her like me even more. but im not sure what do to or say. Girls please tell me what u like in a man. and guys help me out here apreciated ALOT thank you
You can't Make someone like you. If she doesn't like you, you need to move on. Just be friends with her. Sometimes friendships could turn into more, but you really can't go around expecting her to like you back.
well i have a problem... every one at school makes fun of me cuz i have like absoulutely no!!! boobs. i cant do anything about it but everyone makes fun of me like its my fault. i have no clue what to do. and the main reason why i have no boobs is because i havent had my period and its not like i can control that either! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
who cares? You should just tell them that they are low even for noticing that. Wow, what immature freaks. And you should tell them that even though your body hasn't matured yet, your mind sure has, unlike theirs. You will eventually...grow, so don't worry about it. It's completely normal. But if things with your classmates get worse, make sure you tell a teacher because it could be sexual harassment.
I am applying for a job at clothing store, and on the application it asks why I am applying for this position. The honest answer is because I need the money, but I know you're not supposed to say that on applications. So what should I say instead? Thank you.
You should say that you are interested in helping customers buying clothing. Maybe that you enjoy fashion, and that you like to (depending on what you want to do) provide help for the customers, make sure things are organized, yadda yadda yadda. Good luck!
The real question is... what shampoo do YOU use?
I use Dove because its so soft and light and smells so good! And sometimes i use various shampoos that my family members use. lol
Ok, I have a great BEST FRIEND!! But she thinks she is fat! I dont think she is at all, and she wants to loose weight, and be skinny like me. But I mean she really has to stop and think she has a great life and y worri about stuff like that right!! I hate when she holds her stomach and says I am soo fat!! It makes me sick!!! I just want her to know that I am here for her, for her descions!! But she has to stop and think!!
~Friend fat but NOT~
Well, I think you should tell your friend exactly what you told me. Tell her that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and that you like her the way she is. She shouldn't be afraid of what other people think about her.
P.S> watch out for any eating disorders she might develop. If she skips meals,(anorexia- when you stop eating) or runs to the bathroom every time after she eats, (bilimia- when she throws up her food purposely) then you definitely need to talk to her.
These websites might help:
http://www.am-i-fat.com
http://seventeen.com/health
http://www.anad.org/site/anadweb