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(13,female) ok so me and this kid were going out for 4 months and we're at 2 different schools but then he dumped me and said it was because we don't see eachother a lot but then i found out it was really for another girl...but then after a few months we went back out and hes asked me to makeout with him before but i'm kinda scared to cuz i don't want to mess up or anything i mean i'm going into 8th grade and a lot of kids makeout but like idk i'm just kinda nervous...i mean should i just makeout and hope i don't mess up or just wait..? (link)
well i have a feeling it sounds like this guy is just using you for ass. You shouldnt trust him because he cheated on you and left you for another girl once TRUST me he will do it again! I understand the feeling you feel being scared to make out with someone but if your not comfortable with it dont hookin up with someone is a spur of the moment type of thing not to be planned..i mean if you really want to go for it but dont if you dont feel comfortable and you have a feeling he is going to break your heart agaiN.


my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
thats horrible!! aww im sorry. You kno what you need to tell your mom to shut up and that not everyone is perfect and that just because she was however she was wen she was young that you dont have to be like her to. Im sure your beatful and maybe ur mom is just afraid that all the guys are gonna come after you so shes tryin to put you down which is not good at all. aww im sorry i know how you feel because all my mom does is tell me im fat and then everyone else is like what is she smokeing ur not fat so she makes me feel so fat.its so annoying. feel better dont let her get to you.


my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
thats horrible!! aww im sorry. You kno what you need to tell your mom to shut up and that not everyone is perfect and that just because she was however she was wen she was young that you dont have to be like her to. Im sure your beatful and maybe ur mom is just afraid that all the guys are gonna come after you so shes tryin to put you down which is not good at all. aww im sorry i know how you feel because all my mom does is tell me im fat and then everyone else is like what is she smokeing ur not fat so she makes me feel so fat.its so annoying. feel better dont let her get to you.


Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight (link)
well i have the same exact problem. Um what i use is the iron for clothes even tho its not heaty but it comes out pin straight and it looks really good and last for a couple of days..


me and my boyfriend love eachother ALOT nd hes comin to see me for the first time whut can i get him? he likes rap nd he raps (link)
how can u love eachother ALOT if u nva saw eachother?


ok... my boyfriend and i broke up.... i wen to the place where my friends hang out..... he was stripping on a table.... my friends grabbed me and through me up next to him.. he was naked.. i was in my bra and undies. he kissed me then i punched him.. i put my clothes on.. but accidently put his shirt on. he came over one day to get it. i was napping at the moment. he layed down next to me. i knew he was there. i was pretending to sleep. i was on my stomach at the time. he kissed my cheek. i turned over but still pretending to sleep.i was then on my back... he whispered in my ear.. i just need my shirt.. so he took it off. i still was pretending to sleep. i was in my bra. i did not care because he already saw me. then he put his hand down my pants and fingered me. i popped up and made out with him. was that a stupid mistake? should i like do something to him?? we are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend again??? i need advice.. should i give him another chance?

13/f (link)
well what i think is...i mean he seems that he is just using you for ass..or maybe he realized that he missed you. Nd i mean if you let him do that stuff to you then you obviously do still care about him other wise you wouldnt allow it. But why would you let him take your shirt off and everything because your just giving him what he wants..and once he gets it he'll leave you...trust me on this one. Guys are jerks..if u really feel you want to go right ahead but i dont know because i have a feeling you might get hurt.




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