(13,female) ok so me and this kid were going out for 4 months and we're at 2 different schools but then he dumped me and said it was because we don't see eachother a lot but then i found out it was really for another girl...but then after a few months we went back out and hes asked me to makeout with him before but i'm kinda scared to cuz i don't want to mess up or anything i mean i'm going into 8th grade and a lot of kids makeout but like idk i'm just kinda nervous...i mean should i just makeout and hope i don't mess up or just wait..?
ria_is_hurr answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 7:50 pm: hey*
hunny hunny hunny just go for it if he really likes you he wont care if you mess up once. and i think its about time you try something new. i made out a few times and my first time was a little weird its ok!
ari02 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 7:49 pm: well i say you just make out with him i mean no harm in that riight? just follow him hahah follow his tounge and let him lead you dotn really need to do much just let him take you just follow than all will be fine! =]
XoXsExYLaYCeEXoX answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 5:35 pm: i have been there...me and this guy went out and we went to different skools and he dumped me and said it was for that same reason and now he has a new girlfriend and i was lk really upset but im over it...guys like that arent worth it...and if yall broke up it was meant to be...i figured that out myself cause if my bf wouldnt have dumped me i never would have met josh,and hes treats me tons better...theres lots of guys out there babe
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ciminoisgawnyoful answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 5:10 pm: well i have a feeling it sounds like this guy is just using you for ass. You shouldnt trust him because he cheated on you and left you for another girl once TRUST me he will do it again! I understand the feeling you feel being scared to make out with someone but if your not comfortable with it dont hookin up with someone is a spur of the moment type of thing not to be planned..i mean if you really want to go for it but dont if you dont feel comfortable and you have a feeling he is going to break your heart agaiN. [ ciminoisgawnyoful's advice column | Ask ciminoisgawnyoful A Question ]
hckypuck answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 4:12 pm: like the person below me said ... dont rush into nething. plus he dumped you for another girl be4 y do you think he came back ?!?! its prolly cuz he just wants to use you. dont fall for that trap ... dont do nething you dont want to do
t0xicParadiSe answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 3:58 pm: dont rush into things your not comfortable with yet
if you dont want to make out with him just tell him
and you dont always have to do things other people do thats what makes each of us different
some people who reach their 20's still havent made out with someone
but if you really want to make out with your boyfriend just let him lead and go with the flow because no one can really help you with this it comes naturally
twistedsister17 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 3:55 pm: No, you shouldnt! Hes a jerk if he actually ASKS you to makeout with him. No offense, but making out should be a mutual (together) decision, or it should just happen like spur-of-the moment. Besides, how do you know hes not going to cheat again? I would wait and find some other guy, a nicer, more respectful one. [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
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